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Lauren82
LIF Adult
Member since 10/06 4580 total posts
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Trying Again
Is anyone else petrified of trying again because it (miscarriage, ectopic, etc.) might happen again? We are trying this month, but I'm nervous! I feel like since I had one tube removed, if I have another ectopic, it will be over and we won't be having any more children (if we even can now).
I have two beautiful, healthy children and I am so blessed, but we were hoping to be blessed with more children. I was fine until we actually started trying again...now I'm worried! Anyone else feel like this?
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Posted 9/22/12 11:01 PM  |
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TaraVinny
my miracle coming October!!!
Member since 10/09 1049 total posts
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Tara
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Re: Trying Again
yes i'm scared too. i feel like the miscarriage jaded me. but i really want to be a mom and is willing to take the risk. i hope this time is good for us!
good luck!!!!
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| Posted 9/23/12 8:17 AM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: Trying Again
I know I'm not much of an inspiration since I haven't had success yet, but I have experience trying (and getting) pregnant after a loss and it's VERY hard.. not gonna lie... You go into a pregnancy before a loss thinking that everything will be fine but once you see that losses are actually VERY real... it makes all other pregnancies a bucket of nerves. I found what helped me was telling myself that while the pregnancy COULD end .. I COULD end up grieving yet another loss... I also COULD hold that baby in my arms at the end of 9 months. Just like something bad could happen, something good could happen. It's all about perspective. 
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| Posted 9/23/12 11:47 PM |
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Softkitty
LIF Infant
Member since 7/12 311 total posts
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Re: Trying Again
im scared and honestly my hubby is too... he kind of avoids  because he doesnt want us to go through the pain again
heres to being strong!
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| Posted 9/24/12 12:48 PM |
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NancyD
I love this guy so much<3
Member since 5/08 1294 total posts
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Nancy
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Re: Trying Again
I went suffered a miscarriage last September and then on August 2 an ectopic pregnancy- they had to remove my right tube.
We are already blessed with a beautiful little boy who will be 3 in February.
I am beyond scared to try to have another one because i dont think i would be able to handle another loss emotionally. It was rough with the miscarriage, REALLY REALLY bad with the ectopic and I dont know if i can go through anything like that again.
I told my husband we wont "plan" it- if it happens, it happens. I keep thinking maybe God is trying to tell us that its not in our cards to have more than one.
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| Posted 9/24/12 1:08 PM |
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