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BunnyWife
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Member since 5/07 8274 total posts
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BunnyWife
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For those on the fence..
About having kids.
Have you given yourselves a deadline to make a decision? DH and I are not sure and have given ourselves about 2 more years to decide. I'm 30 and he is 45. We most likely will be adopting if we decide to "have" kids.
ETA: hideous spelling errors!
Message edited 3/15/2009 10:01:52 PM.
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Posted 3/15/09 8:46 PM  |
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Red
spring is in the air
Member since 11/05 2688 total posts
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helen
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Re: For those on the fence..
Our decision has been made
It was my 40th birthday ... 3 weeks ago 
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| Posted 3/15/09 9:18 PM |
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JennandRolo
LIF Infant
Member since 9/08 110 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: For those on the fence..
We're giving ourselves 5-6 years when we'll be 30.
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| Posted 3/15/09 9:41 PM |
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Nifheim
allo
Member since 1/09 5476 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: For those on the fence..
dh will be 40 in 3 years - we will start if nothing happens then, i will be 33 so its fine for me to wait.
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| Posted 3/15/09 10:05 PM |
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MeeshMosh
last month on leave!
Member since 6/08 4551 total posts
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Re: For those on the fence..
we're def not on the fence... but its def NOT something we want now.... DH will be 30 in july and he wants to "get the process started" while he's still 30.... so i'm thinking POSSIBLY starting to "try" in spring of 2010
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| Posted 3/16/09 9:16 AM |
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DonnaJoe708
Hello
Member since 5/05 4002 total posts
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Re: For those on the fence..
Once I'm over the age of 35, I don't think we would try to have a baby.
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| Posted 3/16/09 9:34 AM |
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tourist
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Re: For those on the fence..
No, not a deadline, but I am almost 33, and I have some issues that may complicate matters, so I am starting to feel I should make a decision soon.
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| Posted 3/16/09 1:00 PM |
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drpepper318
MIR MIR MIR!
Member since 6/07 8274 total posts
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me
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Re: For those on the fence..
Not a deadline exactly but feel that we should make a decision sometime in the next 2-3 years.
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| Posted 3/16/09 3:55 PM |
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CAMCaps
Live Laugh Love Run
Member since 6/07 4922 total posts
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Re: For those on the fence..
No deadline, but I want to wait until after my sister's wedding in the summer of 2010. We have IF issues so I would like to begin trying before 30, which gives us 2-3 years.
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| Posted 3/16/09 6:53 PM |
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justbeachy
So close....
Member since 7/07 2900 total posts
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Re: For those on the fence..
By the time I'm 30....
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| Posted 3/16/09 7:14 PM |
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kimbalina
Bring on the glitter and bows!
Member since 6/08 15158 total posts
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Kim
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Re: For those on the fence..
We are saying "no, we are not having kids"- however I am 28, so I am going to say when I am 35.
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| Posted 3/16/09 8:22 PM |
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sweetie101
you make me smile :o)
Member since 5/08 4419 total posts
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Re: For those on the fence..
i know me and him wants kids.we just want to be ready. Hopefully by 30
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| Posted 3/16/09 8:42 PM |
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