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babylove628
mommy of two!
Member since 11/09 2733 total posts
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Maggie
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Please tell me this is normal....
it's been almost 4 weeks since my miscarriage and I was just talking to my brother's gf who told me her sister in law is 8 weeks pregnant ( I would have been 11 weeks now) and I had to get off the phone with her bc I started to cry.
I am so happy for her sis in law but I can't help but think that I was supposed to have a baby too and it was taken away from me.
OK....pity party over!!!
Thanks for listening 
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Posted 3/2/10 1:30 PM  |
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Re: Please tell me this is normal....
I think its normal. I am doing ok with everyone who is pregnant. But I started crying when someone announced they were pregnant on facebook. I am so jealous that they are telling everyone and not afraid that something will go wrong.
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| Posted 3/2/10 3:05 PM |
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dcl08
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Re: Please tell me this is normal....
its normal. i was the same way...and still am.i was just at a baby shower and i got teary just thinking i should be a happy preggo talking about my baby as well 
eta: my m/c was alomst 4 months ago
Message edited 3/2/2010 3:33:30 PM.
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| Posted 3/2/10 3:32 PM |
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keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!
Member since 7/09 1912 total posts
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Re: Please tell me this is normal....
totally totally normal! i felt this way after we lost our baby and i still feel like this now. i'm very happy for my friends that are preggo but it still hurts. i honestly just let myself feel the emotions b/c i think they are more damaging if you bottle them up. hang in there
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| Posted 3/2/10 4:18 PM |
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
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Kerri
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Re: Please tell me this is normal....
Awww YES this is normal!!
I feel the same way!! It's terrible. I'm sooo sorry!! I feel like it was all given to me and then taken away. It's hard to when you see others in the place that you were once in. Like a reminder of what you had. It's a difficult thing to deal with... and the "breakdowns" just happen.
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| Posted 3/2/10 6:18 PM |
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Re: Please tell me this is normal....
It is absolutely normal....When my brother told me that they were expecting- I immediately started to cry...I was thrilled for them but I just couldn't help it!
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| Posted 3/2/10 6:39 PM |
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jerseychick
LIF Adult
Member since 4/09 3923 total posts
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Re: Please tell me this is normal....
Totally normal
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| Posted 3/2/10 8:26 PM |
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BeachGal
LIF Adult
Member since 2/10 2827 total posts
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J
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Re: Please tell me this is normal....
I think that sound perfectly normal! I know a lot of PG girls on their second baby's and it doesnt make me feel good to be honest with you.
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| Posted 3/2/10 8:47 PM |
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Jax430
Hi!
Member since 5/05 18919 total posts
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Jackie
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Re: Please tell me this is normal....
Totally normal. I have had many moments like that since my m/c. You can still be happy for someone and sad for yourself.
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| Posted 3/3/10 12:28 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
Member since 8/08 3634 total posts
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Jen
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Re: Please tell me this is normal....
Of course it's normal. I have have been trying for 6 months so far post m/c and it still hurts I hope it gets easier for you.
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| Posted 3/3/10 1:10 PM |
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mrsmck
Be a big girl!
Member since 5/05 4898 total posts
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Donna
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Re: Please tell me this is normal....
it's totally normal.
Just about 2 hours ago, my co-worker told me his wife is about 14 wks. I"m happy for them, but as soon as he left my office, I started to cry.
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| Posted 3/3/10 6:35 PM |
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hotsauce345
my love, my life, my son
Member since 1/09 4169 total posts
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Melody
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Re: Please tell me this is normal....
I just had DVC Saturday and have a baby shower to go to this Sunday. I plan on going bc it's DH's Cosuin...but ...I hope I don't have to excuse myself. some people say it's not a good idea for me to go. I just feel like I shouldn't let my misfortune get in the way of me being there for someone elses good fortune. When the time is right...I'm sure they'll be there for me too.
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| Posted 3/10/10 11:36 PM |
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