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Tine73
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Would it be weird if....
I had a container at the wake with little cards for people to write down their favorite memories of my Dad?
He's being transferred to Hospice this week and I am starting to plan.
Thanks!
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Posted 12/14/10 9:53 PM |
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2girlsforme
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Re: Would it be weird if....
Not weird at all. A lot of funeral homes actually do this as part of their service.
I'm so sorry your dealing with this.
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Posted 12/14/10 10:30 PM |
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Bxgell2
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Name: Beth
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Re: Would it be weird if....
Not weird at all... our funeral home actually suggested that I have Alex make a card for my father and put it in the casket. I put it in his pocket.
Just another idea to make it a little easier
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Posted 12/15/10 10:51 AM |
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PrettyPeonies
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Member since 8/10 3874 total posts
Name: Pino
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Re: Would it be weird if....
I think its a wonderful idea When my brother passed away, he didnt want a wake but my parents needed one so we compromised and included just my immediate family and my brother's faternity brothers who were his best friends/pallbearers. My father wrote a beautiful letter to God put it in his suit inner pocket.
We had a memorial lunch for him after the mass and we had a table where ppl could write down their memories of my bro for my SIL & his child.
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Posted 12/15/10 2:52 PM |
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KangaMom
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Re: Would it be weird if....
A Grand idea actually
Unfortunately we went through this recently
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Posted 12/15/10 5:13 PM |
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leighla
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Name: Lauren
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Re: Would it be weird if....
I did this at my DH's memorial service.
I made a big box like a card box at a wedding and left out paper and pens.
In my Eulogy I explained what it was for.
On the anniversary of his death I read them all and cried and laughed.
I've laminated them all and will eventually put them in a book for Logan.
for you.
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Posted 12/15/10 5:20 PM |
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julz33
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Member since 5/05 20584 total posts
Name: julz
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Re: Would it be weird if....
You should definitely do that. I am so sorry you are going through this.
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Posted 12/19/10 11:07 PM |
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littlejoy06
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Re: Would it be weird if....
Not at all. I think that's a really nice idea.
PLEASE call me if you need someone to talk.
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Posted 12/20/10 7:13 AM |
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Goobster
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Re: Would it be weird if....
Not one bit weird, very nice in fact.
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Posted 12/22/10 8:30 PM |
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