LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

Asking for prayers for my brother

Posted By Message

Xelindrya
Mommy's little YouTube Star!

Member since 8/05

14470 total posts

Name:
Veronica

Asking for prayers for my brother

I rarely EVER ask for prayers but I could use any help we can get. This has been haunting my family for a month but I've been trying to be positive.


I don’t want to go into too much detail because well it’s the interwebz and all…

My brother Daniel was wrongly accused of some rather unfriendly things in South Dakota. Apparently that state has some strange views on law and guilty before proven innocent. He did nothing wrong.

His ‘crime’ was to drive friend A to the friend A’s house, wait and then leave with said friend. Also in the car was Friend B. Well friend A committed a crime and now they are after my brother. Two charges to be exact and both felonies.

I am very upset not only because its false but because he had moved to Texas recently to fix his life and get straight and find a job and start his life, fresh. He was yanked back because of a warrant for his arrest. I paid money to fly him home (money well spent of course). The bond was paid by my dad (he has so very little but found a way). My daughter is heart-broken that uncle Danny isn’t home and asks for him daily. It was literally MONTHS after the crime that the warrant was served. He was never charged with a crime back then.

He got back and they booked him and set his court date for 2/16. Just now the public defender called him up and said based on info the charges are not strong enough and made an appt to speak to the judge with my brother 1/23 to see if this can’t be settled..

Friend B supported my brother’s story in a written statement
My brother’s written statement at the time of the crime also admits no wrong doing or knowledge of Friend A’s crime. They searched our house for clues or evidence of the crime and found none.

So I could use some prayers that this is all taken care of in our favor on 1/23. He’s a good kid trying to put his life on the right track. He left all he knew behind so that he could start a new life, the right way. We even had him a job set up to work security but this just ruined us. I need to get him back and help him work his way to a good life. He has so much against him. And although I love my Dad, no real role model or example of how a man should be or how a citizen of society should act. Well no one with the exception of me. I never realized how much he looked to me as the ‘way out’ until now.

Sorry this got long…

Thank you to anyone willing to help

Posted 1/11/12 12:22 PM
 

peanutbutter2
Carpe diem!

Member since 11/10

5287 total posts

Name:

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/11/12 12:26 PM
 

SusiBee
. . . . .

Member since 3/09

8268 total posts

Name:
S

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

You've got prayers.
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/11/12 12:28 PM
 

jilliibabii
Mrs. O'Connor

Member since 6/10

12821 total posts

Name:
Jillian

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

That's awful. I hope it's over and done with soon and he can get back to his life in Texas. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/11/12 12:29 PM
 

Domino
Always My Miracle

Member since 9/05

9923 total posts

Name:

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

I pray that justice prevails for your brother. Many hugs for you and your familyChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/11/12 12:29 PM
 

Ophelia
she's baaccckkkk ;)

Member since 5/06

23378 total posts

Name:
remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/11/12 12:43 PM
 

LisaW
Time for me to FLY!

Member since 5/05

13199 total posts

Name:
Did I ever tell you that I hate people?

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

yeah, unfortunately I believe the law is that if you participate before a crime (as in driving someone to commit a crime), you are considered guilty of that crime <nice friend!>

I hope he works it out Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/11/12 12:57 PM
 

Little-J-Mommy
I'm a Big Brother

Member since 5/06

8041 total posts

Name:
D

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

Sounds like your brother was an accessory to the felony by driving the get away car. I don't know how the law works if you were unaware of the intent of the crime being committed or the act itself. Regardless, it sounds like 'Friend A' wasn't really a friend at all. :shrug:

Posted 1/11/12 1:04 PM
 

Ophelia
she's baaccckkkk ;)

Member since 5/06

23378 total posts

Name:
remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

mens rea people. mens rea.

good luck.

Posted 1/11/12 1:16 PM
 

LisaW
Time for me to FLY!

Member since 5/05

13199 total posts

Name:
Did I ever tell you that I hate people?

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

Posted by Ophelia

mens rea people. mens rea.

good luck.



Yes, if they can't prove he knowingly committed the crime he is off

Posted 1/11/12 1:24 PM
 

eroxgirl
My Loves

Member since 5/05

15697 total posts

Name:
Rebecca

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/11/12 2:18 PM
 

NextStopBabytown
TTC #2

Member since 11/08

3141 total posts

Name:
Lindsey

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Chat Icon

Posted 1/11/12 2:29 PM
 

MySunshine
In love with my Baby Boy

Member since 3/11

2783 total posts

Name:

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/11/12 3:04 PM
 

nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.

Member since 7/05

57538 total posts

Name:

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

I hope justice prevails!

Posted 1/11/12 3:08 PM
 

HoneyBadger
YourWorstNightmare.

Member since 10/06

15979 total posts

Name:
BahBahBlackJeep

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

I hope things work out...

Posted 1/11/12 4:14 PM
 

Xelindrya
Mommy's little YouTube Star!

Member since 8/05

14470 total posts

Name:
Veronica

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

Sent money over good old Western Union to Iowa today to get him a new outfit so he's presentable for the meeting. Its *MY* request so I'm paying for it. I think he should look like a kid trying, and show respect to the offices he's entering, the importance of the circumstances and the seriousness of the situation.

Maybe my Dad was right when he told the DA I'm more strict that he is? Chat Icon

I can't wait for this to be over!

Ironically the meeting occurs on Chinese New Years.. the Year of the Dragon from the Year of the Rabbit. I am a rabbit and its a lucky sign and the year of the dragon is supposed to be a lucky YEAR. So I'm hoping this is a great end to my year and a wonderful beginning of a new year.

(hey I'll take whatever I can get)

Posted 1/16/12 11:34 AM
 

moonmist09
Thank you, St. Gerard!

Member since 2/11

5043 total posts

Name:
Antonella

Re: Asking for prayers for my brother

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/23/12 5:07 PM
 
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
Asking for some good luck Prayers For my Brother Brian EganUPDATE! NoStressMom 11/6/07 32 Prayers
NPR - Update on my Brother (prayers appreciated) Angel321 7/11/11 3 Parenting
My Brother-- We need prayers more than ever ( very very long) *UPdate 1/5/09- HillandRon 8/9/08 159 Prayers
In light of recent events, can I have some prayers please for my brother 4ForMe 1/8/08 22 Prayers
Prayers for my Brother Update first post 8/1/06 bridget-n-jimmy 7/31/06 64 Prayers
Remember those good prayers I was asking for last week? lipglossjunky73 2/4/08 32 Prayers
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 33391 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows