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jasmine
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spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
There's a thread on the Home board about whether a street name would be a dealbreaker for you in buying a home. My question is, would/has a potential significant other's last name be a dealbreaker for you in dating them? (I know many women dont take their husbands name, but my sister refused to meet a guy she was otherwise interested in dating because of his last name)
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JessInCA
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
Just dating? No, I don't think it would stop me from at least getting to know the guy. Whether or not to take his name should we get married in the future would definitely cross my mind though.
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| Posted 4/4/11 11:04 AM |
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
not a deal breaker. I don't love my DH's last name but I love him. I'd rather a great guy with a not-so-great name than a bad/ok guy with a good name.
(and I took his name)
Message edited 4/4/2011 11:11:17 AM.
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| Posted 4/4/11 11:09 AM |
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Mrs213
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
No but then again I have never dated a guy with an unusual last name...
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| Posted 4/4/11 11:15 AM |
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missfabulous
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
Posted by staceyums81
No but then again I have never dated a guy with an unusual last name...
Same here
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| Posted 4/4/11 11:16 AM |
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StaceyWill
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
I'm not a huge fan of my new last name, but I never looked at it as a dealbreaker.
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| Posted 4/4/11 11:17 AM |
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MrsS6510
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
Nope, never had that happen, lol.
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| Posted 4/4/11 11:22 AM |
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DiamondGirl
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
No way!
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| Posted 4/4/11 11:22 AM |
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Jenhos
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
Not a dealbreaker but I most likely wouldn't take his name if it was that bad.
I know someone who married a guy last name Swallow. Her name is XXXX May So she opted not to take his name so she wouldn't be XXX May Swallow.
Their kids will have her last name.
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| Posted 4/4/11 11:35 AM |
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CaMacho
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
No not a dealbreaker... I would at least meet the guy to see if we hit it off.
My aunt dated a guy for a long time with the last name Head, i'll never forget it but it didn't stop her from being with him (she didn't end up marrying him though).
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| Posted 4/4/11 11:38 AM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
No. While I always dreamed of marrying someone with a simple last name, the guy I fell in love with didn't have one.
If I judged people by their last names, I would have missed out on my favorite time of my life thus far.
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| Posted 4/4/11 11:39 AM |
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fight the future
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
Nope.
I just wouldn't.
I don't like DH's last name and haven't taken it.
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| Posted 4/4/11 11:40 AM |
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AngnShaun
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
i never thought about it...
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| Posted 4/4/11 11:42 AM |
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Domino
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
a friend of mine dated someone whose last name was the same as her first name didnt stop her from dating him though!
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| Posted 4/4/11 11:42 AM |
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jasmine
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
this guy was very cute and my sister was interested until he heard his last name: Doucher (he's french - it is pronounced du-sherr) and she wouldn't even meet him after that!  
I would have still given him a chance, but if we got serious I'd lean towards keeping my maiden name and who knows, if the name was really bad he'd take my name 
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| Posted 4/4/11 12:00 PM |
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CunningOne
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
NO! If I didn't like the last name, I would just keep my maiden name. As it was, we both had pretty common, sitcom family names. Didn't really bother me at all.
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| Posted 4/4/11 12:27 PM |
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gporka23
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
I have to say NO here bc my married name is the worst and I get made fun of everyday for it.... I miss my maiden name 
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| Posted 4/4/11 12:46 PM |
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heathergirl
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
I seem to pick guys with off the wall names.
I dated a Konrad, a guy who's first name was the same as the last name, and a Krauthamer.
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| Posted 4/4/11 12:55 PM |
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CouponKT
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
when I married my DH, he made my names rhyme 
I get a laugh here and there for it, but the good outweighs the bad 
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| Posted 4/4/11 3:41 PM |
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rightasrain
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
my SIL's maiden name was Pimple...she was so happy to get rid of it. and i am proud he didn't NOT meet her because her last name was atrocious!
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| Posted 4/4/11 3:46 PM |
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DirtyBlonde
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
went on a date once with a guy whose last name was d1ck. what can you do. no one HAS to change their last name when they get married.
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| Posted 4/4/11 3:53 PM |
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AngnShaun
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
Posted by DirtyBlonde
went on a date once with a guy whose last name was d1ck. what can you do. no one HAS to change their last name when they get married.
my friend was telling me this weekend that her aids last name is.... Dicklicha
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| Posted 4/4/11 3:54 PM |
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rightasrain
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by DirtyBlonde
went on a date once with a guy whose last name was d1ck. what can you do. no one HAS to change their last name when they get married.
my friend was telling me this weekend that her aids last name is.... Dicklicha
ha! hard or soft ch- sound??
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| Posted 4/4/11 3:55 PM |
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AngnShaun
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
Posted by rightasrain
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by DirtyBlonde
went on a date once with a guy whose last name was d1ck. what can you do. no one HAS to change their last name when they get married.
my friend was telling me this weekend that her aids last name is.... Dicklicha
ha! hard or soft ch- sound??
shes too afraid to ask... lol
shes Mrs. D. lol
Message edited 4/4/2011 3:56:24 PM.
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DirtyBlonde
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Re: spinoff to the dealbreaker thread on Home
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by DirtyBlonde
went on a date once with a guy whose last name was d1ck. what can you do. no one HAS to change their last name when they get married.
my friend was telling me this weekend that her aids last name is.... Dicklicha
oh man i just cackled
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