DS still seems to need to take two naps, while DD seems to be ready to drop to one.
How do i handle this?
If DS still take a morning nap and an afternoon nap, and DD take one midday nap, then
1) I will never get a break
2) I will never be able to go anywhere.

Do I force DS to go to one nap? He seems so tired though, I feel bad keeping him awake an extra few hours.