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Summer05
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Good Luck!! 
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Tumbalina
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
you rock!! 
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:15 PM |
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jaysee00
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Just wanted to say  and I hope it all works out for you. I am sure that you have been feeling so terrible. There is nothing like the feeling of being deceived.
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:26 PM |
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HelpPlease
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
She just wrote me back and said This
"DH is a good guy though. I wouldn't worry if i were you. He loves you.
I can't vouch for anyone else he talks to b/c I don't know their intentions. But I'd never do that to you or to anyone else. Its not my thing.
But it's totally your call. I was really happy to run into him again but the LAST thing i'd want to do is create problems between the two of you.
Think about it, and if you don't want me to talk to him, I won't. Let me know."
Sounds to me like she is trying to be very sincere. This definitely puts me a little bit more at ease. But that skeptic in me still has a small bit of worry.
Thanks for listening to all this and letting me let this all out. It has been very theraputic.
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:31 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
This chick emailed you first?
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:34 PM |
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mommy2bella
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Posted by HelpPlease
She just wrote me back and said This
"DH is a good guy though. I wouldn't worry if i were you. He loves you.
I can't vouch for anyone else he talks to b/c I don't know their intentions. But I'd never do that to you or to anyone else. Its not my thing.
But it's totally your call. I was really happy to run into him again but the LAST thing i'd want to do is create problems between the two of you.
Think about it, and if you don't want me to talk to him, I won't. Let me know."
Sounds to me like she is trying to be very sincere. This definitely puts me a little bit more at ease. But that skeptic in me still has a small bit of worry.
Thanks for listening to all this and letting me let this all out. It has been very theraputic.
Watch your back! I am WAY late to the game here, but I read your story and this sounds like they are trying to cover tracks. Sadly, my gut tells me, DH called her when he went to the gym and told her to write something...
I can't vouch for anyone else he talks to b/c I don't know their intentions. But I'd never do that to you or to anyone else. Its not my thing.
This sounds very leery to me...what he is doing is NOT OK and they both know it....
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TheInfamousOTG
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
In my mind never trust anyone!!!!! When it comes to situations like this. Funk That!!! I would put an end to this.
Message edited 4/3/2006 8:37:41 PM.
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:35 PM |
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HelpPlease
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Posted by Redhead
This chick emailed you first?
Yup she sure did.
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:35 PM |
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beautyq115
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Posted by HelpPlease
She just wrote me back and said This
"DH is a good guy though. I wouldn't worry if i were you. He loves you.
I can't vouch for anyone else he talks to b/c I don't know their intentions. But I'd never do that to you or to anyone else. Its not my thing.
But it's totally your call. I was really happy to run into him again but the LAST thing i'd want to do is create problems between the two of you.
Think about it, and if you don't want me to talk to him, I won't. Let me know."
Sounds to me like she is trying to be very sincere. This definitely puts me a little bit more at ease. But that skeptic in me still has a small bit of worry.
Thanks for listening to all this and letting me let this all out. It has been very theraputic.
I'm sorry...but why is she talking to him then...just to be friends What is her motive??? I wouldn't trust her...sorry
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:35 PM |
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Diana1215
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Did she just send you an email out of nowhere or did your DH tell her that you confronted him about her? Sorry if this was said earlier on and I just missed it.
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:37 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Posted by HelpPlease
Posted by Redhead
This chick emailed you first?
Yup she sure did.
sorry but that alone makes me even MORE suspicious...
the coincidence of that is just tooo much for me....
I also think she is looking to have you say..noooo it is ok. You can be friends
But in this situation...SORRY i wouldn't humble myself to that
I would be flat out honest and say that it would be nice if you stopped talking and moved on...
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:37 PM |
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MommyofG
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
they are probably trying to find out just how much you know about them too- NEVER trust a situation like this!!!!! How convenient she is emailing YOU when he is not home? too perfect if you ask me.
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:37 PM |
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beautyq115
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
I just don't understand how SHE emailed YOU ...How does she have your e-mail????
What is she doing talking to a married man???
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:38 PM |
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mommy2bella
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Posted by Redhead
the coincidence of that is just tooo much for me....
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I agree...they are definitely in spin mode
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:39 PM |
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TheInfamousOTG
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Your husband definitely warned her
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:40 PM |
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HelpPlease
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Posted by mommy2bellabean
Posted by HelpPlease
She just wrote me back and said This
"DH is a good guy though. I wouldn't worry if i were you. He loves you.
I can't vouch for anyone else he talks to b/c I don't know their intentions. But I'd never do that to you or to anyone else. Its not my thing.
