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? for the TTC'ers
How do the DH's handle the BFN's? Do they make it like it's no big deal, or get as upset as you?
I know most men are sooo different from women, just wondering what their reaction is.
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Posted 5/15/05 7:25 AM  |
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DebG
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Re: ? for the TTC'ers
The first three months I did not tell DH I was even taking HPT's. When I did start telling him at first he did not react at all, then he got as upset asand act as the rock in our relationship.
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| Posted 5/15/05 9:10 AM |
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MrsJ
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Kathy
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Re: ? for the TTC'ers
DH tries not to get his hopes up because we have had a BP and then turned in to a BFN. He still gets upset. I think for him, seeing me cry hysterically is more upset than a BFN.
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| Posted 5/15/05 10:41 AM |
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bellarina
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Re: ? for the TTC'ers
I don't tell him I test. I just tell him when AF comes and he doesn't act any different. Today he is pushing me to make a Dr appt to talk about fertility. He practically yelled at me saying "what are you waiting for! You know I want a baby NOW!" Uhhhhh, this is the most emotion he has shown since we started TTC!
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| Posted 5/15/05 10:45 AM |
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leighla
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Lauren
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Re: ? for the TTC'ers
I don't tell him when I test either. Only once did I tell him, early on. But the rest of the time I just telll him when AF comes.
I think he'd think I was nuts if he knew how much I tested.
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| Posted 5/15/05 1:47 PM |
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Diane
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Re: ? for the TTC'ers
I get very upsaet, and will cry, but it will go away in a few days.
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| Posted 5/15/05 4:00 PM |
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Gertyrae
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Re: ? for the TTC'ers
He has been pretty good...He knows there is a problem so we haven't been getting our hopes up too much...I think now that we are going to an RE he may be alot more disappointed when there is a BFN.
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| Posted 5/15/05 11:47 PM |
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dm24angel
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Re: ? for the TTC'ers
I didnt tell him at first , and still really dont that I test. I will tell him after, when he asks that I was getting BFN's. He thinks its bad for me to test so often. BUT he also pushes me to test at like 3dpo...
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| Posted 5/16/05 8:13 AM |
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LnR6604
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Re: ? for the TTC'ers
At first I told him, but I think I would have drove him crazy if he knew how much I tested. I do know he was a little disappointed with all the negatives, but he stays positive for me, at least that's what he shows
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| Posted 5/16/05 8:35 AM |
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