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appropriate wedding gift for my sister?

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mec
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appropriate wedding gift for my sister?

Message edited 4/22/2011 10:26:04 AM.

Posted 4/21/11 11:11 AM
 

missfabulous
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Colleen

Re: appropriate wedding gift for my sister?

My brother, sister, and BIL were all in our bridal party.

My sister (who was only 14)- gave $100. It was really from my parents. (Of course she's 14!)

My brother gave $200 (he's just out of college, low paying job)- you give what you can.

BIL was VERY generous and gave us $1000. (He came alone and was the best man).

I think it depends on your situation financially. I know my brother and sister gave what they could- they're very young. I think $1000 was extremely nice from BIL and almost felt bad taking that much (but he really wanted to give it to us). We'll probably give him the same when he gets married.

Posted 4/21/11 3:10 PM
 

MrsS6510
2 girls?!?!?

Member since 9/10

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L

Re: appropriate wedding gift for my sister?

Here is what our siblings gave:

I have two older sisters (both in their 40's, both were MOH)

Oldest sister - married with 2 kids - $300

Middle sister - not married, no kids - $500

SIL (a bridesmaid)- 31yo, single, no kids - $300
BIL (best man) - 25yo, single, no kids - $300

Message edited 4/22/2011 1:30:43 PM.

Posted 4/22/11 1:29 PM
 

Samira0407
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Re: appropriate wedding gift for my sister?

My sister gave $50! she's just returning to the workforce from being a SAHM so funds were low for her & her husband (although DH says they knew about our wedding for months...)

Posted 4/27/11 12:04 PM
 

BaconCheeseburger
LIF Toddler

Member since 11/10

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Meghan

Re: appropriate wedding gift for my sister?

My sister gave me a beautiful ring. I can't remember if we got a gift as a couple. I'm sure she did.

My brother gave me nothing . not even a card.

Posted 4/27/11 4:41 PM
 

PaddysGirl
Little princess is here!

Member since 4/07

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Crystal

Re: appropriate wedding gift for my sister?

I am probably too late but my brother just got married.

My bf & I gave them $600. But that is after we also gave them a gift gard to BBB for their engagement and we took them to dinner. I was also very generous for the shower and then had the bachelorette party.

Posted 5/10/11 3:46 PM
 

browneyes
All moms are working mothers!

Member since 8/08

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Super Mom

Re: appropriate wedding gift for my sister?

my brother only 18 at the time gave 100
My sister & finace gave $300

Posted 5/10/11 6:25 PM
 

JenniferEver
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Member since 5/05

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Jennifer

Re: appropriate wedding gift for my sister?

I gave my sister nothing! I was in college at the time. I planned to buy her a kitchen set but then she bought it for herself. I'll have to get her something great for their 10th in 2 years.

She and BIL are paying for my flowers. I don't think they should also give me a gift, but I suspect they will.

Posted 5/13/11 3:12 PM
 

drpepper318
MIR MIR MIR!

Member since 6/07

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Name:
me

Re: appropriate wedding gift for my sister?

DH's brothers gave us nothing (and they were in the BP but didn't pay any expenses... MIL & FIL paid for their tuxes, etc., even dh's bach party... they were both in their 20's at the time as well) Chat Icon

My brothers were generous... one gave us $1,000 & the other I don't remember exactly.

Posted 5/19/11 7:56 PM
 
 

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