ok need advice..

i have a friend that i have known seice the 6th grade and tomorrow we are having his kids batizem here at my house .i offered my house on one condition that his wife come help me out and get things set up.. (she never came over)well about 3 o'clock today he called me and said get this one..."is everything ready for tomorrow" dh and i are god parents to there kids and i really don't mind but this is the second time he has said something about it. ast week when i was done with my first bbq here he turned and said the living room is going to be done right before the baptizm you know this is my family. now i am getting bothered by all this. i am so po'ed and not sure now if i want to do it at all. he can't have it where he lives or anywhere else.(i think i might have posted about the first one last week not too sure) what do i do or say? please help


TIA

Message edited 6/25/2005 8:31:33 PM.

Re: ok need advice..

tell him it's not all ready yet because you're waiting for them to come over and help

and if he has a problem with it, tell him you have a problem with him using you and your house!

if they dont' do anything to help out - i'd say this should be the last time you do something like this to help them out

Re: ok need advice..

ty sweety i am trying to get a hold of them but no answer on cell or house