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HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

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getinmybelly
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HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

hi there! im in hiding. we just started TTC recently and im definitely a ball of emotions! and clueless!!!!

im not temping, using OPKs or anything, we're just kind of 'going with the flow' if you will..

anyway, heres my issue.. i have been off BCP since September. since then cycles have been normal. 28 days to the T.

until may.. may was 34 days.

today is CD 38. no period and BFN.

we Chat Icon on CD 12,13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 27, 28, 33.

so my question is.. have any of you ladies ever heard of or experienced with previous pregnancies.. BFN and then all of a sudden a BFP out of no where?? this all seems crazy to me, especially bc i was always 'normal'

i called my obgyn and i have an appointment thursday am. just want to make sure everything is ok with my body! i have had a few cysts over the years. i guess ill be in limbo until then!

(ive tested with amazon cheapies and FRER)

Message edited 6/27/2011 3:04:14 PM.

Posted 6/27/11 2:54 PM
 
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PartyO4
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Re: HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

Anything is possible. Have you been tracking every cycle since September? Meaning, you know they're always 28 days? Mine are typically 26-28 days, but I had a month where it was 36. I happen to be using OPKs, so I knew I ovulated late, so I wasn't surprised to see the late cycle. Are you tracking anything else that would give you an idea of when you may have O'd?

Fortunately, or unfortunately!, you can time everything right, but BFP is not always guaranteed. And to answer your question, I do have friends who tested and later got BFPs.

Hope this helps!

Posted 6/27/11 3:13 PM
 

Cheeks24
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Re: HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

Welcome to my world Chat Icon

You probably O'd later and could be PG.

Posted 6/27/11 3:53 PM
 

bettybcafe
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Re: HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

Ok, first I want to say DAMN THATS A WHOLE LOTTA LOVIN'!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon You better be pregnant after all those love sessions Chat Icon Chat Icon Anway, I dont have much advice but you can most def. get a BFN one day and then a BFP the next day or a few days later.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/27/11 5:26 PM
 

getinmybelly
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Re: HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

Posted by bettybcafe

Ok, first I want to say DAMN THATS A WHOLE LOTTA LOVIN'!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon You better be pregnant after all those love sessions Chat Icon Chat Icon Anway, I dont have much advice but you can most def. get a BFN one day and then a BFP the next day or a few days later.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon




Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon A for Effort i guess!

i just feel that its so late in my cycle that i should have a BFP by now.. unless i ovulated super late. i hate this game! Chat Icon

Posted 6/27/11 5:32 PM
 

getinmybelly
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Re: HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

Posted by PartyO4

Anything is possible. Have you been tracking every cycle since September? Meaning, you know they're always 28 days? Mine are typically 26-28 days, but I had a month where it was 36. I happen to be using OPKs, so I knew I ovulated late, so I wasn't surprised to see the late cycle. Are you tracking anything else that would give you an idea of when you may have O'd?

Fortunately, or unfortunately!, you can time everything right, but BFP is not always guaranteed. And to answer your question, I do have friends who tested and later got BFPs.

Hope this helps!



i always wrote down the day AF was due on a calendar and it was always spot on.

im not tracking anything else. maybe i should start..

Posted 6/27/11 5:34 PM
 

MrsKS
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Re: HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

That looks like my kind of Chat Icon schedule!! I'm all for more sex!!!! Great job there!!!

I think it's still possible. If you have a longer cycle this time around... it might just be a few more days. Some girls don't get a BFP right when AF is due. Some girls never get a BFP on a HPT for some reason but they are actually pregnant.

Good Luck at the dr on thurs!!!

Posted 6/27/11 6:50 PM
 

dazies827
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Re: HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

Welcome and I wish I had a Chat Icon schedule like youChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/27/11 8:16 PM
 

MrsM429
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Re: HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

welcome!


i don't have much advice to offer (im basically clueless lol), but I wish you lots and lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/27/11 8:31 PM
 

cateyemm
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Re: HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

welcome! i dont have any advice byut i hope your stay is short!

Posted 6/27/11 8:36 PM
 

hopingforbaby2012
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Re: HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

No experience but I hope you get a late BFP!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/27/11 8:38 PM
 

gina409
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g

Re: HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

so many things can throw a cycle off by a few days..esp when u r ttc

stress if u r sick..little things

it really sucks but it all comes with the territoryChat Icon

Posted 6/27/11 9:03 PM
 

LoLaBlue
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Re: HI! new here.. in hiding with some advice needed!

Posted by dazies827

Welcome and I wish I had a Chat Icon schedule like youChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



me too! thats a whole lotta Chat Icon

Posted 6/28/11 8:18 AM
 
 

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