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Message edited 10/22/2009 5:47:42 PM.

Re: The truth finally comes out - LONG

I am sorry you are dealing with this.

Have you suggested therapy to your DH? He is obviously upset about everything and is looking to blame, maybe discussig it in therapy would help him deal with it a different way.

My DH goes to a therapist from time to time to discuss his issues with SD and BM - it has helped him learn how to deal with both of them and attempt to mend things the right way with SD.

Re: The truth finally comes out - LONG

Thanks for your reply. I have suggested therapy to DH and he won't go. I'm beginning to think that I may have to push the issue a bit harder.

Re: The truth finally comes out - LONG

maybe you can suggest going together. He will have your support and it could help both of you. I know a lot of people are against it at first, but it might help him to cope differently and in the end have a more positive outlook on what is going on.

I know in my case, my DH has said once he and SD have mended their relationship, he would then like the 3 of us to go see a therapist together. It will take time but eventually, it will get better.

Good Luck to you.