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How would you handle activity being used as punishment?

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NewlyMrs
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How would you handle activity being used as punishment?

Am I being overly sensitive?
Because as a parent, personal trainer, & have my masters in PE I'm saddened by this.

My DD told me, "I was good in class today & only had to do 1 lap on the track today."

(at their school recess is rotated thru the week between playground, blacktop/basket hoops, or track.)

I asked her what she meant & she said, "if their clothespin is dropped you have to do 2 laps.

I'm so mad, because
1) activity shouldn't be used as punishment. IMO that's like withholding snack or lunch.
2) how about promoting activity as fun. (which is what I do all the time with my DDs)
3) the other issue I have is just a few weeks ago my DD got into trouble because her & others were spitting & stepping into a puddle at the track, even after being told not to. I know she should have followed directions, but what Kindergartener wouldn't be bored walking laps?

I feel like there is a lack of promoting fitness for these kids, & I need to say something.

WWYD?

Message edited 1/28/2014 3:57:09 PM.

Posted 1/28/14 3:54 PM
 

stinger
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Re: How would you handle activity being used as punishment?

Agree with you. It's like in the military not for a 5 yo. I would call the school and clarify what your dd meant though. Sometimes kids don't communication exactly what happened.

Posted 1/28/14 4:05 PM
 

want2beamom
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Re: How would you handle activity being used as punishment?

I agree with u...not the right thing for them to do

Posted 1/28/14 4:10 PM
 

NewlyMrs
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Re: How would you handle activity being used as punishment?

Ooooh, I like phrasing it as "clarifying what my DD said."
I love her teacher & don't want to come across as "I know more & trying to tell how to do their job"

Posted 1/28/14 4:18 PM
 

lazybug
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How would you handle activity being used as punishment?

I agree. This needs to absolutely be addressed.

Posted 1/28/14 8:46 PM
 

cj7305
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Re: How would you handle activity being used as punishment?

ITA with you! Def say something!

Posted 1/28/14 10:52 PM
 

MorningCuppaCoffee
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Re: How would you handle activity being used as punishment?

I agree.

I think it's healthy to promote activity from a young age to make it habit.

I wish I had more of this when I was young.

I also think MANY kids thrive from having that outlet.

DS is definitely one of them.

Not having activity can create even more behavioral issues in young kids IMO.


Message edited 1/29/2014 5:32:07 AM.

Posted 1/29/14 5:31 AM
 

MorningCuppaCoffee
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Re: How would you handle activity being used as punishment?

Posted by NewlyMrs

Ooooh, I like phrasing it as "clarifying what my DD said."
I love her teacher & don't want to come across as "I know more & trying to tell how to do their job"



P.S. I can see how this could happen because I've had it done to me when it was totally inappropriate, but I also have found it helpful too in many, many, many situations.

I don't teach but have a similar role with adults and I am constantly requesting feedback from people I interact with because I feel like it's the kind of position that it's too easy to get comfy and in a sense, lazy in.

It could be the same with young kids, especially with all the changes going on in the educational system today.

Posted 1/29/14 5:35 AM
 

NewlyMrs
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Re: How would you handle activity being used as punishment?

ITA!
Teachers have it tough & these K teachers have only the "specials" for a break & they're usually doing planning during it. They eat lunch with them, so I'm sure recess is "break-time". I have a bunch of activities they can do using a track. It may require some teaching of the rules, but after that, they've created a fun use of the track.

Posted 1/29/14 1:59 PM
 
 

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