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s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

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IrishLasss334
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s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

If you are CF and plan to stay child free, but you are still married, do you plan on selling your dress?

Mine is in the box..I had planned to use it if we had children but that didn't happen.

Part of me says just sell it, but I love it, I know I'll never wear it again, but I loved wearing it.

What are other people doing?

Posted 3/2/11 6:01 AM
 

dfw343
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

Like I said in other post, even if I had kids, I'd sell it.

None of us wore our Mother's dress, ya know?

Posted 3/2/11 8:20 AM
 

Lisa
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

Funny you should bring this up. My DH was in the attic and moving things around and asked if he could move my wedding dress to the other side. I laughed and said I didnt even remember it was up there. I think am going to have him take it down and I will donate it.

Neither my sister or I wore my moms gown (it was a mess nevermind a size 2) and I dont think my neice will want to wear mine.

I think back to all the money i spend to "preserve" it!

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Posted 3/2/11 8:49 AM
 

Christine
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

I donated mine to the Bridal Garden like a year after the wedding. They sell the gowns and the proceeds go to Sheltering Arms Childrens' Services who works with different programs in NYC communities.

Posted 3/2/11 9:03 AM
 

SusiBee
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

Mine is hanging on my closet door as it has been for the past 3 and a half years.
Still haven't cleaned it.

I'm not sure what I want to do with it, but I'm not ready to get rid of it yet.

Posted 3/2/11 9:11 AM
 

DirtyBlonde
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

I still haven't cleaned it...I'd like to sell it but I'm lazy.

Posted 3/2/11 1:00 PM
 

tourist

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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

Mine was cleaned & boxed because my mother wanted to do it.
She has it in her attic.

If she gives it to me, I'm not sure what I would do.

I can't imagine anyone else wanting to look at it or use it for anything.

Posted 3/2/11 1:17 PM
 

drpepper318
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

Posted by SusiBee

Mine is hanging on my closet door as it has been for the past 3 and a half years.
Still haven't cleaned it.

I'm not sure what I want to do with it, but I'm not ready to get rid of it yet.


Same exactly for me!
I don't know if I'll have kids but doesn't matter as far as my dress is concerned... I'm sure my kid wouldn't want to wear it anyway.
I really need to figure out what to do with it. I'd be a little sad to get rid of it.

Posted 3/2/11 7:05 PM
 

Kimidanny1010
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

i had mine perserved.... i could never part with it... my mom still has her's boxed under her bed... she never even offered it for me..

p.s. - it's a good luck charm in my family to keep your wedding dress under your bed... everyone does it !

Posted 3/3/11 12:42 AM
 

Mushesgirl
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

as i posted there I sold mine on ebay

Posted 3/3/11 9:09 AM
 

jilliibabii
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

I don't harbor any illusions that my kid is ever going to want to wear my wedding dress. I do however want to use the lace to make a christening gown when I have kids though. But now MIL tells me they have a one that's been in the family for generations. Except it's hideous. Here's hoping SIL has kids before I do which is extremely likely! Chat Icon Chat Icon

ETA: Actually, my dress still hasn't been cleaned either and I was in the ocean with my dress!

Message edited 3/3/2011 9:22:14 AM.

Posted 3/3/11 9:20 AM
 

LisaW
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

mine is in the basement in a box

I was thinking about doing a TTD shoot, although the dress is actually a bit big on me now Chat Icon

Posted 3/3/11 5:49 PM
 

IrishLasss334
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

Posted by LisaW

mine is in the basement in a box

I was thinking about doing a TTD shoot, although the dress is actually a bit big on me now Chat Icon



Me too! we should both get them taken in and do it together!

Posted 3/3/11 6:58 PM
 

Beth
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

Posted by DirtyBlonde

I still haven't cleaned it...I'd like to sell it but I'm lazy.



ditto

I feel like selling it as is- $100

but that would require me to drive to Queens to measure it (I stashed it at my grandma's)

Posted 3/3/11 7:04 PM
 

EclecticEsq10810
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

Its still sitting in my closet, dirty and unpreserved. I plan to get it preserved and then wait a few years to possibly sell it (if $$ gets tight or whatever)...

Posted 3/4/11 11:46 AM
 

Jackie24
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

I wouldn't sell mine, with or without kids. It means a lot to me!

Posted 3/4/11 9:12 PM
 

PrincessVonTrockel
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

I had mine preserved.....I LOOOOOOVE my dress and have it on display in my closet in one of those big barbie type boxes with a clear window.

Posted 3/4/11 10:42 PM
 

LitBallerinaGirl
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

My intention was to do a "trash your dress" shoot, but my MIL paid for my dress and when I told her DH and I planned to do that she almost had a heart attack.
Now it sits in a box in our basement indefinitely.

Posted 3/5/11 9:56 PM
 

dctead
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Re: s/o from relationships - wedding dress for cf?

Posted by LitBallerinaGirl

My intention was to do a "trash your dress" shoot, but my MIL paid for my dress and when I told her DH and I planned to do that she almost had a heart attack.
Now it sits in a box in our basement indefinitely.



LOL.. My mom was the same way.. freaked when I said I was thinking about it!

Mine is still in my closet... and I had no clue what to do with it until I spoke to a friend of mine...

She suggested that there are places to have it made into a quilt... so I am now investigating that!

Posted 3/7/11 10:34 AM
 
 

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