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KartveliT
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"just be thankful it didn't happen later on"
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Posted 11/18/11 12:28 AM  |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Ang
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Re: "just be thankful it didn't happen later on"
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| Posted 11/18/11 9:23 AM |
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luvmyReese
Hello Kitty
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Catt
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Re: "just be thankful it didn't happen later on"
there is NOTHING thankful about a miscarriage..
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| Posted 11/18/11 9:28 AM |
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cateyemm
Twins!
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Re: "just be thankful it didn't happen later on"
don't you just want to throttle someone?
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| Posted 11/18/11 9:30 AM |
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heather10292010
Gonna be a big sister
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Heather
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Re: "just be thankful it didn't happen later on"
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| Posted 11/18/11 10:20 AM |
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santababy
LIF Infant
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Re: "just be thankful it didn't happen later on"
Posted by luvmyReese
there is NOTHING thankful about a miscarriage..
this! im so sorry! 
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| Posted 11/18/11 10:36 AM |
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Melissa1013
My sweet boy
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Melissa
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Re: "just be thankful it didn't happen later on"
I lost my son at 21w5d and let me tell you whether it was then or right after I POAS it wouldn't have mattered. Hope and dreams for that baby are made and lost.
I know people are trying to be nice but it kills me when they say such stupid things! When are they going to learn -- I'm sorry will be more than enough.
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| Posted 11/18/11 11:37 AM |
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luvmyReese
Hello Kitty
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Catt
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Re: "just be thankful it didn't happen later on"
Posted by Melissa1013
I lost my son at 21w5d and let me tell you whether it was then or right after I POAS it wouldn't have mattered. Hope and dreams for that baby are made and lost.
I know people are trying to be nice but it kills me when they say such stupid things! When are they going to learn -- I'm sorry will be more than enough.
Im sorry for your loss.
ITA my mind was on my pregnancy 24/7 from the day I got my BFP.
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| Posted 11/18/11 12:07 PM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Re: "just be thankful it didn't happen later on"
Posted by luvmyReese
Posted by Melissa1013
I lost my son at 21w5d and let me tell you whether it was then or right after I POAS it wouldn't have mattered. Hope and dreams for that baby are made and lost.
I know people are trying to be nice but it kills me when they say such stupid things! When are they going to learn -- I'm sorry will be more than enough.
Im sorry for your loss.
ITA my mind was on my pregnancy 24/7 from the day I got my BFP.
Its AMAZING how from the instant you see the 2nd line or the word pregnant... you can have an infinite amount of hopes and dreams!
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| Posted 11/18/11 12:25 PM |
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Nik211
my little monkey<3
Member since 5/08 3303 total posts
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Re: "just be thankful it didn't happen later on"
i got that too...in a way i can understand the logic behind the statement but it's still not the appropriate thing to say....i'm sorry...i think people don't know what to say and try to make you feel better...i've had a lot of things like that said to me that made me smh...my 9 week loss was heartbreaking, even though i'm expecting again i still think of that baby all of the time...
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| Posted 11/18/11 1:32 PM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
Member since 7/07 8611 total posts
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Re: "just be thankful it didn't happen later on"
Say what!  OMG...the stupid crap that comes out of peoples mouths. So sorry
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| Posted 11/18/11 1:57 PM |
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fakenamettc
LIF Toddler
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Re: "just be thankful it didn't happen later on"
yup, I got that comment too, I have also gotten :
It wasn't meant to be
I'm sure there was something wrong with the baby you don't want a "sick" baby
Everything happens for a reason
Be happy you already have one
and I can go on and on, I know people just don't know what to say, they try to say something "nice" but it's so frustrating!
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| Posted 11/18/11 2:33 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: "just be thankful it didn't happen later on"
I had a loss in my 17th week and people said that to me too .. I was like... Really??!  
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| Posted 11/18/11 5:09 PM |
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