Trying for #2

DD will be 17 months and DH and I decided to start TTC for #2. With DD I remember tracking my period, using an App to track when I ovulated, but this time around we are just having fun. Is anyone going for #2 and not stressing this time around? I kind of feel bad for not trying as hard as I was first time around. I feel more relaxed this time and I don't know if that's a bad thing. We def want another baby so why do I feel like I should be acting the same way that I did when trying for our first?

Trying for #2

Don't feel bad! This is EXACTLY what I want to do when we start trying for the second. I want to delete all my apps (I have two to track when I'm ovulating to AVOID pregnancy) and just wing it. I want to have fun and then just one day be like "OMG We're pregnant!" I feel like the first time we missed out on the excitement and fun of it all and the second time I around I plan on enjoying it more. Have fun and enjoy it!!! If you're not in a rush, then why not?!

Re: Trying for #2

I agree, don't feel bad! Do what feels right to you! We are just winging it this month.. (I am tracking my period and BD sessions though because I am OCD) but we are not using any OPK's or temping, etc... Whatever feels right to you guys is what you should do! There is no right or wrong... and your future DC will not know the difference anyway

Re: Trying for #2

Thank you! to you ladies too!

Re: Trying for #2

this is waht we have been doing. ACtually resulted in a pregnancy that i subsequently lost, but goal was pregnancy and it worked. as tome goes on i am getting a bit more serious.. so i still have an app to monitor my period, but not temping, not going crazy.. having fun.. best of luck to you