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MrsP23
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I went for genetic blood work 3 weeks ago. Got a call from the nurse a little over a week ago that everything came back fine. Got a call from my doctor today one thing came back that I was a carrier so now DH has to get blood work done. I am so frustrated because I thought we were all good but she said they didn't send 2 of the test. I have been off BC since July and we have been trying but not really tracking or going nuts. I went and bought OPK this weekend and thought we were ready to go and now I feel like I might wait on the OPK till we know for sure. Even if DH is a carrier there only a 25% chance. My doctor said it is just the fact of having the information and we can make our own choice on what to do with it. I know it is not a huge deal but I wish they never called the first time. Sorry for the rant.

Posted 9/8/15 9:46 PM
 
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Momma2015
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Re: Frustrated

That would definitely bug me that they didn't call, but I would still track this month. It takes awhile to get the rhythm down and it doesn't hurt to be armed with this knowledge when you're really ready to start.

Posted 9/9/15 9:04 AM
 

bringonababy
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That's annoying -- they definitely should have waited until they had all the results to call you. Not saying that you shouldn't wait to start trying but I agree with PP, it's good to track anyways and even if you find out that DH is a carrier, are you going to NOT try to get pregnant? I guess you'd be speaking to a genetic counselor? Either way, I wish you good luck.

Posted 9/9/15 10:28 AM
 

MrsP23
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Re: Frustrated

Posted by Momma2015

That would definitely bug me that they didn't call, but I would still track this month. It takes awhile to get the rhythm down and it doesn't hurt to be armed with this knowledge when you're really ready to start.



I have been tracking on my phone but I was waiting on the OPK till we were sure because they are not exactly the cheapest thing.

Posted 9/9/15 5:23 PM
 

MrsP23
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Re: Frustrated

Posted by bringonababy

That's annoying -- they definitely should have waited until they had all the results to call you. Not saying that you shouldn't wait to start trying but I agree with PP, it's good to track anyways and even if you find out that DH is a carrier, are you going to NOT try to get pregnant? I guess you'd be speaking to a genetic counselor? Either way, I wish you good luck.



The doctor said if he is a carrier that she suggest using a genetic counselor. Honestly we will def. still try but DH refuse to talk about it until we have his results. He more of the in the now one where I am always what if this happens or this.

Posted 9/9/15 5:26 PM
 

Momma2015
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Re: Frustrated

Posted by MrsP23

Posted by Momma2015

That would definitely bug me that they didn't call, but I would still track this month. It takes awhile to get the rhythm down and it doesn't hurt to be armed with this knowledge when you're really ready to start.



I have been tracking on my phone but I was waiting on the OPK till we were sure because they are not exactly the cheapest thing.



Honestly, those phone apps are crap. I wasted months tracking on my phone. I tracked using OPKs for 3 months and on the third month- bam! BFP!

Posted 9/10/15 6:12 AM
 

bringonababy
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Re: Frustrated

Posted by Momma2015

Posted by MrsP23

Posted by Momma2015

That would definitely bug me that they didn't call, but I would still track this month. It takes awhile to get the rhythm down and it doesn't hurt to be armed with this knowledge when you're really ready to start.



I have been tracking on my phone but I was waiting on the OPK till we were sure because they are not exactly the cheapest thing.



Honestly, those phone apps are crap. I wasted months tracking on my phone. I tracked using OPKs for 3 months and on the third month- bam! BFP!



Me too. The app on my phone told me I'd ovulate the week before I actually did and that stupid app had been collecting data for 8 months. I could only rely on OPKs to know my fertile window.

Posted 9/10/15 12:55 PM
 
 

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