does this happen to anyone else?

So my DH and I have been trying for the past 14 months. It seems like all month he has no problem DTD but then once I say I'm ovulating...he's under too much stress to do it. I've tried months of not telling him when I ovulate and that helps, but this month I forgot not to tell him. So we DTD in the morning, then I got my surge later that day, but then he wasn't able to do it again the next few days...hoping I get pregnant with just that one time :-/

does this happen to anyone else?

Same thing happened to us. And this is the first time ttc since my miscarriage in December- I guess it was just too much. I feel sad and also badly/upset at the same time. I am traveling for work the next few days, so when I saw that I was ovulating just before I left I was so excited at even having a chance to ttc considering I wasn't sure id even be home at the right time- so I guess it's hard for me too because I feel like we had a chance when we didn't think we would and may have missed it anyway. It's a lot of pressure to have to perform on demand but I do try to make things less regimented. My husbands response was "I'm not 25 anymore"! lol. I get it but it's frustrating. We got in a bd right before the surge and I'm praying that was enough. Just want it all to be easy :(

Re: does this happen to anyone else?

Hope you get pregnant from that one time! I know it has to be hard on them it's a lot of pressure idk how I would feel but if that one time the morning of my surge didn't get me pregnant this month then I'm def remembering not to tell him next month so he doesn't feel so much pressure!

does this happen to anyone else?

This would happen to us when I told him I got a smiley. He would crack under pressure, then I would get pissed off, we would argue, ruin the moment, ovulation would go by. Not pregnant LOL

I stopped doing all of that. I know when I ovulate, so I do not need them. Now we just DTD every other day to every day until my cervix closes. We actually just started this last month, so we will see how it works.