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Where to begin?! Each week that goes on he makes my skin crawl more. He is the most vapid and shallow bachelor. All of these "relationships" are so superficial. All he does is caress their face and kiss them. Not one conversation is of substance. .

Good for Andi for figuring him out. The "it's ok" was so passive, like ok leave...plus him saying she was there by default. That's not just honest that's hurtful.

And Nikki and Andi being so close? She demanded an answer why Andi wasn't there..."like now". This is the bachelor, not sister wives...you don't share him in the end.

The women tell all should be good! Andi made it sound like that had sex and she just closed her eyes and waited for it to be done.

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I dont like JP at all. But I kind of think Andi was looking for a real fight last night. She kept going on and on and I think she wanted him to profess his love for her but he was indifferent about her leaving like he is with everything. She didnt get what she wanted. In my head I was telling her to just let it go and leave already. Their convo was going nowhere.

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I really dislike him as the bachelor. He's so dim, I feel like he adds nothing to a conversation. He just stares at them and nods.

This has been a terrible season. So disappointing.

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But I kind of think Andi was looking for a real fight last night. She kept going on and on and I think she wanted him to profess his love for her but he was indifferent about her leaving like he is with everything. She didnt get what she wanted. In my head I was telling her to just let it go and leave already. Their convo was going nowhere.

I agree with this. I felt like she was Obviously you aren't going to agree, let it go!

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But I kind of think Andi was looking for a real fight last night. She kept going on and on and I think she wanted him to profess his love for her but he was indifferent about her leaving like he is with everything. She didnt get what she wanted. In my head I was telling her to just let it go and leave already. Their convo was going nowhere.

I agree with this. I felt like she was Obviously you aren't going to agree, let it go!

I agree. Usually he irritates me but in that conversation with Andi I think he handled himself well for once, she was waaaaaaay overreacting. She was pushing his buttons really for no reason.

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This season is beyond boring. Usually by now the chemistry between the finalists is obvious, you can feel it. Not getting that at all. He has no depth (other than schedding a few tears), I am so tired of hearing his oooohs and ahhhhs, look at you comments in that squeeky voice. Its as if he knows no English. I think this goes beyond the lost in translation excuse he keeps throwing out there. While Andy should have just walked, she was absolutely right. How do you not ask questions about important things, life after the show, etc.? He doesn't seem to care. And another thing he says to both Nikki and Claire what are you thinking in that head, you are thinking a lot today, he knew that they were on the verge of saying they loved him, I felt like he was pushing it, for his own satisfaction not needed confirmation if that makes sense. Ok, I'm done.

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He seems like a very simple person, and think we underestimate the language barrier. He just wants happy, smiley, and fun. I totally think he will pick Nicki.

Andi was mean and spiteful , way too emotional. There is a reason she is alone I guess. What man would want to deal with being attacked that way. It made sense when he said, I won't argue with a lawyer. I felt bad for him last night! The whole thing just made her look so bad. She became very annoying when she kept correcting him when he said it's ok. Crazy town!

Claire was so strange last night, her mannerisms were so weird. Nikki was so calm and like whatever.

He is one gorgeous man, but someone needs to teach him the language

And yes, it seems she said she closed her eyes and waited. I hope she wasn't talking about sex with him ::cringing::

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I hate him.

My DH and I have said, from day 1, "meh".

He has nothing really to add to a conversation. He has nothing to add to someone's life, period.

I'm SO proud of Andi for realizing he was just a dim wit.

And he comes across as disingenuous, not sincere and plastic.

And whatername? The one who is the hairstylist he had sex with? She also seems SO fake with him. Like she is all caught up in the "process" and not what REAL life will be after the fantasy of the show. I see him picking her in the end because the nurse is JUST too green and TOO young for him.

I LOVE the nurse (the long blonde hair girl). I LOVE her. I would hate to see her stuck with him.

And mark my words. There is NO WAY it will end in a marriage. He might propose, she might say yes. But I would be surprised if it gets past 3 months after they can be "out" and a couple (after the finale).

Hell, I would be surprised if it lasts to "final rose". The girl he picks will see the REAL JP soon.

Who was the guy Emily was with and hear the expression "poke the bear"? If I heard a family say something like that I would run. From the previews of last week seems like his family has a lot to say about Juan Pablos selfishness too.......

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I would love for Renee to be the next Bachelorette.

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At the beginning of the show I kind of sympathize with JP because I'm from Colombia and English is my second language, so I understand the language barrier. When I read the last article (about Andi leaving and what happened in the fantasy suite), I thought he was a jerk… but…

Watching yesterday, Andi was just too much. She was upset because he wasn't upset she was leaving. She keeps making excuses to fight. I understand when JP said he didn't use the word 'default' because it is not on his vocabulary… the she was putting words on him. She was upset because he was saying it's ok? really?She just wanted pick a fight.

And honestly, I think if she felt that way on the fantasy suite and if she is that honest, she should have left the fantasy suite or should have spoken up then… Maybe at that point she knew she could be the next bachelorette and that was her exit.

I agree, though, with those that say that he is boring

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This is my prediction based on my own sophisticated analysis process

He should pick Claire. Why? He is a shallow, dopey meathead. Claire seems to be just a pretty face as well. There doesn't seem to be much going on between the earrings. Therefore, all of his "okays" and "it's fine" will be perfectly acceptable for her level of awareness.

Nikki was my pick from the beginning. However, she has come across as shallow and bitchy at times. While those type of girls are usually the type that end up with hot, meathead guys, Nikki also has brains. In real life, she will be over him before she gets out from under him because he will not be able to intellectually keep up with her.

Andi made the best decision by getting the hell out of dodge.

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I thought Andi's talk with JP was awesome! She went on a little too long, but she called him out on everything that's been bothering me about him. I don't think he cares about any of the women and he's very self- centered. That's why it doesn't bother him if they decide to leave.

He seemed mad at her for voicing her opinion. He said something like once she started arguing I was disappointed and done with her. Really? He needs a "yes woman" that worships the ground he walk on. He needs Clare

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1st bachelor to have 2 girls dump him... enough said

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Wait, there is another episode? I missed the overnight but read online that he chose xxxx at the final rose ceremony. I guess it was just a spoiler and final rose episode is yet to come?

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I think Andi went on purposefully. If she didn't, no one would know why she left BC the cameras weren't in the fantasy suite. She wanted to make it a point and let people know what a loser he is.

I agree with the pp- Claire is just right for him. I mean come on look at how he humiliated her the night they went swimming and you're still around?!?!??

Truthfully I wouldn't be surprised if he doesn't choose either...

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Just saw this online.. what Andi had to say about the Bachelor experience

http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/4858322?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000063

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I would like to know why Andi stayed all night if she was that unhappy about being there. His side of the story stated that they were having a great time laughing and talking all night.
Andi says she couldn't wait to get out of there??? She could have left, she also could have confronted him in the fantasy suite.
Laughing and talking all night, but being miserable at the same time seems impossible.
I wonder if this was her plan in order to be considered for the Bachelorette. Strange...

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