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BigSmooch
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Feeling Down During 2WW
I hate the two week wait 
We've both been trying to "relax" about trying and just have unproctected sex in the hopes that something happens but it will still be a disappointment if AF shows this month.
I do great the first 2 1/2 weeks of every cycle and then when it gets close to AF being due I start to lose it. I get sad. I think about the baby I lost. I worry that I'll never get pregnant again. I wonder why it's taking so long t conceive. I'm an emotional wreck. PMS could play into but I know a lot of it is "me". I try to stay positive (my DH begs me to be positive) but then I feel like the disappointment will be even greater if I'm not knocked up.
Does this happen to anyone else?  I hope I can make it through the next 10 days.
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Posted 6/6/11 11:16 AM  |
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keepingsecrets
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Re: Feeling Down During 2WW
i'm in the 2ww too after our first IUI and i'm a mess! lol! i'm TRYING to stay calm but it's very hard. DH is the picture of cool too and doesn't understand why i obsess in the 2ww so that makes it harder. i'm trying to keep busy so that time moves faster but that's not working! sending you lots of  i hope this month is it for both of us! 
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| Posted 6/6/11 11:48 AM |
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BigSmooch
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Re: Feeling Down During 2WW
What is with men?  LOL!
Lots of luck to you also! We need some good news on this board so I'm hoping this is it for you too!
In the meantime I hope we can remain calm. 
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| Posted 6/6/11 1:04 PM |
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keepingsecrets
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Re: Feeling Down During 2WW
Posted by BigSmooch
What is with men? LOL!
Lots of luck to you also! We need some good news on this board so I'm hoping this is it for you too!
In the meantime I hope we can remain calm.
yeah, men are annoying sometimes  even though my DH has gone through all the loss with me, and feels so sad too, he cannot understand why i obsess and POAS constantly. he just thinks why not wait until AF is late.......if it were only that easy!!!
i hope we both have good news to share on this board soon!!
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| Posted 6/6/11 3:15 PM |
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BigSmooch
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Re: Feeling Down During 2WW
Posted by keepingsecrets
Posted by BigSmooch
What is with men? LOL!
Lots of luck to you also! We need some good news on this board so I'm hoping this is it for you too!
In the meantime I hope we can remain calm.
yeah, men are annoying sometimes even though my DH has gone through all the loss with me, and feels so sad too, he cannot understand why i obsess and POAS constantly. he just thinks why not wait until AF is late.......if it were only that easy!!!
i hope we both have good news to share on this board soon!!
That is exactly my husband! He doesn't understand why I can't just be patient and wait to see if I miss AF.
I try, I really do, but if I'm not pregnant I want to make peace with it asap. I don't want to be thinking I might be when I'm not. For him it makes no difference!
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| Posted 6/6/11 5:24 PM |
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keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!
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Re: Feeling Down During 2WW
Posted by BigSmooch
Posted by keepingsecrets
Posted by BigSmooch
What is with men? LOL!
Lots of luck to you also! We need some good news on this board so I'm hoping this is it for you too!
In the meantime I hope we can remain calm.
yeah, men are annoying sometimes even though my DH has gone through all the loss with me, and feels so sad too, he cannot understand why i obsess and POAS constantly. he just thinks why not wait until AF is late.......if it were only that easy!!!
i hope we both have good news to share on this board soon!!
That is exactly my husband! He doesn't understand why I can't just be patient and wait to see if I miss AF.
I try, I really do, but if I'm not pregnant I want to make peace with it asap. I don't want to be thinking I might be when I'm not. For him it makes no difference!
i'm totally the same! i need to know so i can be make peace with it as much as possible if it's a bfn. plus, now that i've had a chemical, i feel like the only way to know that's happening is by testing early. when i had my chemical in november, i never would've known if i hadn't gotten all of those positive tests...i would've just thought AF was late. although, now that we're doing IUI, i have a scheduled beta so there really is no excuse to POAS...but i will anyway
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| Posted 6/6/11 6:18 PM |
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