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aim
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Because I can say it here
I have wanted to be a mom all my life. Having this little bean for the little bit of time has been a gift.
I am going to say here what I don't think I can say to anyone else. If God doesn't want me to have her here, I just need it to be decided. Soon.
This limbo has been awful and I can't take it anymore.
There. I can't believe I said that, but I hurt too much.
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NYCGirl80
I love my kiddies!
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Re: Because I can say it here
The limbo is the hardest part.
But I believe you will have your baby. I think it was a smart move to look for a new RE. As I told someone close to me recently, who is also struggling with IF, that not every dr knows everything. It's ok to look elsewhere, and hopefully someone else can help you find your answers.
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| Posted 4/19/16 8:20 AM |
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PhyllisNJoe
My Box Is Broken
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IUIGirl
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Re: Because I can say it here
All I can see is I get (as I'm sure many on this board do) and know the pain all too well. You are not alone! My heart breaks for you but you are in good hands and will get your baby! We are all here for support!
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| Posted 4/19/16 8:44 AM |
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WantBabyNbr2
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Re: Because I can say it here
You are not alone. Many of us have been through the same thing. Stay strong and feel free to vent. It's totally not fair.
Beta hell and bad sonos are definitely the worst.
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| Posted 4/19/16 9:05 AM |
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JDubs
different, not less
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Re: Because I can say it here
 Always thinking and praying for you.. I hope this Dr. can work his miracle on you and your baby. I have heard great things about him.
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| Posted 4/19/16 9:11 AM |
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Peainapod
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Re: Because I can say it here
I posted on your other thread meaning to post here.
Im sorry for all you're going through. Limbo is the absolute worst. I just wanted it to be over one way or another. the 24hrs from retreival waiting for the lab to call, then another 24 hours for fertilization report. Its like time moves so slowly.
hoping this new dr. has better news for you.
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| Posted 4/19/16 9:27 AM |
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MrsDrMatt
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JellyBear
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Thinking positive thoughts!
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Re: Because I can say it here
The limbo is torture! I'm sorry for all you're going through.
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| Posted 4/19/16 11:08 AM |
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cupcakegal
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Because I can say it here
I'm so sorry for all your going through.. I hope and pray it will work out for you and that you can move forward with hope soon...
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| Posted 4/19/16 11:38 AM |
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08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.
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Re: Because I can say it here
I totally get it and understand. Praying you get answers and can move ahead soon.
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| Posted 4/19/16 11:44 AM |
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Joann
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Re: Because I can say it here
I'm really sorry. 
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| Posted 4/19/16 12:56 PM |
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ANewDayHasCome
Love multiplies, not divides
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Re: Because I can say it here
Praying Charlie stays. I don't know you, but I can see how much you want this and just how great a mother to her you'd be. Praying for a a miracle.
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BabyHopes2
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Re: Because I can say it here
You are so brave!! I pray that your dream comes true, especially to someone who wants it so badly! Praying for a Miracle! your little bean is a fighter 
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| Posted 4/19/16 2:14 PM |
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PennyCat
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Re: Because I can say it here
I totally get it. As scary as a BFN is, I find BFPs are scarier. There's just so much at steak and if it won't result in a baby in your arms you just wanna know as soon as possible. I hear you completely. Many many hugs
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Lillies
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Re: Because I can say it here
It's such a vulnerable scary feeling and many of us have been there with you :( Praying for you and hoping all works out!
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Because I can say it here
I'm sending you a thousand hugs!
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| Posted 4/19/16 5:06 PM |
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aim
LIF Adult
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Re: Because I can say it here
Thank for making me feel normal for having anything but wide eyed thoughts about this.
This board is a godsend Bc you all are a godsend!
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Re: Because I can say it here
Hi Aim,
I feel the same way  . I hope you get better news soon! I will continue to pray for you! You and Charlie hang in there!
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| Posted 4/19/16 6:32 PM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
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Re: Because I can say it here
Posted by MemorialDayBride12
Hi Aim,
I feel the same way . I hope you get better news soon! I will continue to pray for you! You and Charlie hang in there!
I know I have no business being on this board. But I come here from time to time. I followed Pennycat and now you and Aim. I am a firm believer in the power of prayer. So ive been praying for both of you. VERY HARD. I hope you both get the news you both deserve...only the best news!
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| Posted 4/19/16 6:37 PM |
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aim
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Re: Because I can say it here
Posted by Lara&Aidansmommy
Posted by MemorialDayBride12
Hi Aim,
I feel the same way . I hope you get better news soon! I will continue to pray for you! You and Charlie hang in there!
I know I have no business being on this board. But I come here from time to time. I followed Pennycat and now you and Aim. I am a firm believer in the power of prayer. So ive been praying for both of you. VERY HARD. I hope you both get the news you both deserve...only the best news!
Thank you girls..... The bond on this board is pretty special. I remember rooting for Pennycat too. She is beyond inspiring.
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babydreams21
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Because I can say it here
Everything you said makes sense! Many of us get it on here. Let it all out. You are doing everything you can and I'm hoping you get your miracle baby.
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IVFmiracle
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Re: Because I can say it here
I think a lot of women here can relate to what you said. when you experience something like this, it's like watching someone you love suffer. It's unbareable!
Your new doctor sounds wonderful. I hope you find some insight soon.
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