Not sure if this is where i would post/ask this

I have an amazing healthy little boy who will be 3 in February (with the help of the fertility dr......just was on clomid- no IUI or anything was done)
I had a mc in September 2011 and Ectopic in Aug 2012 and had to have my right tube removed- I passed out at work, was taken to Hospital and was bleeding internally- it was a complete nightmare and scared me to death- almost literally.
I just turned 37 (YIKES)
I am so torn and really want another little one but i am so afraid of going through another loss.
Based on the above, i guess i just want to see what you would do.
Any feedback/experiances would be appreciated.

Thanks ladies!

Re: Not sure if this is where i would post/ask this

I would go for it!!

I just went through an ectopic..internal bleeding, it was terrible. Had my tube removed. I waited one cycle after surgery and got pregnant first time we tried!

You just never know what is going to happen. You can't live in fear. The good thing is, that with your history especially with the ectopic you will be monitored like crazy when you get a BFP. I called the doctor when I was 3 weeks 4 days lol!! But three blood tests and an ultrasound later its confirmed its where it should be.

I'm not out of the woods, I mean NO one really is until that baby is here. But you have to take chances and put faith in it. Don't let fear hold you back from having another baby!! Best of luck to you!

Re: Not sure if this is where i would post/ask this

Posted by maybebaby

I would go for it!!

I just went through an ectopic..internal bleeding, it was terrible. Had my tube removed. I waited one cycle after surgery and got pregnant first time we tried!

You just never know what is going to happen. You can't live in fear. The good thing is, that with your history especially with the ectopic you will be monitored like crazy when you get a BFP. I called the doctor when I was 3 weeks 4 days lol!! But three blood tests and an ultrasound later its confirmed its where it should be.

I'm not out of the woods, I mean NO one really is until that baby is here. But you have to take chances and put faith in it. Don't let fear hold you back from having another baby!! Best of luck to you!