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mommy2B3
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Deanna's plan question
So today is CD 8. Dh and I bd yesterday on cd 7. Should be BD again today, or should be just start with cd7? Ah so confusing, I don't like BDing on a schedule, and neither does DH lol. But I would like to start off the best way if we can this month.
TIA 
ANd  To ALL you ladies!!!!
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Posted 9/27/09 2:29 PM  |
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bride07
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Re: Deanna's plan question
I would then just BD again today...so u can follow the plan exact. Then take tomorrow off.
DH should be excited with this plan.
I am going to follow this too in a week.
I know the BD'ing schedule def makes it a little less romantic. IT's like "honey tonight is a BD'ing day we have to get to work." LOL
Goodluck!!!
I hope this is your month.!!!!!!
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| Posted 9/27/09 4:41 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
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Re: Deanna's plan question
I would do on CD 8 and start the plan...so there is no confusion.
As far as a schedule I don't personally tell my DH about the schedule. I don't think he'd like it...so I just go with the fact that I really "want him" on those particular evenings..lol  it works for us. He doesn't feel the pressure and I get to take things into my own hands
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| Posted 9/27/09 7:34 PM |
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Lisa982006
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Re: Deanna's plan question
We dont like BD'ing on demand either but if you are going to follow the plan then I would BD again today and just continue on with the rest.
It probably doesnt matter but why drive yourself crazy being off course KWIM??
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| Posted 9/27/09 7:53 PM |
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mommy2B3
2 boys 2 girls!!!!
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Re: Deanna's plan question
Posted by zoe282
I would do on CD 8 and start the plan...so there is no confusion.
As far as a schedule I don't personally tell my DH about the schedule. I don't think he'd like it...so I just go with the fact that I really "want him" on those particular evenings..lol it works for us. He doesn't feel the pressure and I get to take things into my own hands
Thanks girls! Hoping he gets home soon! ... And this is a GREAT idea! I think this is how I will do things this month. This morning when I told him he better get home early to BD, he looked at me and said "I'm not a piece of meat".. So funny, so this will work better
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| Posted 9/27/09 8:24 PM |
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Re: Deanna's plan question
Best of luck. DH knows the schedule & loves knowing he's getting some
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| Posted 9/27/09 11:03 PM |
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Ever-After
Goals w/o plans r just wishes
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Re: Deanna's plan question
Posted by zoe282
As far as a schedule I don't personally tell my DH about the schedule. I don't think he'd like it...so I just go with the fact that I really "want him" on those particular evenings..lol it works for us. He doesn't feel the pressure and I get to take things into my own hands
I did the same thing! Before I was doing OPKs and before we were 'officially trying' I would just try to seduce him the week I figured I O'd. lol. However, on the first month we were actually TRYING and the first time that I got my positive on the OPK I wasn't playing anymore games. I texted and told him to get ready for me when I got home from work because it was BD night. lol. He was on me the moment i walked in the door, but then complained later that it was so unromantic being on a schedule like that  I think he felt nervous that was how it was going to be from then on. We figured that we were done with a 'schedule' anyhow since i got the BFP right afterwards, but now that we're going back into the TTC game, he's just going to have to deal with it. lol. If i gotta go through all of the work & stress of OPKs and such, he can deal with BDing on a schedule.
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| Posted 9/28/09 10:17 AM |
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zoe282
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Re: Deanna's plan question
Posted by Ever-After
Posted by zoe282
As far as a schedule I don't personally tell my DH about the schedule. I don't think he'd like it...so I just go with the fact that I really "want him" on those particular evenings..lol it works for us. He doesn't feel the pressure and I get to take things into my own hands
I did the same thing! Before I was doing OPKs and before we were 'officially trying' I would just try to seduce him the week I figured I O'd. lol. However, on the first month we were actually TRYING and the first time that I got my positive on the OPK I wasn't playing anymore games. I texted and told him to get ready for me when I got home from work because it was BD night. lol. He was on me the moment i walked in the door, but then complained later that it was so unromantic being on a schedule like that I think he felt nervous that was how it was going to be from then on. We figured that we were done with a 'schedule' anyhow since i got the BFP right afterwards, but now that we're going back into the TTC game, he's just going to have to deal with it. lol. If i gotta go through all of the work & stress of OPKs and such, he can deal with BDing on a schedule.
True if we have to go through it they have to! lol but I have heard stories that guys sometimes can't "perform" if they get nervous and stuff and I didn't want that to happen. I think my DH knows that I am Oing but I try to make it more like I randomly want it..lol that way he feels good about himself (thinking I just think he's just that sexy lol) and I get to BD at the right times!
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| Posted 9/28/09 10:34 AM |
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Ever-After
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Re: Deanna's plan question
Posted by zoe282
True if we have to go through it they have to! lol but I have heard stories that guys sometimes can't "perform" if they get nervous and stuff and I didn't want that to happen. I think my DH knows that I am Oing but I try to make it more like I randomly want it..lol that way he feels good about himself (thinking I just think he's just that sexy lol) and I get to BD at the right times!
yes, yes. I could totally see that happening if he were to feel 'pressured'. I think you're awesome for making him feel sexy. lol. Perhaps I'll try that... like a MIX of both. Not exactly playing the game of seduction like i used to, but not being like "It's BD time, get it on" either. lol.
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