Obviously it's up to each person what they do.

As far as 2nd/3rd I had a few friends told to drink a glass of red a week by their doctor for various reasons having to do with heart/blood pressure I believe. That's why I said it's ok. But I don't know all the details and I also don't want to give false info. I know they were all told no more then 1 glass per week.

I haven't had a drink my whole pregnancy, but am considering a very small glass tomorrow night for Christmas Eve and sampling one or two wines when we go on a $100 a person wine tasting next month, that I can't drink on. Otherwise I'll save my drinking for summer.