LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

I confess... I'm the only one who "does it right"

Posted By Message
Pages: 1 [2]

BabyAvocado
Happy New Year

Member since 5/05

17334 total posts

Name:

Re: I confess... I'm the only one who "does it right"

Well, of course I do everything the best and no one does it like me Chat Icon . But I am capable of leaving him with others. In fact, I just left him for 3 nights with my mom so DH and I could take a little getaway. It was VERY hard, but I saw the way she was with him and I knew he was in very good hands. And DH is great, I have no worries leaving him with DH alone.

I think it's good to be able to do that, for your own sanity.

Posted 7/18/06 9:12 AM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

3sisters
LIF Infant

Member since 7/06

121 total posts

Name:
Jeanette

Re: I confess... I'm the only one who "does it right"

Yes, I definitely feel the same way. I think every mother does, but I'm learning to relax a little bit more. I am a little too overprotective. I have these visions of people dropping him, but I can not not let anyone else feed him or hold him. I just pray that everyone who does hold him and feed him takes good care of him.

Posted 7/18/06 9:38 AM
 

KangaMom
...

Member since 1/06

4593 total posts

Name:

Re: I confess... I'm the only one who "does it right"

I sort of feel this way... I exclusively nurse and I like being her main source of food and comfort. I do trust DH and mom and some family members but never really left her longer than an hour to maybe take a shower, nap, clean, etc... I would miss her too much as exhausting as she can be Chat Icon

Posted 7/18/06 5:34 PM
 

AnnBrunoXO
2 Girls For Me!

Member since 5/05

4377 total posts

Name:
MaMMa

Re: I confess... I'm the only one who "does it right"

I completely feel that way - but i've learned to let go alittle and i think its actually healthy for DD to experience how other people feed her, hold her etc.....I know she doesn't always like other family members methods of doing things - and i know im the person she turns to whenever she is hungry or uncomfortable etc....I always seem to be the person that calms her down and i love that - but in reality I can't always be around her every waking moment. I really want her to get used to being around other people and allowing others to change her, feed her etc...so she can distinguish her likes and dislikes in people and situations.....

Message edited 7/18/2006 6:03:46 PM.

Posted 7/18/06 6:02 PM
 

emilain
UNREAL!!!!!!!!

Member since 5/05

4457 total posts

Name:
Mama

Re: I confess... I'm the only one who "does it right"

I use to feel that way, but now after baby #3, I am confident that my hubby, my parents, my il's, my SIL, and my best friend will take just as good care of them, but these are the only people I would EVER have watch them.

You have to give people a chance to prove themselves I bet you will be pleasantly surprised.

Message edited 7/18/2006 6:57:09 PM.

Posted 7/18/06 6:56 PM
 
Pages: 1 [2]
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
Confess your strange eating habits... CAJ 3/15/06 115 Families Helping Families ™
I must confess Jessica 2/13/06 19 Families Helping Families ™
OK I confess I played hairdresser, too steph4777 1/25/06 25 Parenting
Confess BabyAvocado 9/30/05 42 Families Helping Families ™
I Must Confess.... LadyMaravilla 6/10/05 8 Families Helping Families ™
OK, it's time I confess... Shorty 5/11/05 7 Families Helping Families ™
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 589296 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows