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Diva
I am what I am

Member since 12/05

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Jennifer

Does it bother you

when someone fm's you for information, you take the time to give it to them, and then you dont get so much as a thank you? Maybe, Im just taking it too personal. I've never had any problems with this in the past, but lately on the other site I find this happens more and more often. Makes me not want to help anymore. Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 12:49 PM
 
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nferrandi
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Member since 10/05

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Name:
Nicole

Re: Does it bother you

I do think it's kind of rude, but it hasn't happened to me on LIF, just LIW.

Posted 3/9/06 12:50 PM
 

Marcie
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Re: Does it bother you

This happens alot Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 12:51 PM
 

FeliciaDP

Member since 5/05

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Mommy

Re: Does it bother you

Ugh, I hear ya!! It used to happen SO OFTEN on LIWs , that was one of the reasons I just basically stopped sending detailed FM replies to people .. or I would just refer them to my review and tell them they could find the info they wanted there Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 12:52 PM
 

MrsPornStar
Partners in crime

Member since 10/05

14656 total posts

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Mama

Re: Does it bother you

It happens to me a lot on LIW! I take time to answer whatever questions and then don't ever hear from some people again.

Posted 3/9/06 12:53 PM
 

Shorty
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Member since 5/05

30390 total posts

Name:
really

Re: Does it bother you

YES - people are soooo interested, you give them all the info, and never hear from them again. Chat Icon

Whatever...people are flaky.

Posted 3/9/06 12:53 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Member since 5/05

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Sonia

Re: Does it bother you

Posted by Shorty

YES - people are soooo interested, you give them all the info, and never hear from them again. Chat Icon

Whatever...people are flaky.



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Posted 3/9/06 12:54 PM
 

Lisa
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Professional Aunts No Kids

Re: Does it bother you

Yes...I guess a simple Thank you is too hard for some to write back!! Chat Icon

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Posted 3/9/06 12:55 PM
 

Diva
I am what I am

Member since 12/05

2825 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: Does it bother you

Posted by Lisa

Yes...I guess a simple Thank you is too hard for some to write back!! Chat Icon

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Thats exactly what Im referring to. I dont need a story, but a nice thanks would go a long way Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 1:03 PM
 

missus-hbradio
Twin mommy

Member since 5/05

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Re: Does it bother you

Yes and they ruined it for people that are actually nice and considerate that might ask me a question in the future. Cause I just dont return those FMs anymore!

Posted 3/9/06 1:04 PM
 

MrsPornStar
Partners in crime

Member since 10/05

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Name:
Mama

Re: Does it bother you

Posted by Diva

Posted by Lisa

Yes...I guess a simple Thank you is too hard for some to write back!! Chat Icon

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Thats exactly what Im referring to. I dont need a story, but a nice thanks would go a long way Chat Icon



I couldn't agree more!

Posted 3/9/06 1:04 PM
 

LAMGAJ28
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Re: Does it bother you

Posted by Diva

Posted by Lisa

Yes...I guess a simple Thank you is too hard for some to write back!! Chat Icon

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Thats exactly what Im referring to. I dont need a story, but a nice thanks would go a long way Chat Icon



Especially if the information was useful...
You'd think they'd be thoughtful enough to do so.

Posted 3/9/06 1:05 PM
 

DebG
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Member since 5/05

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The cure IS worse!

Re: Does it bother you

Agreed, is it really THAT hard?

Posted 3/9/06 1:07 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Member since 1/06

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Name:
Michelle

Re: Does it bother you

all the time. I think it's rude

Posted 3/9/06 1:08 PM
 

Snozberry
I might steal your diamonds

Member since 2/06

4680 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: Does it bother you

Hasn't happened to me yet, but it certainly would bother me if it did.

Posted 3/9/06 1:10 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Member since 7/05

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Re: Does it bother you

Just finished going through my FMs. The problem for me is that I read something in between working & think "I'll FM them back in a minute". I dont go back into FM unless I get a flag- so I'm always a few days late in responding.

As for people thanking me or not thanking me, it doesn't bother me at all since I assume everyone is 1/2 working too.

Posted 3/9/06 1:15 PM
 

baghag
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Re: Does it bother you

Rude, rude, rude. It doesn't happen too often, though.

Posted 3/9/06 1:16 PM
 

lorich
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Grammie says "Lora Gina"

Re: Does it bother you

Posted by Snozberry

Hasn't happened to me yet, but it certainly would bother me if it did.



Same here. It hasn't happen to me yet, but I can only imagine how upset I'd be.Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 1:20 PM
 

Rapunzel
LIF Zygote

Member since 2/06

40 total posts

Name:
J

Re: Does it bother you

yes, I agree this happened to me a lot over on LIWs Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 1:22 PM
 

Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st

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Re: Does it bother you

I have had it happen here more then at LIW and while it's rude, I am not going to let it bother me. Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 1:25 PM
 

missus-hbradio
Twin mommy

Member since 5/05

15857 total posts

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Re: Does it bother you

Posted by nrthshgrl

Just finished going through my FMs. The problem for me is that I read something in between working & think "I'll FM them back in a minute". I dont go back into FM unless I get a flag- so I'm always a few days late in responding.

As for people thanking me or not thanking me, it doesn't bother me at all since I assume everyone is 1/2 working too.



Yeah I understand the 1/2 working thing - but its like in my experience its brides to be who are posting all over the place - they have enough time to do that but not enough time to say thank you.

Posted 3/9/06 1:30 PM
 

DonnaJoe708
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Re: Does it bother you

This has happened to me too. This is one of the reasons I hardly go on there now.

Posted 3/9/06 1:31 PM
 

mrswask
Pookie Love

Member since 5/05

20229 total posts

Name:
Michal

Re: Does it bother you

Posted by Diva

when someone fm's you for information, you take the time to give it to them, and then you dont get so much as a thank you? Maybe, Im just taking it too personal. I've never had any problems with this in the past, but lately on the other site I find this happens more and more often. Makes me not want to help anymore. Chat Icon




Just happened AGAIN to me the other day on LIW - my own fault - I should know better by now!Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 10:17 PM
 

MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.

Member since 5/05

26170 total posts

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MrsERod™®

Re: Does it bother you

Posted by Diva

when someone fm's you for information, you take the time to give it to them, and then you dont get so much as a thank you?





YES, YES, YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is VERY rude!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

which is why when it happened to me, i told the person EXACTLY how i felt, and then put them on my blocked list!!!!! Chat Icon

next time you want info.....dial 411!!! Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/06 10:23 PM
 

SoinLove
Making big changes

Member since 5/05

16541 total posts

Name:
Kristin

Re: Does it bother you

Happened ALL the time on LIW and yes, it bothered me a lot.

Posted 3/9/06 10:32 PM
 
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