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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

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Stacey

Re: Back from my Dr.

Posted by AngnShaun

what i really need and cant possibly figure out how to do it is to be able to stop clicking on the pregnancy board... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



OMG Ang- when mine first happened, I tried SO HARD not to go on that board. It's super, super hard. Now, I go on and I'm ok- thank god. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/11 10:41 AM
 

Nik211
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Re: Back from my Dr.

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by NotSoSureYet

Posted by Diana1215

Ang - I can't believe I am even reading this right now. I am so upset for you. Keeping you in my prayers! Please let me know if you need anything at all!



I am feeling the same exact way, I was really pulling for you girl. I am so saddened by your loss - just know you are not alone.

I too had a sch - mine was HUGE. I never had a heartbeat though, just an empty sac and the big blood clot and I have no answers on what happened to me or what went wrong. UGh.

Also from what I have found, there doesnt seem to be conclusive info about the hematoma and what causes them and if blood thinners are needed or not. I think only immune panels and tests would show that right?

Are you seeing an RE? I like that your dr. is testing the tissue and doing the progesterone but I think some more things should be run, but that is JMHO. But I dont know if you are seeing an RE already or not..I cannot remember if you ever mentioned it. If you are not then you may want to consider it. I have only had 1 loss but I am going to see what to be safe and just see what they say and my ins. co. will cover it…FM me if you want more details.

HANG IN THERE Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



The problem is that most Drs wont consider me hi-risk and in need of an RE because an ectopic isnt considered a "loss" in their pov... so really i only had 1 loss... i guess we'll see what happens when they get the info back from testing the tissues...

A few of my sisters friends see hi-risk Drs. and my SIL has a hi-risk Dr also. I'm honestly just going to take the spring and summer off and let my body heal from the last 6 months... we'll start trying again in August/September...




hey ang Chat Icon Chat Icon

you are right, depending on what comes back from the chromosome testing you may have an answer Chat Icon

i know what you mean about the pregnancy board....i did the same thing....and i still go on there sometimes Chat Icon like today....but it gets easier....i promise....now i go on there and i'm not sad thinking of how i used to be part of that group, i'm more curious to see what's going on - like i was before we started ttc...

i hear you about letting things heal...i was in such a huge rush to get pregnant after the miscarriage but was told to wait..now that the 3 cycles of waiting are over i'm starting to feel less and less excited about getting pregnant again....i don't know what it is??? maybe b/c i'm starting to enjoy my life again? i actually think the time is what i needed/need...it didn't seem like it then but i'm not 100% sure that i'm ready for it again, especially now with the summer starting up - i really don't want my summer to be spent over the bowl and worrying - i feel like some more "me" time wouldn't be the worst thing in the world...i did a lot of reflecting and realized i have so many blessings in my life and so many things to enjoy...i know one day my time will come and i'm at peace with that...so time really heals both the heart and bodyChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

i'll be thinking of you Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/11 10:56 AM
 

BabyHopes15
Thank you St. G for my boy PJ!

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Aim

Re: Back from my Dr.

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Posted 4/13/11 11:35 AM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

Member since 1/10

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Ang

Re: Back from my Dr.

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Posted 4/13/11 12:55 PM
 

Puppy-Love
LIF Adult

Member since 7/10

1394 total posts

Name:
J

Re: Back from my Dr.

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by NotSoSureYet

Posted by Diana1215

Ang - I can't believe I am even reading this right now. I am so upset for you. Keeping you in my prayers! Please let me know if you need anything at all!



I am feeling the same exact way, I was really pulling for you girl. I am so saddened by your loss - just know you are not alone.

I too had a sch - mine was HUGE. I never had a heartbeat though, just an empty sac and the big blood clot and I have no answers on what happened to me or what went wrong. UGh.

Also from what I have found, there doesnt seem to be conclusive info about the hematoma and what causes them and if blood thinners are needed or not. I think only immune panels and tests would show that right?

Are you seeing an RE? I like that your dr. is testing the tissue and doing the progesterone but I think some more things should be run, but that is JMHO. But I dont know if you are seeing an RE already or not..I cannot remember if you ever mentioned it. If you are not then you may want to consider it. I have only had 1 loss but I am going to see what to be safe and just see what they say and my ins. co. will cover it…FM me if you want more details.

HANG IN THERE Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



The problem is that most Drs wont consider me hi-risk and in need of an RE because an ectopic isnt considered a "loss" in their pov... so really i only had 1 loss... i guess we'll see what happens when they get the info back from testing the tissues...

A few of my sisters friends see hi-risk Drs. and my SIL has a hi-risk Dr also. I'm honestly just going to take the spring and summer off and let my body heal from the last 6 months... we'll start trying again in August/September...




Have you called an RE though? It doesnt hurt to call and see what they say, you really have nothing to lose. I did and I felt silly at first but they said they would see me. Only issue we had is the insurance co. but we got around that. How long have you been TTC?

Sorry I am not trying to pressure you but I just want you to get some answers and help/attn. Def FM me if you want more details about what I am going to do.

