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Is it just me?

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MrsS6510
2 girls?!?!?

Member since 9/10

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L

Is it just me?

Or does it seem like everyone else around you is having babies????? I log on to FB today and my newsfeed is covered in babies. It's like "HEY! Look at everyone who has babies.......and you don't"

Sorry, just a vent.....

Posted 1/4/12 11:55 AM
 

EnV-McC
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Re: Is it just me?

Yeah I feel the same way. I especially get angry when I see bad parenting (i.e. my half sister dumping her kids with anyone who will take them so she can party all the time).

For me I just see the "wrong" people being able to have kids, and I think "why them and not me". I know it's wrong and toxic to think that way, but it's just how I feel. Hang in there love, we will get our babies soon. Chat Icon

Message edited 1/4/2012 12:45:24 PM.

Posted 1/4/12 12:45 PM
 

MrsS6510
2 girls?!?!?

Member since 9/10

3318 total posts

Name:
L

Re: Is it just me?

Posted by EnV-McC

I especially get angry when I see bad parenting



Oh please, this is the story of my life. I'm a social worker, working with teens and their families, and I used to work in foster care, so I see bad parenting every single day.

Posted 1/4/12 12:46 PM
 

Thats-what-she-said
LIF Infant

Member since 2/11

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Just Me

Re: Is it just me?

I'm in the same boat as you. It seems like everyone is having a baby. I am so jealous it hurts.

Posted 1/4/12 12:53 PM
 

iBCraZ131
Love my girls!

Member since 8/07

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Melissa

Re: Is it just me?

I wholeheartedly agree with you and feel the same way.

Posted 1/4/12 4:09 PM
 

AllyH
LIF Infant

Member since 1/11

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Ally

Re: Is it just me?

I am right there with you. And I just found out my sister is having a baby........

Posted 1/4/12 8:48 PM
 

seasaw
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Re: Is it just me?

Yes! I know we are "at that age" and all and don't get me wrong I am beyond thrilled for every single friend who gets preggo but it stings. It didn't after my first few losses but now I have moments where I see a pregnant woman and my stomach drops.

Posted 1/4/12 11:15 PM
 

rmber123
LIF Zygote

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Re: Is it just me?

I was thinking the same thing. When i just found out we were pregnant i figured i was noticing peoples belly bumps because of that. Now that i'm having a mc, i sooo envy all of their little belly bumps. Right now i can't even go to fb since so many of my friends have the tickers on there that post their progress daily.

Posted 1/6/12 8:15 AM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

Member since 1/10

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Ang

Re: Is it just me?

I was going to post this morning... but i got side tracked with something else. But my post was going to be something to the effect of how this aspect does not really get any easier. And how although I LOVE FB, its become somewhat difficult to go on because i always expect to see a sono pic... and true to form i just went on and there it is...

Posted 1/6/12 11:26 AM
 

heather10292010
Gonna be a big sister

Member since 12/10

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Heather

Re: Is it just me?

Posted by seasaw

Yes! I know we are "at that age" and all and don't get me wrong I am beyond thrilled for every single friend who gets preggo but it stings. It didn't after my first few losses but now I have moments where I see a pregnant woman and my stomach drops.



This. I can't stay pregnant and my best friend can't get pregnant..... we have other friends that are pregnant and they shouldn't be.

Posted 1/6/12 11:37 AM
 
 
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