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Shorty
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Message edited 12/10/2010 10:01:58 PM.

Posted 7/16/06 11:14 PM
 
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Kidsaplenty
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

I would be very annoyed too. I have much younger sibling (the oldest are more than 10 years younger) and their loser boyfriends/girlfriends always get included in family functions.

Posted 7/16/06 11:17 PM
 

Shorty
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Posted by greeneyes361708

I would be very annoyed too. I have much younger sibling (the oldest are more than 10 years younger) and their loser boyfriends/girlfriends always get included in family functions.



ooo do they grope in public too?
I swear, they make me throw up in my mouth at least twice a week.

Posted 7/16/06 11:21 PM
 

Stefanie

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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Would you talk to your brother and tell him that you really wanted to go with your mom and dad to this one?

Posted 7/16/06 11:24 PM
 

Shorty
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really

Re: Irritated...vent/advice?



I already told him that I picked THIS game for him - so that he could see Biggio. I was really looking forward to going with him and Dad. Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/06 11:25 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Honestly? I'd just tell your brother, SORRY, but she's not invited. I mean, he's 15! Who gets a say when they're 15?!Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/06 11:26 PM
 

janet
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

i would not talk with your dad but with your brother, tell him that you are sorry there was a miscomunacation but the tix are for you dad rich and him, and that maybe Chat Icon at another time she can go, just not this timeChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/06 11:27 PM
 

Stefanie

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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Ahh, I see...I think your brother needs to tell his girl another time...

Posted 7/16/06 11:28 PM
 

Tany
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

you need to tell your brother how much this means to you that is just family this time and if he gives you a hassle, make a trade or something like that.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/06 11:32 PM
 

Shorty
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really

Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

I already tried - he told me that she was crying!!! Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/06 11:33 PM
 

Kidsaplenty
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Posted by Shorty

Posted by greeneyes361708

I would be very annoyed too. I have much younger sibling (the oldest are more than 10 years younger) and their loser boyfriends/girlfriends always get included in family functions.



ooo do they grope in public too?
I swear, they make me throw up in my mouth at least twice a week.



Yes! And the boyfriends that my sisters bring home are the biggest losers I have ever seen! I had to request and double check that for my daughter's 1st birthday there weren't going to be any "friends" over.

Posted 7/16/06 11:34 PM
 

Tany
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Posted by Shorty

I already tried - he told me that she was crying!!! Chat Icon



then how about if you talk to her and offer her something in return.Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/06 11:35 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Posted by Shorty

I already tried - he told me that she was crying!!! Chat Icon



Um, am I a total beyotch? Because I say a big, fat OH WELL to that. I mean, give me a break, it was nice enough that your family was going to take her in the first place. It was a misunderstanding, she needs to deal. End of story.

Posted 7/16/06 11:41 PM
 

Shorty
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really

Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

I agree Rach - that's exactly what I said to my Mom - right before she called me a total beyotch. Excuuuuse me, but I think imposing on someone's family is beyotchy!!!

I mean - my parents took her to see Phantom yesterday. What more does she want?!?!

Posted 7/16/06 11:44 PM
 

missus-hbradio
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Ewwww she was crying - eff that she is 15 for petes sake!!!! Shes not going - this is a family outing!

Posted 7/16/06 11:45 PM
 

BaroqueMama
Chase is one!

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me

Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Do I need to call this girl???Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/06 11:46 PM
 

Stefanie

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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

I think the waambulance needs to come get her.

Call your yourself and tell her....that will end all the confusion.

Posted 7/16/06 11:48 PM
 

Shorty
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really

Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

My Dad is Mr. Nice Guy. He won't want to offend the "guest" (gf), so I know he'll give up his seat for her. That's exactly what I DON'T WANT!!! Chat Icon

Eh, I guess I'll just speak my mind to Dad tomorrow and see where that gets me.

thanks ladies Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/06 12:02 AM
 

monkeybride
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Well basically in this situation I would tell your brother to tell his girlfriend that she can't go to this game, that he messed up. She's 15, she'll get over at some point.
If I am understanding correctly your mom doesn't really want to go and you want to go with Rich, your dad and brother?

Posted 7/17/06 12:38 AM
 

Shorty
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really

Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Posted by monkeybride

Well basically in this situation I would tell your brother to tell his girlfriend that she can't go to this game, that he messed up. She's 15, she'll get over at some point.
If I am understanding correctly your mom doesn't really want to go and you want to go with Rich, your dad and brother?



yes, sorry, i'm not speaking very clearly tonight. there's just a lot going on and I don't want to deal with high school garbage, if you know what I mean.

Posted 7/17/06 12:47 AM
 

Bri
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Your brother needs to tell his girlfriend that you bought those tickets for him and your dad and that there was a mix-up.

You should be going with your Dad and Bro and Rich- no if ands or buts!

Posted 7/17/06 6:55 AM
 

Blu-ize
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Posted by Shorty

I already tried - he told me that she was crying!!! Chat Icon



There's no crying in baseball!

Too bad..I vote for her to stay home.

Posted 7/17/06 8:30 AM
 

Karen
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Posted by THEINFAMOUSMRS.OTG

Your brother needs to tell his girlfriend that you bought those tickets for him and your dad and that there was a mix-up.

You should be going with your Dad and Bro and Rich- no if ands or buts!



totally agree!!! your brother should know that the Houston games are a big deal to you guys, just from past experience. forget about the GF, I wouldn't give her a second thought!!

Posted 7/17/06 8:31 AM
 

Emily
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Vent on!!! I would be slightly proturbed to say the least. You invited them to a game...you gave them tickets and now your lil bro is going to take his "skinny beotch" (i believe that is the term you used) who he probably wont even be dating 1-6 months from now!
I remember hs and how everything was sooo important and all that, so I think you just have to be the bigger person and let it go. It sounds rough but if we all held resentments over the slightest thing the world would be scarrrry. Chat Icon

Posted 7/17/06 8:34 AM
 

Shanti
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Re: Irritated...vent/advice?

Posted by EmilyAKAMrsK

Vent on!!! I would be slightly proturbed to say the least. You invited them to a game...you gave them tickets and now your lil bro is going to take his "skinny beotch" (i believe that is the term you used) who he probably wont even be dating 1-6 months from now!
I remember hs and how everything was sooo important and all that, so I think you just have to be the bigger person and let it go. It sounds rough but if we all held resentments over the slightest thing the world would be scarrrry. Chat Icon



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Posted 7/17/06 8:43 AM
 
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