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MM2004
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Crying All Day Yesterday
Yesterday was really hard. DH and I decided to stop the infertility treatments.
Last IUI (#4) was a BFN. No coverage for IVF and donor eggs is out of the question financially.
I'm 43, DH is 47. I think we are just too old and missed our chance for another child. I'm a jerk for waiting so long after DS was born.
I'm so thankful that we are blessed with our wonderful son but I just wish I could have given him and brother or sister. I worry about him being all alone when DH & I are gone.
Good luck to everyone here.
-M
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Crying All Day Yesterday
It's tough. No doubt about it. Don't lose hope that it still could happen naturally.
And if it makes you feel any better just bc kids have siblings does NOT mean they will be close. In fact, sometimes it causes more drama...
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Lillies
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Re: Crying All Day Yesterday
Awe, I was wondering where you have been!
I understand completely. I wish I did not wait so long to have DC #2 and it may not happen for us either. I say keep praying and take your supplements! You never know what can happen when you leave it up to the big guy and I completely agree with the pp. I know people with siblings and it isn't always a great situation. I always remind myself of that when the sibling guilt comes into play. Hang in there! 
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| Posted 3/25/14 9:39 AM |
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MrsM0829
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ShhhTTCin11
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Crying All Day Yesterday
I'm so sorry
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I'm so sorry
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| Posted 3/25/14 10:54 AM |
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hazel2
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Re: Crying All Day Yesterday
I am so sorry :(
Me and my DH are both 41 and do not have any children right now. We have been trying for a few years. It's really hard, especially at this age b/c you always feel like time is running out. The thing that keeps us going is we try and not make it our focal point. We do our best to enjoy each other and are thankful for each day and what we do have.
Hang in there - you never know... at the end of the day at least you can say you are doing everything you are able to do within your means.
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| Posted 3/25/14 11:13 AM |
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Beachbaby2014
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Re: Crying All Day Yesterday
Im sorry as a pp said keep trying naturally...its just not as easy....hope things get better for you
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| Posted 3/25/14 11:18 AM |
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Irishgrl13
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Re: Crying All Day Yesterday
im sorry
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cowgirlkate
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Re: Crying All Day Yesterday
So very sorry...wish there were words to help
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| Posted 3/25/14 12:01 PM |
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starr
little whale on the way
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Crying All Day Yesterday
so sorry
I know how it is to cry all day long over IF, hang in there.
a friend after over 2 yrs of intensive fertility treatments and multiple loses for the past 5-6 yrs just got pregnant naturally and its going well. shes 40. so anything can happen.
all we can do is just enjoy our family and life. sending u happy thoughts 
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i'm so sorry
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| Posted 3/25/14 1:18 PM |
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ggt08
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Re: Crying All Day Yesterday
Posted by hazel2
I am so sorry :(
Me and my DH are both 41 and do not have any children right now. We have been trying for a few years. It's really hard, especially at this age b/c you always feel like time is running out. The thing that keeps us going is we try and not make it our focal point. We do our best to enjoy each other and are thankful for each day and what we do have.
Hang in there - you never know... at the end of the day at least you can say you are doing everything you are able to do within your means.
Im in same boat. turned 40 in Sept, SO is 49. We have been trying since last year- had some issues before that, that required freezing embryos before surgery.
We are trying our best but trying not to take over our lives. We enjoy each others company as you said and thankful we have each other.
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IveGotAFeeling
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Re: Crying All Day Yesterday
I'm sorry. sometimes you just need those days where you have the pity party. Its ok to feel sad. This whole process sucks!
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hazel2
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Re: Crying All Day Yesterday
Posted by ggt08
Posted by hazel2
I am so sorry :(
Me and my DH are both 41 and do not have any children right now. We have been trying for a few years. It's really hard, especially at this age b/c you always feel like time is running out. The thing that keeps us going is we try and not make it our focal point. We do our best to enjoy each other and are thankful for each day and what we do have.
Hang in there - you never know... at the end of the day at least you can say you are doing everything you are able to do within your means.
Im in same boat. turned 40 in Sept, SO is 49. We have been trying since last year- had some issues before that, that required freezing embryos before surgery.
We are trying our best but trying not to take over our lives. We enjoy each others company as you said and thankful we have each other.
we have to keep living! 
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Hope2009
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Re: Crying All Day Yesterday
I'm so very sorry. I do feel your pain, we are in the same boat. I'm 40 and SO is 44. We are on our last IUI #3 with the insurance. So for us this is a big deal, kinda like a hail mary. Try not beat up yourself too much. I know it's hard. 
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| Posted 3/26/14 6:22 AM |
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MrsM429
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ggt08
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Re: Crying All Day Yesterday
Posted by MM2004
Yesterday was really hard. DH and I decided to stop the infertility treatments.
Last IUI (#4) was a BFN. No coverage for IVF and donor eggs is out of the question financially.
I'm 43, DH is 47. I think we are just too old and missed our chance for another child. I'm a jerk for waiting so long after DS was born.
I'm so thankful that we are blessed with our wonderful son but I just wish I could have given him and brother or sister. I worry about him being all alone when DH & I are gone.
Good luck to everyone here.
-M
Are you at a place that does back to back iui's? My friend just got pregnant and her dr did a triple iui!! Back to back to back!
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| Posted 3/26/14 8:35 PM |
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babyfever24
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babydreams21
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Crying All Day Yesterday
So sorry.
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