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Diva
I am what I am

Member since 12/05 2825 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Does it bother you
when someone fm's you for information, you take the time to give it to them, and then you dont get so much as a thank you? Maybe, Im just taking it too personal. I've never had any problems with this in the past, but lately on the other site I find this happens more and more often. Makes me not want to help anymore.
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Posted 3/9/06 12:49 PM |
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nferrandi
too excited for words

Member since 10/05 18538 total posts
Name: Nicole
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Re: Does it bother you
I do think it's kind of rude, but it hasn't happened to me on LIF, just LIW.
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Posted 3/9/06 12:50 PM |
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Marcie
Complete Happiness :)
Member since 5/05 27789 total posts
Name: LOVE being a Mommy!
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Re: Does it bother you
This happens alot
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Posted 3/9/06 12:51 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Member since 5/05 18599 total posts
Name: Mommy
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Re: Does it bother you
Ugh, I hear ya!! It used to happen SO OFTEN on LIWs , that was one of the reasons I just basically stopped sending detailed FM replies to people .. or I would just refer them to my review and tell them they could find the info they wanted there
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Posted 3/9/06 12:52 PM |
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MrsPornStar
Partners in crime

Member since 10/05 14656 total posts
Name: Mama
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Re: Does it bother you
It happens to me a lot on LIW! I take time to answer whatever questions and then don't ever hear from some people again.
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Posted 3/9/06 12:53 PM |
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Shorty
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Member since 5/05 30390 total posts
Name: really
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Re: Does it bother you
YES - people are soooo interested, you give them all the info, and never hear from them again. 
Whatever...people are flaky.
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Posted 3/9/06 12:53 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here

Member since 5/05 12023 total posts
Name: Sonia
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Re: Does it bother you
Posted by Shorty
YES - people are soooo interested, you give them all the info, and never hear from them again. 
Whatever...people are flaky.
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Posted 3/9/06 12:54 PM |
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Lisa
I'm a PANK!!!

Member since 5/05 22334 total posts
Name: Professional Aunts No Kids
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Re: Does it bother you
Yes...I guess a simple Thank you is too hard for some to write back!!
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Posted 3/9/06 12:55 PM |
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Diva
I am what I am

Member since 12/05 2825 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Re: Does it bother you
Posted by Lisa
Yes...I guess a simple Thank you is too hard for some to write back!!
Thats exactly what Im referring to. I dont need a story, but a nice thanks would go a long way
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Posted 3/9/06 1:03 PM |
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Re: Does it bother you
Yes and they ruined it for people that are actually nice and considerate that might ask me a question in the future. Cause I just dont return those FMs anymore!
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Posted 3/9/06 1:04 PM |
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MrsPornStar
Partners in crime

Member since 10/05 14656 total posts
Name: Mama
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Re: Does it bother you
Posted by Diva
Posted by Lisa
Yes...I guess a simple Thank you is too hard for some to write back!!
Thats exactly what Im referring to. I dont need a story, but a nice thanks would go a long way
I couldn't agree more!
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Posted 3/9/06 1:04 PM |
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LAMGAJ28
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Member since 10/05 6039 total posts
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Re: Does it bother you
Posted by Diva
Posted by Lisa
Yes...I guess a simple Thank you is too hard for some to write back!!
Thats exactly what Im referring to. I dont need a story, but a nice thanks would go a long way
Especially if the information was useful... You'd think they'd be thoughtful enough to do so.
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Posted 3/9/06 1:05 PM |
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DebG
Pick a cause & stand up for it

Member since 5/05 18602 total posts
Name: The cure IS worse!
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Re: Does it bother you
Agreed, is it really THAT hard?
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Posted 3/9/06 1:07 PM |
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3

Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
Name: Michelle
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Re: Does it bother you
all the time. I think it's rude
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Posted 3/9/06 1:08 PM |
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Snozberry
I might steal your diamonds

Member since 2/06 4680 total posts
Name: Melissa
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Re: Does it bother you
Hasn't happened to me yet, but it certainly would bother me if it did.
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Posted 3/9/06 1:10 PM |
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nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.

Member since 7/05 57538 total posts
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Re: Does it bother you
Just finished going through my FMs. The problem for me is that I read something in between working & think "I'll FM them back in a minute". I dont go back into FM unless I get a flag- so I'm always a few days late in responding.
As for people thanking me or not thanking me, it doesn't bother me at all since I assume everyone is 1/2 working too.
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Posted 3/9/06 1:15 PM |
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baghag
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Member since 5/05 10278 total posts
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Re: Does it bother you
Rude, rude, rude. It doesn't happen too often, though.
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Posted 3/9/06 1:16 PM |
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lorich
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Member since 6/05 9987 total posts
Name: Grammie says "Lora Gina"
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Re: Does it bother you
Posted by Snozberry
Hasn't happened to me yet, but it certainly would bother me if it did.
Same here. It hasn't happen to me yet, but I can only imagine how upset I'd be.
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Posted 3/9/06 1:20 PM |
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Rapunzel
LIF Zygote

Member since 2/06 40 total posts
Name: J
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Re: Does it bother you
yes, I agree this happened to me a lot over on LIWs
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Posted 3/9/06 1:22 PM |
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Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st

Member since 5/05 15287 total posts
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Re: Does it bother you
I have had it happen here more then at LIW and while it's rude, I am not going to let it bother me.
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Posted 3/9/06 1:25 PM |
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Re: Does it bother you
Posted by nrthshgrl
Just finished going through my FMs. The problem for me is that I read something in between working & think "I'll FM them back in a minute". I dont go back into FM unless I get a flag- so I'm always a few days late in responding.
As for people thanking me or not thanking me, it doesn't bother me at all since I assume everyone is 1/2 working too.
Yeah I understand the 1/2 working thing - but its like in my experience its brides to be who are posting all over the place - they have enough time to do that but not enough time to say thank you.
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Posted 3/9/06 1:30 PM |
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DonnaJoe708
Hello
Member since 5/05 4002 total posts
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Re: Does it bother you
This has happened to me too. This is one of the reasons I hardly go on there now.
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Posted 3/9/06 1:31 PM |
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mrswask
Pookie Love

Member since 5/05 20229 total posts
Name: Michal
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Re: Does it bother you
Posted by Diva
when someone fm's you for information, you take the time to give it to them, and then you dont get so much as a thank you? Maybe, Im just taking it too personal. I've never had any problems with this in the past, but lately on the other site I find this happens more and more often. Makes me not want to help anymore.
Just happened AGAIN to me the other day on LIW - my own fault - I should know better by now!
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Posted 3/9/06 10:17 PM |
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.

Member since 5/05 26170 total posts
Name: MrsERod™®
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Re: Does it bother you
Posted by Diva
when someone fm's you for information, you take the time to give it to them, and then you dont get so much as a thank you?
YES, YES, YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It is VERY rude!!!
which is why when it happened to me, i told the person EXACTLY how i felt, and then put them on my blocked list!!!!!
next time you want info.....dial 411!!!
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Posted 3/9/06 10:23 PM |
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SoinLove
Making big changes

Member since 5/05 16541 total posts
Name: Kristin
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Re: Does it bother you
Happened ALL the time on LIW and yes, it bothered me a lot.
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Posted 3/9/06 10:32 PM |
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