So scared

Bfp but big fat scared. Wish i didnt test. Wish i waited. All i am thinking is how long before i mc again. I want to be happy but cant

For those who mc and got preg again. Forst time they said 8wk sono. Second time do they have u come earlier to check up?

Re: So scared

Well congrats on your BFP! I've been laying low for same reason, but I also got a BFP in September. It has been by far the longest and hardest two months of my life. I have been taking it surprisingly well, despite the fact that I am absolutely terrified I will miscarry again. My doctor said when I got a BFP again, he would see me at 6 weeks instead of 8 weeks. He also sent me for bloodwork the week before the 6 week sono to check all my levels. Our 12 wk appointment is next week and I am absolutely terrified that we are not going to see anything and I'm going to have to go through all of this all over again. However, this pregnancy has already been progressing so much differently than my last pregnancy. I'm already past the point where I miscarried last time (even though I had a D&C) and even though I literally freak out before every sono, it has seemed to be ok. I'm not going to lie. It has not been easy, but I take everyday one day at a time. You just have to believe that it is your time and you are meant to have this baby. Try to stay calm and take care of yourself. Things will work themselves out

Re: So scared

Congrats to the both of you. I bet it is scary but I have good feelings for you both. Best of luck. I hope everything is good.

Re: So scared

I know how you feel! I'm in the 2ww now, but even if this leads to a BFP I don't think I'll feel relieved until there is a baby in my arms. I see an RE so they check you like crazy with sonos and bloodwork. After two m/c's and 2 chemicals it's hard to feel excited when you know how quickly it can fade. It feels like each test/sono is a hurdle to get over rather than a happy milestone. everything works out for you and your fears ease with time.

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Posted by iBCraZ131

Well congrats on your BFP! I've been laying low for same reason, but I also got a BFP in September. It has been by far the longest and hardest two months of my life. I have been taking it surprisingly well, despite the fact that I am absolutely terrified I will miscarry again. My doctor said when I got a BFP again, he would see me at 6 weeks instead of 8 weeks. He also sent me for bloodwork the week before the 6 week sono to check all my levels. Our 12 wk appointment is next week and I am absolutely terrified that we are not going to see anything and I'm going to have to go through all of this all over again. However, this pregnancy has already been progressing so much differently than my last pregnancy. I'm already past the point where I miscarried last time (even though I had a D&C) and even though I literally freak out before every sono, it has seemed to be ok. I'm not going to lie. It has not been easy, but I take everyday one day at a time. You just have to believe that it is your time and you are meant to have this baby. Try to stay calm and take care of yourself. Things will work themselves out

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Posted by shazza211

I know how you feel! I'm in the 2ww now, but even if this leads to a BFP I don't think I'll feel relieved until there is a baby in my arms. I see an RE so they check you like crazy with sonos and bloodwork. After two m/c's and 2 chemicals it's hard to feel excited when you know how quickly it can fade. It feels like each test/sono is a hurdle to get over rather than a happy milestone. everything works out for you and your fears ease with time.