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Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

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Janice
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Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

I did. I did not encourage it, but I also did not let it worry me either. My siblings who were underage did not drink, my parents have no tolerence for it.

But many 18-20 year olds on DH's side, as well as my own cousins were drinking.

Posted 11/15/05 11:34 AM
 
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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

No. The only teenagers at my wedding were my cousins from Paris who sat with their parents and my 16 year old SIL from Israel who also sat with her parents. I didn't worry about it because they were under thier parent's supervision.

Message edited 11/15/2005 11:44:55 AM.

Posted 11/15/05 11:36 AM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

I only had one. He is out of control to begin with so I didn't let it bother me - I just needed to make sure that he was not driving my flowergirl home.

Posted 11/15/05 11:38 AM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

Not at all. there were very few youngfer teenagers there - all of our nephews and nieces and cousins. No one was drinking. I wouldnt have allowed it either.

Posted 11/15/05 11:42 AM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

I was wondering- does it make a difference to you if the underage drinkers parents approve or not?

Posted 11/15/05 11:45 AM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

NOT AT ALL
but the only underage were two 8 year olds

Posted 11/15/05 11:47 AM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

No...the youngest people there were my niece and nephew who are 7 and 9.

Posted 11/15/05 11:48 AM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

Posted by baghag

I was wondering- does it make a difference to you if the underage drinkers parents approve or not?




Yes it makes a difference.

My case - his mother has NO control over him

Posted 11/15/05 11:48 AM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

I think my BIL drank, but I wasn't going to sit there and monitor him. My other BIL or DH's childhood friend probably got him the drinks.

Posted 11/15/05 12:01 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

My 16 yr old cousin got drunk at mine and puked in the back of my uncle's truck. I didn't notice that he was drinking I was too busy. My uncle made him clean it up the next day with his hangover Chat Icon I think he learned his lesson. I don't mind underage drinkers if they are over 18, but anything younger than that irks me. I believe the drinking age should be 18, if you can die for your country, you should certainly be allowed a beer in it.

Posted 11/15/05 12:06 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

We only had two people at my wedding of "teenage years". And I doubt they drank anything because their father (who was present) is a recovering alcoholic.

Posted 11/15/05 12:07 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

Posted by mommy2Alex

My 16 yr old cousin got drunk at mine and puked in the back of my uncle's truck. I didn't notice that he was drinking I was too busy. My uncle made him clean it up the next day with his hangover Chat Icon I think he learned his lesson. I don't mind underage drinkers if they are over 18, but anything younger than that irks me. I believe the drinking age should be 18, if you can die for your country, you should certainly be allowed a beer in it.



The drinking age used to be 18 right & then it got changed to 21.

Posted 11/15/05 12:07 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

I believe 18 should be the age as well. Let's face it, unless you are sending your kid to a Mormon college, drinking on campus is going to be all around them anyway. Maybe making it legal will make it less appealing.

Posted 11/15/05 12:08 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

Posted by Janice

Maybe making it legal will make it less appealing.




Um... no. Chat Icon

Posted 11/15/05 12:09 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

Posted by DjPiLL

Posted by Janice

Maybe making it legal will make it less appealing.




Um... no. Chat Icon

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Posted 11/15/05 12:10 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

Posted by Janice

I believe 18 should be the age as well. Let's face it, unless you are sending your kid to a Mormon college, drinking on campus is going to be all around them anyway. Maybe making it legal will make it less appealing.



It's all about either controlling yourself or letting it control you.

Posted 11/15/05 12:11 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

No, I didn't have any.

Posted 11/15/05 12:12 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

Posted by LadyLainez

Posted by Janice

I believe 18 should be the age as well. Let's face it, unless you are sending your kid to a Mormon college, drinking on campus is going to be all around them anyway. Maybe making it legal will make it less appealing.



It's all about either controlling yourself or letting it control you.


and a lot of maturity Chat Icon

Posted 11/15/05 12:13 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

It's all about either controlling yourself or letting it control you.

and a lot of maturity Chat Icon


True!!! I don't think I'm very mature now and I'm 26!!!!!!! Hee-Hee

Did you guys know that the US has the highest drinking age. MOst countries legal age is 18.

Posted 11/15/05 12:15 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

Posted by LadyLainez

It's all about either controlling yourself or letting it control you.


and a lot of maturity Chat Icon


True!!! I don't think I'm very mature now and I'm 26!!!!!!! Hee-Hee

Did you guys know that the US has the highest drinking age. MOst countries legal age is 18.


yes i knew..sad
but i really do not think that lowering the age really will make a difference

FOr Pete's sake our teenagers today are throwing TURKEYS at cars

sorry no beer for you

Posted 11/15/05 12:17 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

I did. My cousin, a BM, was 20 and I know she was drinking as was her boyfriend, also 20. I agree with whoever it was that said between 18 and 21, at a private party and with no worries about getting home, I don't personally have a problem with it. It is incredibly inappropriate for anyone younger than that though, IMO.

ETS: Under 18/inappropriate = at a family affair and/or at a restaurant or catering facility. I did my fair share of drinking before 18, god knows. But it was done right. You know - in the school yard, running away from cops Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 11/15/2005 12:20:15 PM.

Posted 11/15/05 12:17 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

Posted by Redhead
sorry no beer for you


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Posted 11/15/05 12:18 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

We didn't have many teens at our wedding and I don't know if the ones who were there drank. I think it's their parents responsibility to make that call. I know that I was allowed to drink before I was 21, but my parents kept and eye on me and it's not like I got smashed.
Maybe because my dad is off the boat Italian, my parents never saw drinking as that big of a deal, but I also never gave them reason to think it was that big of thing. It's not like I got watsed, I just had a few drinks at weddings and parties.

Posted 11/15/05 12:20 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

yes i knew..sad
but i really do not think that lowering the age really will make a difference

FOr Pete's sake our teenagers today are throwing TURKEYS at cars

sorry no beer for you


I know, I feel like teens today are so much more immature & irresponsible than ever before. I don't know maybe it's just me.

Posted 11/15/05 12:24 PM
 

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Re: Drinking spinoff-Did anyone have any underage drinkers at their wedding?

Posted by DjPiLL

Posted by Janice

Maybe making it legal will make it less appealing.




Um... no. Chat Icon




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