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lillybean
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WTH!!!! Need to vent!!!
Ok, so I went to the Dr today for results from my tests after having the second loss. Nothing turned up. My Dr. is adament that this is just bad luck or bad timing. WTH!!!!?!?!??? How could this jus happen to me twice?
She did see that my thrombin levels were 1 second slower than normal. So now I'm going to a hemotologist and then to an RE because I need answers. I can't just try again and hope this doesn't happen again!!!!!
Has anyone here had 2 losses find nothing with test results and have a normal 3rd pregnancy? i need some peace of mind here! I'm going crazy thinking about how I could wait until Oct. to try again and then have to go through this all over again!!!!
Message edited 8/28/2009 4:58:38 PM.
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Posted 8/28/09 4:48 PM  |
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Salason
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Re: WTH!!!! Need to vent!!!
You're doing the right thing! My MC panel after my 2nd indicated I have MTFHR but they did not think that was the cause bc some other hormone level (don't know the name) was normal. But I didn't see an RE, got PG again and had a 3rd loss. If you go now, hopefully you can figure out your issue and NOT go through that 
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| Posted 8/28/09 5:08 PM |
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Re: WTH!!!! Need to vent!!!
I am so sorry your are going through this. I don't have real answers for my loss either. I gave it 6 months before trying again & that time really helped get me past all the unanswered questions I have/had. I feel different from alot of girls, like yourself that need answers. I am not sure stressing over it will help me, so luckily the time did. Best of luck finding the answers you need. Until then, we're here for you.
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| Posted 8/28/09 6:19 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Re: WTH!!!! Need to vent!!!
I'm so sorry you are going through this  I have spoken to a few women (mothers of friends) who suffered multiple miscarriages and went on to have healthy pregnancies, but I can imagine how scared you are I have no answers but if you want to talk FM me and get my # (I think I gave it to you on facebook?) Try to hang in there 
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| Posted 8/28/09 6:27 PM |
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Lisa982006
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Re: WTH!!!! Need to vent!!!
I agree with Ali; I think you are doing the right thing. I would want some answers as well after 2 losses. Maybe it is just bad luck but maybe it is not. If I were you, Id see an RE. I would hate for you to go through this a 3rd time
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| Posted 8/28/09 6:29 PM |
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bride07
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Re: WTH!!!! Need to vent!!!
I am so sorry you are going through this.
I think it is a good idea to go to the RE, i hope you do get some answers.
I do know someone who had 2 miscarriages- just bad luck and then went on to have a healthy pregnancy.
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| Posted 8/28/09 10:04 PM |
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LemonHead
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Re: WTH!!!! Need to vent!!!
Posted by lillybean
Has anyone here had 2 losses find nothing with test results and have a normal 3rd pregnancy?
I had 2 losses back to back- one at 12 weeks, got pregnant 1st cycle trying, then lost that one at 9 weeks. I went for the whole panel of testing, only to find nothing wrong. Very frustrating- I was actually going to take a break from TTC b/c I didn't want to be disappointed again. I was shocked to find out I was pregnant again. I'm now having a normal pregnancy and 28 weeks.
Please do not be discouraged- it WILL happen for you. I know exactly how you feel.
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| Posted 8/29/09 4:17 PM |
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jennarose023
Jack's gonna be a big brother!
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Re: WTH!!!! Need to vent!!!
The same happened to me...2 losses since January but no answers and everything seemed to be normal. Even though it's extremely hard to go through this without any answers, there just may not be any answers out there either. Don't drive yourself crazy, extra stress will only make you more upset. If the testing has a chance of giving you the answers then I would do it. IT WILL HAPPEN FOR YOU! I'm here if you need someone to talk to!
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