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Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God
Member since 9/06 3107 total posts
Name: Lisa
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Vent
Dear body,
WTH is going on with you? I always need to be in the know so please give me some indication that you are back to normal. I dont think it is fair that I have no clue when/if Im O'ing and when AF will come. Plus, whats with the sore boobs lately? If thats a sign of AF let it happen already so I can continue on my TTC journey. I feel like my hormones are all over the place and I dont like it
Any answers would be appreciated.
Sincerely,
your master
OK, I need help. Im so frustrated though I want AF already so I can start tracking O and get on with this already
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Posted 8/26/09 7:37 AM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
Member since 3/09 6115 total posts
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Re: Vent
I hope AF arrives soon for you! I think sore boobs are def a good sign AF is on her way. Did you ever get sore boos during your "O"?...i know some women do.
I read that after a D&C you should get AF in 4 weeks. Which you are at...so I hope she arrives this week.
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Posted 8/26/09 8:52 AM |
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PhillyGirl
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/09 890 total posts
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Re: Vent
Do you chart your BBT? That is a good way to figure out when you are O'ing and when you'll be getting AF. I have been charting since a few days after my D&C and I figured out that I just O'ed a couple of days ago. Good luck!
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Posted 8/26/09 9:01 AM |
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HappyWife515
LIF Toddler
Member since 7/09 406 total posts
Name: Mommy
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Re: Vent
Hope she comes soon for you!
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Posted 8/26/09 9:04 AM |
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Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God
Member since 9/06 3107 total posts
Name: Lisa
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Re: Vent
Posted by bride07
I hope AF arrives soon for you! I think sore boobs are def a good sign AF is on her way. Did you ever get sore boos during your "O"?...i know some women do.
I read that after a D&C you should get AF in 4 weeks. Which you are at...so I hope she arrives this week.
I have had sore boobs in the past during O and before AF comes; thats why Im hoping its a sign. The d&c was 4 weeks yesterday and exactly 1 month ago on Friday (28th) so Im hoping this week.
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Posted 8/26/09 9:38 AM |
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Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God
Member since 9/06 3107 total posts
Name: Lisa
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Re: Vent
Posted by PhillyGirl
Do you chart your BBT? That is a good way to figure out when you are O'ing and when you'll be getting AF. I have been charting since a few days after my D&C and I figured out that I just O'ed a couple of days ago. Good luck!
I dont chart BBT. Is it hard? I wasnt sure if Id be able to do it right.
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Posted 8/26/09 9:38 AM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
Member since 8/08 3634 total posts
Name: Jen
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Re: Vent
I'm sorry Lisa! That is a legitamate vent! I totally agree! I have no idea what my body is doing and what to expect. I have finally stopped bleeding and have NO idea when AF is coming. will it be 4 weeks from D&C? or does it go from when I took the meds? I have no idea!!
Just keep doing what your doing. try to enjoy DH...enjoy your anniversary and just BD like rabbits. I think then you'll have a good shot! I know that's my plan!
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Posted 8/26/09 9:54 AM |
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Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God
Member since 9/06 3107 total posts
Name: Lisa
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Re: Vent
Youre right Jen. Thats what Im trying to do but every so often the OCD in me surfaces and I feel like I need to have control of whats going on. I am seriously hoping to get PG unexpectedly this way I wont be driving myself crazy planning and worrying and stressing doctor appts...ugh.. Its been 4 weeks since the d&c so I dont know what is going on. We started BD'ing again like 2 weeks ago so who knows what will happen. My anniversay is in 2 weeks, which is exactly 6 weeks from the d&c so hopefully I will have an answer of whats going on by then. Either way, I wont let it ruin my anniversay
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Posted 8/26/09 10:05 AM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
Member since 8/08 3634 total posts
Name: Jen
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Re: Vent
I totally get it! I am a control freak! I just try to keep telling myself...what will be will be! My doctor told me 6-8 weeks after I took the meds...I think he was just trying to tell me it could take that long and not count on 4...so hang in there!
Hey if you BD'd two weeks ago you could be pg like my friend! (ok didn't mean to get you rhopes up) she went to the doctor when she didn't get AF and they checked and she was 6 week pregnant! lol I know crazy...obviously that doesn't happen to most.
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Posted 8/26/09 10:21 AM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
Name: Deanna
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Re: Vent
vent away girl !! try not to think about AF so much... you don't want to delay it even more!! it took me 4 weeks to get it back the first time.. then 6 weeks the 2nd time.. i hope she comes any day !! then you can start!!
i know its all so frustrating.. believe me!! but time will go fast.. and you will start again in no time!!
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Posted 8/26/09 10:56 AM |
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beanie571
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Re: Vent
It's definitley frustrating - It took 5 weeks for me the first time and just over 6 weeks last time.
Hang in there - AF will be here soon and you'll well on your way to getting your BFP!!
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Posted 8/26/09 10:58 AM |
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PhillyGirl
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Vent
Posted by Lisa982006
Posted by PhillyGirl
Do you chart your BBT? That is a good way to figure out when you are O'ing and when you'll be getting AF. I have been charting since a few days after my D&C and I figured out that I just O'ed a couple of days ago. Good luck!
I dont chart BBT. Is it hard? I wasnt sure if Id be able to do it right.
It's very easy -- it involves taking your temperature first thing in the morning and just recording it on a chart. You should do it around the same time every day, before you even get out of bed. For me, my temp always goes up after I O and goes down the day I am going to get AF, like clockwork. When I was PG I had a second temperature shift (called "triphasic") which is sometimes, but not always, indicative of PG. So I sort of knew I was PG even before my positive HPT.
Good luck!
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Posted 8/26/09 11:29 AM |
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Re: Vent
I remember these days of waiting & frustration. Like another girl mentioned, just relax....find something to preoccupy your time (BD ). It will come. Good luck!
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Posted 8/26/09 1:47 PM |
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Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God
Member since 9/06 3107 total posts
Name: Lisa
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Re: Vent
Thanks everyone!! You girls always make me feel better!!
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Posted 8/26/09 1:47 PM |
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