Posted 4/13/11 2:24 PM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

Member since 1/10

21015 total posts

Name:
Ang

Re: Back from my Dr.

Posted by NotSoSureYet


Have you called an RE though? It doesnt hurt to call and see what they say, you really have nothing to lose. I did and I felt silly at first but they said they would see me. Only issue we had is the insurance co. but we got around that. How long have you been TTC?

Sorry I am not trying to pressure you but I just want you to get some answers and help/attn. Def FM me if you want more details about what I am going to do.



i havent called one, i just assumed that you need a referal...

We started in September, got pregnant on the first try... that was the ectopic... because it was treated with methotrexate we couldnt try again until the end of January... got my BFP in March...

it seems that i have no problem getting pregnant...

Posted 4/13/11 2:28 PM
 

MrsFishstick
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Re: Back from my Dr.

OMG I'm so sorry! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/11 3:30 PM
 

inlove10
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Re: Back from my Dr.

I am so sorry for your loss.

Posted 4/13/11 7:43 PM
 

Jenn1621
<3

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Re: Back from my Dr.

Omg, I had no idea! I am so sorry for loss. I pray you get answers. This is so unfair...I am just so sad to read this.

Posted 4/13/11 9:29 PM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

Member since 1/10

21015 total posts

Name:
Ang

Re: Back from my Dr.

Posted by Jenn1621

Omg, I had no idea! I am so sorry for loss. I pray you get answers. This is so unfair...I am just so sad to read this.



I know, its ok... you've had your own stuff to worry about... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/11 9:33 PM
 

keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!

Member since 7/09

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Re: Back from my Dr.

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by NotSoSureYet


Have you called an RE though? It doesnt hurt to call and see what they say, you really have nothing to lose. I did and I felt silly at first but they said they would see me. Only issue we had is the insurance co. but we got around that. How long have you been TTC?

Sorry I am not trying to pressure you but I just want you to get some answers and help/attn. Def FM me if you want more details about what I am going to do.



i havent called one, i just assumed that you need a referal...

We started in September, got pregnant on the first try... that was the ectopic... because it was treated with methotrexate we couldnt try again until the end of January... got my BFP in March...

it seems that i have no problem getting pregnant...



i can so relate to everything you say Chat Icon for what it's worth, i have no problem getting pregnant either (i've never ttc more than 3-4 months without getting pregnant) but after 3 losses that were really all unrelated, i went to an RE just to see what he had to say. and technically, i've only had 1 "loss" b/c one was a medical termination and the other was the ectopic.

i'm seeing dr. b and he did a ton of testing and actually found a few issues that could have led to my complications and i'm now being treated for them. he even says that there's no way to know for sure but at least i now know i'm being treated for these things and i have more peace of mind. when you heal and feel ready, it may be worth a consult with somebody. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/13/11 10:50 PM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

Member since 1/10

21015 total posts

Name:
Ang

Re: Back from my Dr.

Posted by keepingsecrets

i can so relate to everything you say Chat Icon for what it's worth, i have no problem getting pregnant either (i've never ttc more than 3-4 months without getting pregnant) but after 3 losses that were really all unrelated, i went to an RE just to see what he had to say. and technically, i've only had 1 "loss" b/c one was a medical termination and the other was the ectopic.

i'm seeing dr. b and he did a ton of testing and actually found a few issues that could have led to my complications and i'm now being treated for them. he even says that there's no way to know for sure but at least i now know i'm being treated for these things and i have more peace of mind. when you heal and feel ready, it may be worth a consult with somebody. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



i thought i was scared to try after the ectopic... im petrified to try again now... at least i am now, maybe the testing will show something...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/14/11 9:32 AM
 

keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!

Member since 7/09

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Re: Back from my Dr.

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by keepingsecrets

i can so relate to everything you say Chat Icon for what it's worth, i have no problem getting pregnant either (i've never ttc more than 3-4 months without getting pregnant) but after 3 losses that were really all unrelated, i went to an RE just to see what he had to say. and technically, i've only had 1 "loss" b/c one was a medical termination and the other was the ectopic.

i'm seeing dr. b and he did a ton of testing and actually found a few issues that could have led to my complications and i'm now being treated for them. he even says that there's no way to know for sure but at least i now know i'm being treated for these things and i have more peace of mind. when you heal and feel ready, it may be worth a consult with somebody. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



i thought i was scared to try after the ectopic... im petrified to try again now... at least i am now, maybe the testing will show something...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



awwww...i'm not gonna lie, i don't know if that feeling ever goes away for us girls who've been through losses Chat Icon most girls are so excited to get a BFP and while i'll be grateful for it, it will always scare the sh!t out of me. i do know that one day we will all get our healthy pregnancies though Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/14/11 9:29 PM
 

bettybcafe
Big brother in the making

Member since 7/07

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M

Re: Back from my Dr.

I am so heartbroken for you right now. I just saw this and became so sad Chat Icon I just wanted to offer some hugsChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/18/11 10:27 PM
 
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