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Teach723
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"We weren't even trying"
I hate this comment! If you're having unprotected sex you were trying!!! Uhh, sorry but this got me today as I'm flinging out about 3 people who are PG and feeling bad for myself 
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Posted 8/27/15 1:16 AM  |
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Re: "We weren't even trying"
Posted by Teach723
I hate this comment! If you're having unprotected sex you were trying!!! Uhh, sorry but this got me today as I'm flinging out about 3 people who are PG and feeling bad for myself
I understand too well and hate that comment so much! Especially after almost 2yrs with no success. Try to be as positive as possible! easier said than done
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| Posted 8/27/15 7:43 AM |
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Joann
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Re: "We weren't even trying"
I hate that too. I'd just say "so you were using protection and got pg??"
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| Posted 8/27/15 8:41 AM |
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MaeDe
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Re: "We weren't even trying"
ughhh I hate that!!!. my husbands best friend wife is pregnant and he said to my husband "I don't even know how it happened." Really... you dont know! So aggravating.
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| Posted 8/27/15 9:09 AM |
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Peainapod
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Re: "We weren't even trying"
Posted by MaeDe
ughhh I hate that!!!. my husbands best friend wife is pregnant and he said to my husband "I don't even know how it happened." Really... you dont know! So aggravating.
haha..if he doesnt know how it happened either he needs to go back to sex ed class, or ask for a DNA test 
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| Posted 8/27/15 9:42 AM |
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MaeDe
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Re: "We weren't even trying"
Posted by Peainapod
Posted by MaeDe
ughhh I hate that!!!. my husbands best friend wife is pregnant and he said to my husband "I don't even know how it happened." Really... you dont know! So aggravating.
haha..if he doesnt know how it happened either he needs to go back to sex ed class, or ask for a DNA test
exactly !
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| Posted 8/27/15 12:17 PM |
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JJ2014
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Re: "We weren't even trying"
I spent time on this board so I totally understand your frustration. I'm now 10w pregnant and found out the other day my friend is 13 weeks along and "wasn't trying". Even though I'm expecting myself I still felt that "GRRR" feeling that it just happened for her. I don't think you'll ever lose that feeling. It's very frustrating. I focus on that she's not married or even engaged yet (they do own a house together) but I focus on that I had a beautiful long engagement and a big wedding... things she says she doesn't want but couldn't even have now anyway. Try to focus on what you may have that these people don't or won't have. The journey sucks but in the end people like us will always appreciate what we do have more. We work for it, it's not handed to us. Makes you appreciate things. Hope this helps.
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| Posted 8/29/15 7:41 AM |
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cowgirlkate
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Re: "We weren't even trying"
It will always sting when someone says it...Those people will never understand. 
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| Posted 8/30/15 8:28 PM |
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MrsM429
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Re: "We weren't even trying"
I know the feeling all too well 
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| Posted 9/1/15 7:28 AM |
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