And on the bright side of it all, you have this ENTIRE community of LIF, and fellow LIW members........who are completely there for you and will give you the best support and advice we possibly can give you which can add up to hundreds of us.
He, on the other hand, has noone (hee! hee!) unless for some reason there is a website created "Long Island Men" but I highly doubt many will join.
You are such a sweet, caring supportive person so of course everyone here rally's for you. You deserve much happiness - so sorry that you have to deal with this.