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ml110
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:-( feel so bad for my friend!!
ok... so my friend T and her husband M got married in september. they have a large house with several spare bedrooms. M's best friend, D, finished his service in the army back in april, and M and T offered to let him stay at their house while he gets settled back in to life in NJ. they figured it would be a month, maybe two months tops.
WELL... now, here it is almost 4 months later and hes still there! not only that, but hes bringing his girlfriend up from texas and shes staying in there house with him for like 3 WEEKS!!! i can't beleive how much hes taking advantage of them! and i feel so bad for my friend because she doesn't want to have to "kick" him out or start drama because its her husbands best friend since they were kids. but i mean seriously, its one thing if hes staying there, but to bring his girlfriend up for that long, too?! and his mom lives in the area, its not like he doesn't have anywhere else to go....
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Re: :-( feel so bad for my friend!!
Posted by ml110
ok... so my friend T and her husband M got married in september. they have a large house with several spare bedrooms. M's best friend, D, finished his service in the army back in april, and M and T offered to let him stay at their house while he gets settled back in to life in NJ. they figured it would be a month, maybe two months tops.
WELL... now, here it is almost 4 months later and hes still there! not only that, but hes bringing his girlfriend up from texas and shes staying in there house with him for like 3 WEEKS!!! i can't beleive how much hes taking advantage of them! and i feel so bad for my friend because she doesn't want to have to "kick" him out or start drama because its her husbands best friend since they were kids. but i mean seriously, its one thing if hes staying there, but to bring his girlfriend up for that long, too?! and his mom lives in the area, its not like he doesn't have anywhere else to go....
ugh, what a sticky situation!
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| Posted 7/26/07 11:30 PM |
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DebG
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Re: :-( feel so bad for my friend!!
peanut butter stickiness!
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| Posted 7/26/07 11:31 PM |
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Jacksmommy
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Re: :-( feel so bad for my friend!!
she should watch you me and dupree LOL . Honestly, I would say something to DH!
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| Posted 7/27/07 6:29 AM |
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LightUpOurLife
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Re: :-( feel so bad for my friend!!
Posted by ejm1219
she should watch you me and dupree LOL . Honestly, I would say something to DH!
OMG!!!!! That would be perfect! Rent it and have a movie night with everyone! 
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| Posted 7/27/07 5:15 PM |
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Re: :-( feel so bad for my friend!!
OMG! My friends have a similar sitution. They had a friend who was in an abusive relationship and told her if she left the guy she could stay with them with her daughter...that was 2.5 years ago
Then, my friend's DH's brother moved in too last December, at least he pays some money to them to help with bills.
They are having a baby in December and they finally told everyone they need to be out by September
Just goes to show that you are nice and people walk all over you.
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| Posted 7/27/07 5:31 PM |
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SweetestOfPeas
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Re: :-( feel so bad for my friend!!
they really need to put their foot down and tell him he has until ___ and then he has to find his own place.
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| Posted 7/27/07 5:33 PM |
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Kate07
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Re: :-( feel so bad for my friend!!
Posted by ml110
hes bringing his girlfriend up from texas and shes staying in there house with him for like 3 WEEKS!!!
why isn't he staying with HER?
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| Posted 7/27/07 5:34 PM |
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MelToddJulia
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Re: :-( feel so bad for my friend!!
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Posted by ejm1219
she should watch you me and dupree LOL . Honestly, I would say something to DH!
OMG!!!!! That would be perfect! Rent it and have a movie night with everyone!
ITA!! maybe he will get the hint!
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| Posted 7/27/07 6:17 PM |
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