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mom2aidan
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40th birthday "gift" for the girl who has everything.
I need a "gift" idea. One of my closest friend's 40th birthday party is this week. She is literally "the girl who has everything". A few months ago she asked that in lieu of birthday gifts, we donate to her team for cycle for survival, which was founded by a woman she grew up with. I gave a generous donation which she acknowledged. Her party invitation said, "No gifts, please" but I feel funny showing up empty handed. I will get a card, but is there some small token I could bring? A book? A frame? I'm at a loss. I'd love something small, but meaningful.
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Posted 6/5/16 1:49 PM |
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jlm2008
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40th birthday
If she really wants no gifts, but you still want to give something, how about a really beautiful picture frame with a picture of the two of you in it?
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Posted 6/5/16 4:04 PM |
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Paramount
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DO NOT GIVE HER A GIFT.
DO NOT GIVE HER A GIFT.
And if you didn't get the hint:
NO GIFTS :)
Honestly, don't make HER feel funny because YOU feel funny. How do you think she will feel if you show up tot he party with a gift after she asked you not to bring one?
Get her a bouquet of flowers. That would be lovely. Otherwise, nothing.
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Posted 6/5/16 4:35 PM |
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PhyllisNJoe
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Re: 40th birthday "gift" for the girl who has everything.
Posted by Paramount
DO NOT GIVE HER A GIFT.
DO NOT GIVE HER A GIFT.
And if you didn't get the hint:
NO GIFTS :)
Honestly, don't make HER feel funny because YOU feel funny. How do you think she will feel if you show up tot he party with a gift after she asked you not to bring one?
Get her a bouquet of flowers. That would be lovely. Otherwise, nothing.
All of this
A bouquet of flowers with a card is very sweet
ETA: bc she's one of your closest a friends - after her party, I would offer her a lunch or dinner on you so the two of you can celebrate her 40th
Message edited 6/5/2016 5:00:37 PM.
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Posted 6/5/16 4:59 PM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
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Re: 40th birthday "gift" for the girl who has everything.
No gift. When someone says no gift, no gift lol. You made a donation. Perfect gift!
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Posted 6/5/16 5:03 PM |
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jend572
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Re: 40th birthday "gift" for the girl who has everything.
Blaming cards with her initial? A bottle of wine? Those are two things I could always seem to use :)
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Posted 6/5/16 5:15 PM |
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jend572
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40th birthday
Blank -not blaming. Oops!
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Posted 6/5/16 5:16 PM |
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NervousNell
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Re: 40th birthday "gift" for the girl who has everything.
Posted by Paramount
DO NOT GIVE HER A GIFT.
DO NOT GIVE HER A GIFT.
And if you didn't get the hint:
NO GIFTS :)
Honestly, don't make HER feel funny because YOU feel funny. How do you think she will feel if you show up tot he party with a gift after she asked you not to bring one?
Get her a bouquet of flowers. That would be lovely. Otherwise, nothing.
This. Also, do not tip your Uber driver.
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Posted 6/6/16 10:40 AM |
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