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Meme729
LIF Adolescent

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Chemical

DH and I already have two beautiful children and weren't planning on having anymore. That being said, I was very surprised when I started to get pregnancy symptoms like heartburn and hot flashes. I took a pregnancy test the day af was due and it was positive! Unfortunately, the next morning I started to bleed and it was a chemical. Now that this happened, I actually want another baby. I feel like I was cheated and I need to try again. My question is, am I crazy for wanting a 3rd when I'm a few months away from 40? I have a 5 and 2 year old already. Should we try again or just be thankful we have 2 healthy and beautiful children?

Posted 12/7/16 7:28 PM
 
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BabyBearA
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Chemical

Totally up to you and your hubby but I don't think you're crazy at all. This actually happened to my SIL but she had a late MC. She felt like it was a sign and had a 3rd. Best of luck with whatever decision you make.

Posted 12/7/16 7:45 PM
 

BabyBearA
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Chemical

Also want to add that I'm sorry about your chemical

Posted 12/7/16 7:46 PM
 

IUIGirl
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Chemical

I'm sorry for your loss. You are definitely not crazy! Sounds like purpose of this was to move you guys in this direction. Best of luck to you!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 12/8/16 1:10 PM
 

drpepper318
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Re: Chemical

Posted by IUIGirl

I'm sorry for your loss. You are definitely not crazy! Sounds like purpose of this was to move you guys in this direction. Best of luck to you!!!!!!!!!!!!


I agree!! And 40 isn't too old at all!

Posted 12/9/16 2:01 AM
 

PrettyPeonies
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Pino

Re: Chemical

Posted by drpepper318

Posted by IUIGirl

I'm sorry for your loss. You are definitely not crazy! Sounds like purpose of this was to move you guys in this direction. Best of luck to you!!!!!!!!!!!!


I agree!! And 40 isn't too old at all!



Me too!!! We have 2 DC and are trying for our 3rd. I'll be 40 (freaking unbelievable Chat Icon ) in a few months. We are in a time where women are having healthy pregnancies later in life and it's amazing.

Posted 12/9/16 12:25 PM
 

phoenix913
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05

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V

Re: Chemical

I'm so sorry about your chemical. Chat Icon I've had 3 so I know how it feels.

And no, you are not crazy. I just had my 3rd in July and I'll be 40 next March.

Posted 12/15/16 11:00 AM
 

Chai77
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Re: Chemical

I think you should go for it if you want another. I don't think 40 is too old. I have had four miscarriages in all, but just had my third child, a healthy baby girl, in October at age 39. It's very common nowadays according to my OB.

Posted 12/15/16 2:59 PM
 
 

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