If you sent someone a cash gift in the mail question

I'll preface that I know it's dumb to send cash but here's the story and question-

DH and I missed two weddings bc I was late in my third tri. I meant to send gifts promptly but it slipped my mind. I ended up sending cards with cash about 4 weeks later. I would have send checks but I was waiting for a new check book and didn't want to put the gifts off any longer since I was already so late.

I never heard from either of the girls. First I right they would call/text but then I thought it was dumb of me to think that and I would get a thank you along with everyone else months from now when they get their pics back.

Wwyd? DH said I should text them bc he thinks the cash was detected and the envelopes robbed. I think that's silly and I will get a thank you in Jan/Feb. ftr I don't care about the thank you- just thinking maybe the gifts never reached their destinations

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i would wait a little longer.... i got a handful of gifts after the fact and i sent out those TYs with everyone elses...

Re: If you sent someone a cash gift in the mail question

I would be worried in regards to sending cash or a gift card in the mail. Especially at the holidays so many of our envelopes came opened and torn and there was nothing of value inside. I would follow up just to ensure they arrived safely!

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Do you know if anyone else who went to the wedding got a thank you yet?