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DebG
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Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
Don't worry, it will happen
Just relax
Are you sure you are doing it right?
It will happen in God's time
What ones really get under your skin?
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Donna
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
people really amaze me....
Mine are like this -
Them - Your b**bs look huge - you must be pregnant
Me - no it's the bra
Them - you look a little bigger - you must be pregnant -
Me - No I just gained some weight but thanks for pointing it out
Or one of DH's friend's wife asks DH if I'm ovulating yet...
Thank god for this board
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CookiePuss
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
Posted by DebG
Are you sure you are doing it right?
Are you kidding me? Not doing it right? People can be so stupid sometimes!!!
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Cheryl
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
This is the exact reason NO ONE will know that I'm TTC!
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DebG
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
Posted by CherylBooch
This is the exact reason NO ONE will know that I'm TTC!
Just wait...people start making the assumption you are and make comments anyway
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Cocoa
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
me: ( walking into dad's house. ) Hi!
Dad: so, are you pregnant?
me:  no.
Dad: i can't wait to bounce my son on this knee and my grandchild on the other. 
gotta love the optimism.
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Cheryl
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
Posted by DebG
Posted by CherylBooch
This is the exact reason NO ONE will know that I'm TTC!
Just wait...people start making the assumption you are and make comments anyway
Well in that case- I get the opposite. If the topic of kids come up- I still keep my mouth shut- but I hear:
"Wait a few years"
"You're so young anyways"
"Don't rush into it"
"Travel"
"It is the end of your free life"
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MrsJ
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
I get "are you PG?"
I tell them "no"
I get back "Are you sure"
I tell them "YES I'm sure"
They ask "How do you know you aren't"
AHHHHHHH
If they only KNEW just HOW friggin well I know I "arent"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And then this one "Kathy you have to relax you cant get so obsessed" they have no idea.
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DebG
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
I DESPISE "just relax" more than any other one!
ORRRR the nurse in my DR's office!!! Who said...maybe you should stop trying so hard.
UMMM Shut up biatch!
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computergirl
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
There are all these annoying variations on "just relax" too, like---
"Go on a vacation and it will happen"
or my personal favorite:
"If you give up and start working on an adoption, just watch, you're going to get pregnant"
The second one came from my mother, who claims to have all sorts of anecdotal evidence to back this up
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leighla
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
I especially love the people who hear we are having trouble and proceed to tell me about their "accident" and how it was so easy for them.
Thanks....like I wasn't depressed enough now I need to hear about how you weren't even trying and were "blessed".
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DebG
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
Posted by leighla
I especially love the people who hear we are having trouble and proceed to tell me about their "accident" and how it was so easy for them.
Thanks....like I wasn't depressed enough now I need to hear about how you weren't even trying and were "blessed".
OMG! I can def. relate to this one.
Ready for the worst one I ever got.
You must have done something really wrong to make god sooo angry at you to have so many miscarriages.
I am serious...this was said to me.
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waytogo
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
"DON'T DO IT, your marriage will be over"
-from my siblings I'm sure the spouses enjoy hearing that one
oh, and "daycare is so awful, I dunno how anyone can do that the their child." from the same siblings who full well know I can't quit my career and would NEED to do daycare...
PS - none of them have any idea. I've been saying "I know, don't worry."
but then again, we're not TTC for 6 months...
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LisaW
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
I think I have heard them all!!!
I've learned to talk back now, especially when I'm told to relax and it will happen...
Ummmmm, NOT!!! I have no freaking tubes!!!!
That usually shuts them up pretty quickly  
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LisaW
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
Posted by waytogo
"DON'T DO IT, your marriage will be over"
OMG, I HATE this one. Especially with all we are going through to get there.
Or, awwwwww you guys seem so happy, wait till you have kids 
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checka
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
Posted by DebG
OMG! I can def. relate to this one.
Ready for the worst one I ever got.
You must have done something really wrong to make god sooo angry at you to have so many miscarriages.
I am serious...this was said to me.
 I can't believe that someone actually said that to you! That is so horrible!
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dm24angel
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
FROM EVERY friend who's kids are driving them crazy at the moment
" ARE YOU SURE you want this?" OR
" DONT DO IT, You'll regret it"...
HATE THOSE
"Just give it time" is really annoying too...I DONT WANT TO GIVE IT TIME.
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
Posted by DebG
Are you sure you are doing it right?
Can you imagine the look on someone's face if you were to say to them "I don't know, Mama always told me that kissing made girls pregnant and that's what we always do."
(I had a roommate in COLLEGE who thought that women got PG that way. Upstate NY can rival Florida for armpit status)
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FeliciaDP
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
Posted by DebG
Ready for the worst one I ever got.
You must have done something really wrong to make god sooo angry at you to have so many miscarriages.
I am serious...this was said to me.
That is simply HORRIBLE and I have no words .. Anyone who would EVER say something like that is a piece o'crap, IMO
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FeliciaDP
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
Posted by CherylBooch
This is the exact reason NO ONE will know that I'm TTC!
I'm with you on this, Cheryl!
Outside of you ladies and maybe 2 friends (if that) NOONE knows we are actively TTC
HOWEVER I think everyone is assuming we are TTC, especially our famiy (but I refuse to confirm or deny that) My favorite was when we had just gotten engaged, and I started hearing "well since you ARE getting older and into "high risk territory" I'm surrrrrre you'll be trying to get PG on your honeymoon, right?"
I'm already sensitive to the fact that I am 35 (was 34 when we were married) ... I did NOT NEED to have it rubbed in
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Posted by FeliciaDP
I'm already sensitive to the fact that I am 35 (was 34 when we were married) ... I did NOT NEED to have it rubbed in
I got that too- I had friends saying, "Oh, so you're going to try for kids right away, right?" Wrong.
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LnR6604
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
Last month more than 4 people asked me if I was PG (I think thats why i freaked out and tested every day)
I have also gotten... You're only married a year why rush it. and my best one Your lives will be over. What a Crock! I wish people would mind their business!
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DebG
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
To all the things people are saying to us.
Lets start coming up with witty/sarcastic/jawdropping comebacks!
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| Posted 5/13/05 8:41 AM |
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
Posted by DebG
To all the things people are saying to us.
Lets start coming up with witty/sarcastic/jawdropping comebacks!
OK.
"But you're so young!"
"Actually, I'm 47 and very well preserved."
"Are you pregnant?"
"No, I am just to busy eating and having sex that I no longer have time to work out."
OR
"No, I'm just fat." (I have noticably gained weight and this was what I was planning to say to co-workers if the question came up.)
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juju
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Re: Most annoying AND/OR Most Stupid things people say to me while TTC
"I usually get what I want. So when we were TTCing, I was determined to Get Preggers"
Guess What.........I usually get what I want too and it is not happening! And yes, I am determined!
I know she didn't mean any harm but "hello" has some sensitivity since I just told you that I am having difficulty.
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