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mnmsoinlove
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Joining here unfortunatly

Hi ladies, I just found out two weeks ago I was pregnant. I was so over joyed, I wasn't even trying and we were so surprised but so over joyed! I have a 9 month old dd who was conceived after months of infertility treatments and was told I could never get pregnant without IF help. So when I saw a positive pregnancy test I was beyond shocked and happy. After a few betas my ob called last night to tell me I should start to miscarry soon, although I haven't yet, My beta is back down to 11 =(. I am just so crushed. I can't understand why I would be able to get pregnant all on our own and now its being taken away. I am scared of what miscarrying is going to be like. This is such a sad time, I don't even know what to feel or how to feel. Sorry my post is so long and rambling I just had to vent to someone. Chat Icon

Posted 6/9/11 2:20 PM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

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Ang

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Posted 6/9/11 2:31 PM
 

Chri0927
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Re: Joining here unfortunatly

So sorry...I am currently going through it right now as well.Chat Icon

Posted 6/9/11 2:56 PM
 

Chai77
Brighter days ahead

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Re: Joining here unfortunatly

I'm so sorry to hear that. The girls here understand what you are going through- it is a shocking, horrible, devastating experience. I hope you start to heal physically and emotionally very soon. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/9/11 3:23 PM
 

StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

Member since 6/10

21539 total posts

Name:
Stacey

Re: Joining here unfortunatly

I'm so sorry!!! Chat Icon

Posted 6/9/11 3:31 PM
 

Pomegranate5
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Pomegranate5

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Posted 6/9/11 3:56 PM
 

beachgirl
LIF Adult

Member since 7/05

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Name:
sara

Re: Joining here unfortunatly

I am so sorry for your loss. I suffered a loss two weeks ago and its just so difficult.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/9/11 3:58 PM
 

skinny
3 boys and a princess!

Member since 11/08

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Momma

Re: Joining here unfortunatly

I am so sorry for your loss. I am dealing with the same thing-----a natural pregnancy after IF. It was such a surprise and to have it all taken away just sucks. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/9/11 6:10 PM
 

bettybcafe
Big brother in the making

Member since 7/07

8611 total posts

Name:
M

Re: Joining here unfortunatly

I am so sorry for your loss. Emotions can run so differently during a miscarriage. I swore I could never get through it (though I still havent 100%) but its true what they say (and what the girls on here say) time does heal....it is very hard now but time will heal you...we are here when you need us Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/9/11 6:36 PM
 

keepingsecrets
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Posted 6/9/11 9:48 PM
 

PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)

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Jib

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I am so sorry you have to go through this .. especially after having gone through IF treatments to conceive your DD, I can so strongly imagine the excitement you must have felt being able to do it this time without help.


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Posted 6/9/11 11:21 PM
 

myturn
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Member since 11/10

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Posted 6/10/11 5:10 AM
 

mnmsoinlove
Mommy to 2 sweet girls!

Member since 3/09

8585 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: Joining here unfortunatly

Thank you ladies. Reading your responses means so much. I started bleeding last night which was emotionally really rough. Hoping time makes it better

Posted 6/10/11 8:36 AM
 

JKinCT
Gonna be a big sister!

Member since 11/07

1559 total posts

Name:
Korin

Re: Joining here unfortunatly

I also used infertility treatments to get pg with DD. When DD was 4 months old, we found out that we were pg again (no IF needed). We were scared, but so excited. At 8 weeks we went in for a sonogram and I was only measuring 7 weeks and no heartbeat.

I understand what you are going through. That doesn't make it any easier, but having this board as support makes it a little better. We are here! Chat Icon

Posted 6/13/11 3:11 PM
 

CallaLily
Thank you, Saint Gerard!

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Posted 6/14/11 8:36 AM
 
 

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