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Afraid to BD now

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MrsBumbleb
it's me

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Christine

Afraid to BD now

Since I had my ultrasound which showed a slow heartbeat, I'm afraid to BD with DH. I keep thinking about it during, kinda ruining the moment. Am I being silly, whatever is going to happen is going to happen right? Poor DHChat Icon

Posted 6/4/05 5:31 PM
 
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btrflygrl
me and baby #3!

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Shana

Re: Afraid to BD now

you are right.....my doctor told me there was nothing I could do to prevent a miscarriage nor was there anything I did to cause it, so don't feel guilty. AT our initial appt. when I Was spotting, the Dr told me to refrain from BD just in case but I m/c anyway.

The good thing is you did get a heartbeat. When you see/hear a heartbeat, your risk of m/c is lowered and then it's lowered again once you hit 12 weeks.

GOOD LUCK and lots of Chat Icon for you

Posted 6/4/05 5:35 PM
 

Bxgell2
Perfection

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Beth

Re: Afraid to BD now

I know exactly how you feel... I miscarried at 6 weeks and then got pregnant again one week later. When I miscarried, the bleeding started immediately after DH and I BD'd so I was convinced that's what caused the miscarriage so I was terrified of BDing with DH for a few weeks when I found out I was pregnant again. But, really, the truth is, there's absolutely nothing you can do to prevent one... don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with, and hopefully at the next Dr. visit you'll get GREAT news and will be able to stop worryin!

Posted 6/5/05 11:19 AM
 

Lichi
what what!?

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Lissette

Re: Afraid to BD now

You're not being silly, AT ALL. You've already gained that maternal instinct and feel like protecting your child... even if it's avoiding the simple act of love making. I saw don't rush yourself, and BD when you feel is right... even if it's after the doctor confirms that the baby is doing fine.

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Posted 6/5/05 11:51 AM
 

MrsBumbleb
it's me

Member since 5/05

11234 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: Afraid to BD now

Thanks for the feedback girls. I spoke to DH and told him how I feel. He was very understanding.Chat Icon

Posted 6/5/05 4:01 PM
 

MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Kathy

Re: Afraid to BD now

I don't think you're being silly. I would be afraid to BD too. I'm sorry you are going through this Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/5/05 4:15 PM
 

Lichi
what what!?

Member since 5/05

4206 total posts

Name:
Lissette

Re: Afraid to BD now

Posted by MrsBumbleb
Thanks for the feedback girls. I spoke to DH and told him how I feel. He was very understanding.Chat Icon



I'm sooooo glad that he understands... you've got a keeper! Chat Icon
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Posted 6/5/05 8:21 PM
 

MrsBumbleb
it's me

Member since 5/05

11234 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: Afraid to BD now

Posted by Lichi

Posted by MrsBumbleb
Thanks for the feedback girls. I spoke to DH and told him how I feel. He was very understanding.Chat Icon



I'm sooooo glad that he understands... you've got a keeper! Chat Icon
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That's a definiteChat Icon

Posted 6/5/05 8:42 PM
 
 

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