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mnmsoinlove
Mommy to 2 sweet girls!
Member since 3/09 8585 total posts
Name: Melissa
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Joining here unfortunatly
Hi ladies, I just found out two weeks ago I was pregnant. I was so over joyed, I wasn't even trying and we were so surprised but so over joyed! I have a 9 month old dd who was conceived after months of infertility treatments and was told I could never get pregnant without IF help. So when I saw a positive pregnancy test I was beyond shocked and happy. After a few betas my ob called last night to tell me I should start to miscarry soon, although I haven't yet, My beta is back down to 11 =(. I am just so crushed. I can't understand why I would be able to get pregnant all on our own and now its being taken away. I am scared of what miscarrying is going to be like. This is such a sad time, I don't even know what to feel or how to feel. Sorry my post is so long and rambling I just had to vent to someone.
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Posted 6/9/11 2:20 PM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
Name: Ang
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
I am so sorry
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Posted 6/9/11 2:31 PM |
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Chri0927
LIF Infant
Member since 2/09 106 total posts
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
So sorry...I am currently going through it right now as well.
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Posted 6/9/11 2:56 PM |
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Chai77
Brighter days ahead
Member since 4/07 7364 total posts
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
I'm so sorry to hear that. The girls here understand what you are going through- it is a shocking, horrible, devastating experience. I hope you start to heal physically and emotionally very soon.
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Posted 6/9/11 3:23 PM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
Member since 6/10 21539 total posts
Name: Stacey
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
I'm so sorry!!!
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Posted 6/9/11 3:31 PM |
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Pomegranate5
LIF Adult
Member since 2/11 4798 total posts
Name: Pomegranate5
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
I'm so sorry
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Posted 6/9/11 3:56 PM |
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beachgirl
LIF Adult
Member since 7/05 7967 total posts
Name: sara
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
I am so sorry for your loss. I suffered a loss two weeks ago and its just so difficult.
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Posted 6/9/11 3:58 PM |
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skinny
3 boys and a princess!
Member since 11/08 8178 total posts
Name: Momma
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
I am so sorry for your loss. I am dealing with the same thing-----a natural pregnancy after IF. It was such a surprise and to have it all taken away just sucks.
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Posted 6/9/11 6:10 PM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
Member since 7/07 8611 total posts
Name: M
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
I am so sorry for your loss. Emotions can run so differently during a miscarriage. I swore I could never get through it (though I still havent 100%) but its true what they say (and what the girls on here say) time does heal....it is very hard now but time will heal you...we are here when you need us
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Posted 6/9/11 6:36 PM |
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keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!
Member since 7/09 1912 total posts
Name:
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
i'm so sorry for your loss
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Posted 6/9/11 9:48 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
Name: Jib
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
I am so sorry you have to go through this .. especially after having gone through IF treatments to conceive your DD, I can so strongly imagine the excitement you must have felt being able to do it this time without help.
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Posted 6/9/11 11:21 PM |
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myturn
LIF Zygote
Member since 11/10 45 total posts
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
so sorry
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Posted 6/10/11 5:10 AM |
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mnmsoinlove
Mommy to 2 sweet girls!
Member since 3/09 8585 total posts
Name: Melissa
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
Thank you ladies. Reading your responses means so much. I started bleeding last night which was emotionally really rough. Hoping time makes it better
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Posted 6/10/11 8:36 AM |
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JKinCT
Gonna be a big sister!
Member since 11/07 1559 total posts
Name: Korin
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
I also used infertility treatments to get pg with DD. When DD was 4 months old, we found out that we were pg again (no IF needed). We were scared, but so excited. At 8 weeks we went in for a sonogram and I was only measuring 7 weeks and no heartbeat.
I understand what you are going through. That doesn't make it any easier, but having this board as support makes it a little better. We are here!
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Posted 6/13/11 3:11 PM |
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CallaLily
Thank you, Saint Gerard!
Member since 10/07 4937 total posts
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly
I am so sorry
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Posted 6/14/11 8:36 AM |
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