My daughter turns 1 on Christmas. My husband's sisters had their children's first birthdays at Roma View with 120 people. My husband and I can't afford something that big since I am not working. We live in a house. My daughter has 6 first cousins (3yrs old and younger). If we include my daughter's second cousins that adds 5 more kids under 5 and 15 adults and we would have to do it out (we did it out forger Christening).

Ideas on theme? I thought of a Winter One-derland theme. At home or out? If we do it at home, should we do one party on Christmas and just do immediate family? Do you give goodie-bags on Christmas to kids?

If we do it out, places that are reasonable in Queens or Nassau?