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nferrandi
too excited for words
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Nicole
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Re: Feeling so angry and soooo sad!
I'm so sorry that your parents disappointed you like that. I know that I would be devastated if I made a big sacrifice thinking it was for the greater good, and then didn't get what was "promised." 
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Faithx2
All good things in 2016!!
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Re: Feeling so angry and soooo sad!
Aww Marissa that stinks 
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| Posted 7/31/06 12:55 PM |
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05mommy09
Family of 5!
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Re: Feeling so angry and soooo sad!
Posted by Jamie
Marissa,
If you are going to have your vow renewal. If you want the big dress. You are more than welcome to borrow mine if you would like. Or you can borrow my crinoline or my bun wrap. Any of that if it will save you money and give you a wedding that you want and deserve.
Awww thanks!
Im just sooo stressed Part of me thinks taking a break from doing the bills (letting DH take over) will help- the other part of me thinks it will make me more crazy-
I tried talking with my dad about this today- All I really got from him was something about him needing to buy my brother a car (?) even though HE already bought him one... and my brother wrecked it (Yes the same brother that was caught drinking and driving )
Its all so fustrating!
And again- I totally thought Id be able to handle watching my friends get married and being a part of their weddings.... but seeing my friend in her dress the other day- just made me so sad (and jealous  )
I cant stop thinking of how I couldve done things differently (Like had the real wedding- but moved it up, or something like that) and I know I need to stop dwelling on it... and just deal with the things that are now...
I know spending money you didnt have to begin with is not always smart.... and I AGAIN wanna make it point for all to understand that I am soooooooooooooo grateful for what I have...
BUT- I wouldnt of scraficed my wedding day- had I known this was how things wouldve turned out... I skipped the wedding because I thought it was better for me to take the cash- so I in fact could provide MORE FOR MY SON!
I just thought my parents- if anyone- would come through for me
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| Posted 7/31/06 2:44 PM |
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nov04libride
big brother <3
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Re: Feeling so angry and soooo sad!
Could you cancel the Caribbean vow renewal or back out of being BM to save money? I know how expensive being in a wedding party can be, and our trip to the Caribbean, even though we found a great deal, is really adding up... I can imagine how you feel about wanting the most for your son at this point. I would back out of the wedding parties definitely--if they are your friends I am sure they would understand the financial difficulties.
Message edited 7/31/2006 2:54:44 PM.
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| Posted 7/31/06 2:47 PM |
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Re: Feeling so angry and soooo sad!
I think you need some of these
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| Posted 7/31/06 2:49 PM |
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05mommy09
Family of 5!
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Re: Feeling so angry and soooo sad!
Posted by nov04libride
Could you cancel the Caribbean vow renewal or back out of being BM to save money? I know how expensive being in a wedding party can be, and our trip to the Caribbean, even though we found a great deal, is really adding up... I can imagine how you feel about wanting the most for your son at this point. I would back out of the wedding parties definitely--if they are your friends I am sure they would understand the financial difficulties. Yes, your plans were changed because you got PG, but would you really want to change anything?
Change anything meaning what?
With my son ABSOLUTELY NOT!
With my wedding- YES...
See we didnt decide to cancel the wedding until AFTER the baby was born...So when we did infact get married (in the JOP)
We didnt take any pictures... I didnt get dressed up... I made it no big deal - because at the time- this was only so Id have the same last name as the baby- We still 100% planned on having our big wedding... so to be honest- we pretending like this was nothing... we didnt even tell anyone (other than our parents) for we intended on treating our big wedding like the real thing....
If I could change things... I probably... wouldve still had a real wedding... a much smaller one... and taken pics.. and everything....
See- we have nothing from our real wedding day.... NOTHING...
God- DH went to work that day- came home, showered, went down to the town hall, got married, ate dinner, came home and went to bed....
This was all done at my request- for I wanted my big wedding to be my wedding day!
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| Posted 7/31/06 2:59 PM |
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Elbee
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Member since 5/05 10767 total posts
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Me
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Re: Feeling so angry and soooo sad!
UGH, I'm so sorry this is turning out so badly for you. I feel your pai and frustration!
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| Posted 7/31/06 3:02 PM |
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