But it's totally your call. I was really happy to run into him again but the LAST thing i'd want to do is create problems between the two of you.
Think about it, and if you don't want me to talk to him, I won't. Let me know."
Sounds to me like she is trying to be very sincere. This definitely puts me a little bit more at ease. But that skeptic in me still has a small bit of worry.
Thanks for listening to all this and letting me let this all out. It has been very theraputic.
Watch your back! I am WAY late to the game here, but I read your story and this sounds like they are trying to cover tracks. Sadly, my gut tells me, DH called her when he went to the gym and told her to write something...
I can't vouch for anyone else he talks to b/c I don't know their intentions. But I'd never do that to you or to anyone else. Its not my thing.
This sounds very leery to me...what he is doing is NOT OK and they both know it....
Oh definitely this doesn't put either of them in the clear for now. I told her I would appreciate it if they only corresponded every once in a while and never spoke on the phone. I had also made mention that I don't know if they have spoken on the phone up to this point. And that I am sure she has some good stories of them two.
She just replied with Yea those two were a funny pair kept us laughing. Take Care.
Hmm shouldn't she be telling me that they spoke on the phone last night. Or that he called her. Yea I am not buying this one bit. I will keep snooping around and not sleeping and I will catch them. This just fuels my fire even more.
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nrthshgrl
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
I think it's time to check that cell phone record to see what time he called her to tell her to email you.
eta.
I recall Angelina Jolie saying something very similar about not being with a married man, that she'd never do that because of what happened with her parents...
Hang in there!
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HelpPlease
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Posted by beautyq115
I just don't understand how SHE emailed YOU ...How does she have your e-mail????
What is she doing talking to a married man???
She sent me an e-mail on myspace.com She saw me on his webpage.
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:42 PM |
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justme1
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Im really sorry your going through this but my gut is telling me they are making a fool out of you.
I dont think this was a coincidence either with this myspace letter.
If she REALLY wanted him to not mess up his marriage she would leave him alone.
Hes def looking for an affair and probably has even done things on the phone late at night with her.
When she says " come out to vegas with your wife" she KNOWS hes not going to bring you.. so what shes really doing is inviting him to come see her and have an affair with her.
Im sorry im being so brutally honest.. but I really think you need to tell him he needs to stop talking to this woman immediatly and go for counseling or move out and go be with her.
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HelpPlease
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Posted by TheInfamousOTG
Your husband definitely warned her
Thanks for confirming my thoughts. Now I just wait.
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:43 PM |
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mommy2bella
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Posted by HelpPlease
Hmm shouldn't she be telling me that they spoke on the phone last night. Or that he called her. Yea I am not buying this one bit. I will keep snooping around and not sleeping and I will catch them. This just fuels my fire even more.
I think you should take DJPill's computer advice and definitely do some PI work...where is my sister (kdelace) when you need her...
she is VERY CIA!
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:43 PM |
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beautyq115
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Posted by HelpPlease
Posted by beautyq115
I just don't understand how SHE emailed YOU ...How does she have your e-mail????
What is she doing talking to a married man???
She sent me an e-mail on myspace.com She saw me on his webpage.
Oh ok...I thought you meant personal e-mail...sorry! I hope this gets resolved for you
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Redhead
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Posted by HelpPlease
Posted by beautyq115
I just don't understand how SHE emailed YOU ...How does she have your e-mail????
What is she doing talking to a married man???
She sent me an e-mail on myspace.com She saw me on his webpage.
still...the fact that NOW she emails you like this....
ODD and TOOOOO Coincidental to be out of the blue
Tell her you are sure it was nice to catch up on an old friend but...ENOUGH
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beautyq115
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
Posted by IslandGrl
Im really sorry your going through this but my gut is telling me they are making a fool out of you.
I dont think this was a coincidence either with this myspace letter.
If she REALLY wanted him to not mess up his marriage she would leave him alone.
Hes def looking for an affair and probably has even done things on the phone late at night with her.
When she says " come out to vegas with your wife" she KNOWS hes not going to bring you.. so what shes really doing is inviting him to come see her and have an affair with her.
Im sorry im being so brutally honest.. but I really think you need to tell him he needs to stop talking to this woman immediatly and go for counseling or move out and go be with her.
I agree...she should have NO contact with him...there is no reason for it!
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| Posted 4/3/06 8:44 PM |
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Wendy
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Re: I deperately need advice Update at bottom
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Posted by TheInfamousOTG
Your husband definitely warned her
Thanks for confirming my thoughts. Now I just wait.
I don't understand why you would "wait" ... I think you should have confronted your DH with any & all info you had in the first place ... now it's been reduced to games IMO.
Good luck!
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