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Babyaholic
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My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
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Posted 9/21/09 1:00 PM  |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
Member since 8/08 3634 total posts
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Jen
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
I am so sorry you had to go through all that. I had a similar experience with the meds not working but luckily you got the D&C early...for me it was a 3 week waiting process before I had to finally have the D&C.
It is definitely a horrible experience and I am so sorry
The girls here are so amazing. It's definitely a safe spot to vent and talk.
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| Posted 9/21/09 1:04 PM |
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kristin597
Mama!
Member since 8/08 1688 total posts
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Kristin
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
I'm so sorry for your loss
I hope that things begin to get a bit more easier and you are able to move on again.
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| Posted 9/21/09 1:34 PM |
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Lisa982006
Mommy of 2! Ty God
Member since 9/06 3107 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
Im so sorry this happened to you
Basically the same exact thing happened to me. My doctor is also very good so I too found the procedure to be a lot less scary then I anticipated.
Right now it seems like you will never feel better but hang in there, the pain does ease up. Its been 8 weeks since mine and I can now talk about it openly without crying but for the first few weeks I was a wreck.
This truly is a great board for support and also to vent.
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| Posted 9/21/09 2:20 PM |
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jennarose023
Jack's gonna be a big brother!
Member since 11/08 7769 total posts
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Jenna
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
i am so sorry that you had to experience that loss...i lost my first at 9 weeks also so I completely understand how you feel. I know it doesn't seem like it, but it will get better and you will be ok. FM me if you want someone to talk to or just to listen!
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| Posted 9/21/09 2:50 PM |
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Ever-After
Goals w/o plans r just wishes
Member since 6/09 2585 total posts
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
thank you for sharing your story I just recently joined this board and I have found the girls on here to be amazing with their love and support. I pray that you heal soon (both physically & emotionally). Please know that we are all here if you ever need to talk
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| Posted 9/21/09 4:43 PM |
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Dianne, sorry to hear you are going through this & sorry for your loss. All of us here pictured ourselves doing the same things you mentioned & felt like something was ripped away from us. We're all working together to get back on our feet & try again. Welcome to our board & again sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 9/21/09 9:22 PM |
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mommy2B3
2 boys 2 girls!!!!
Member since 7/08 3324 total posts
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sorry you had to experience this, and I hope each day gets a little better for you, and that one day you will get to think all those wonderful thoughts again, and be the best mom
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| Posted 9/21/09 10:23 PM |
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jerseychick
LIF Adult
Member since 4/09 3923 total posts
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
I am so sorry for your loss and that you went through all that
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| Posted 9/21/09 10:32 PM |
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HappyWife515
LIF Toddler
Member since 7/09 406 total posts
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Mommy
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's a hard road but it does get better with time. Everyone here is so helpful. Feel Better!
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| Posted 9/22/09 8:54 AM |
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Ritse
LIF Adolescent
Member since 7/06 711 total posts
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Who's asking?
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
I am so sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 9/22/09 10:46 AM |
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KMCGK
Gotta have faith
Member since 7/09 2176 total posts
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Keep the Faith
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
I don't know why I'm crying but maybe because I know exactly how you feel. I remember the D&C like it was yesterday. I remember crying and shaking on the table, tied down, under the bright lights. One of the nurses brought me a heated blanket but I wasn't cold I told her, I was scared and nervous about what was to come. I remember waking up to the same nurse who brought be down to recovery. I remember another nurse sharing the same name as me and talking about how the feellings that I had were so "normal." But, they're not normal or they shouldn't be normal. There are too many women that know how we feel and that's very sad to me.  The road ahead does get alittle bit easier but for me it was very slow. Find comfort in knowing that we are here for you whenever you need.
If you're Catholic, I also visited the The Church of the Holy Innocents in NYC and had my baby registered into the book of life for unborn babies. The friar sends you a certificate and a little note. It' nice to have support from other outlets as well.
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| Posted 9/22/09 1:05 PM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
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Deanna
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
i am so sorry for your loss..
we are all here to support you.
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| Posted 9/22/09 1:14 PM |
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Babyaholic
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Member since 6/09 1459 total posts
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
Thank you ladies for all the support and encouragement. I know I have a long road ahead, but it truly helps when you have people around you that understand and can relate to what you are going through. Unfortunately, it's not something anyone wants to relate to. I am sorry we are all here on this board.
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| Posted 9/22/09 2:17 PM |
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PhillyGirl
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/09 890 total posts
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what it must be like to go through this twice. Has your Dr offered to do a recurrent pregnancy loss blood test for you? If not, you may want to consider asking about it... unexplained multiple miscarriages are frustrating and miserable, so if you can zero in on a possible cause, that is one step closer to not having to miscarry again. 
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| Posted 9/22/09 4:51 PM |
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Wishing4ababy
My life is complete!
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 9/22/09 8:15 PM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
Member since 3/09 6115 total posts
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
So sorry for you loss!!!
I am sorry u have to go through this again. We are all here if you need to chat.
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| Posted 9/22/09 8:23 PM |
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08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.
Member since 10/07 9151 total posts
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
Oh Dianne. I am so very sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 9/23/09 9:20 AM |
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trnity44
I hope you stay beautiful baby
Member since 5/05 8356 total posts
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Liz
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
I am so sorry to hear about your story.
We are here if you need to talk.
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| Posted 9/23/09 9:34 PM |
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ajaysmom
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/05 810 total posts
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Jessica
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
I;m so sorry! I can only tell you that time does help, and it will get easier. I had the same experience, this time around 9 months ago! Hang in there, and just think that before you know it.... you will be a mommy!! 
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| Posted 9/24/09 6:11 AM |
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Thats all the love in the world going your way.
I had a friend who was 8.5 months and the heartbeat stopped. THey made her carry full term and induce her labor...the baby was delivered sillborn as expected...
She is okay now...which I hope will give you hope that one day soon you will be too<3
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| Posted 9/25/09 11:05 AM |
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Babyaholic
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
Thanks again ladies for all your support. I had my follow up with the Dr. today. The results from the d&c aren't in yet, but I expected that. They will call when they come in. He said we have to wait 1 normal cycle before we try again. This has been such a ride.
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| Posted 9/25/09 1:41 PM |
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michey1217
LIF Infant
Member since 7/07 116 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: My Story (Warning: Extremely Long)
I'm so sorry for your loss.. I too see Dr. Judge and he is phenominal. I love how caring he is and listening to every word you have to say. Good luck in the future! 
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