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MamaNDaddyof3
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Re: mens rooms

Posted by girlygrl33

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just because you see kids left in the car at a pizza place,7-11 or CVS DOESNT MAKE IT RIGHT!!!!!!!

doesnt make it wrong either otherwise there would be a lot of mommies behind bars for running in the store while thier 10 yr old waited in the car.



how would you feel if something happened to your child while you were in the store?
a lot can happen in 5 minutes!!!!!!


also would you leave your pocketbook or your diamon ring in the car alone in plain sight??probably not

children are worth more than that

Message edited 2/12/2006 12:43:17 PM.

Posted 2/12/06 12:41 PM
 
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Re: mens rooms

Posted by neeniebean86

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

just because you see kids left in the car at a pizza place,7-11 or CVS DOESNT MAKE IT RIGHT!!!!!!!

doesnt make it wrong either otherwise there would be a lot of mommies behind bars for running in the store while thier 10 yr old waited in the car.



it Does make it wrong, in the Eyes of the NY State government, anyway...

CHILD ABUSE AND CHILD NEGLECT LAWS IN NEW YORK STATE
According to New York State laws, the state may take children away from parents who abuse or neglect them. This includes excessive physical punishment of a child or leaving a child unattended. New York State may interfere on behalf of the child in such situations.



People run red lights- just because they dont get 'caught' everytime, doesnt mean that they didnt break the law.

but I have seen a cop pull in a parking lot a few times in fact where someone was parked in the firezone, a kid was in the passenger seat and they didnt do anything. I thought for sure b/c of where they were parked they would but I guess if the kid looks old enough that they dont need to be in a car seat I dont think the cop is going to do anything
I know this cause my DH always pulls into the firezone and I wait in the car and get nervous so I always look around and never got bothered?

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Posted 2/12/06 12:43 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

I don't understand why this has to be a legal debate? Who cares if you're going to get a ticket? Why leave your child alone in a car when we all know of the sick sick things that have happened to children?

Posted 2/12/06 12:44 PM
 

MamaNDaddyof3
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Re: mens rooms

dont you agree though that ANYTHING COUL HAPPEN???

why would you take that chance??

Message edited 2/12/2006 12:45:21 PM.

Posted 2/12/06 12:44 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by mrswask

I don't understand why this has to be a legal debate? Who cares if you're going to get a ticket? Why leave your child alone in a car when we all know of the sick sick things that have happened to children?



because i've always wanted to play a lawyer on TV, and since that probably won't happen, i thought that *this* might be my only shot Chat Icon

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Posted 2/12/06 12:46 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by neeniebean86

Posted by mrswask

I don't understand why this has to be a legal debate? Who cares if you're going to get a ticket? Why leave your child alone in a car when we all know of the sick sick things that have happened to children?



because i've always wanted to play a lawyer on TV, and since that probably won't happen, i thought that *this* might be my only shot Chat Icon

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Neen - I wasn't referring to your posting of the law, I was referring to the thought that if a cop doesn't ticket you for it, it must be ok.Chat Icon

Posted 2/12/06 12:47 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by mrswask
Neen - I wasn't referring to your posting of the law, I was referring to the thought that if a cop doesn't ticket you for it, it must be ok.Chat Icon



ok, so then i made a convincing lawyer? Chat Icon


BTW- i checked the law books... Couldn't find one against bringing a child into the Men's room. just laws about not leaving children unattended

Posted 2/12/06 12:50 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by neeniebean86

BTW- i checked the law books... Couldn't find one against bringing a child into the Men's room. just laws about not leaving children unattended


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Posted 2/12/06 12:51 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

just because you see kids left in the car at a pizza place,7-11 or CVS DOESNT MAKE IT RIGHT!!!!!!!

doesnt make it wrong either otherwise there would be a lot of mommies behind bars for running in the store while thier 10 yr old waited in the car.



how would you feel if something happened to your child while you were in the store?
a lot can happen in 5 minutes!!!!!!


also would you leave your pocketbook or your diamon ring in the car alone in plain sight??probably not

children are worth more than that



yes I have left my pocket book right on the passenger seat all the time in fact- hey if someone wants it that bad- they can have it I dont live in fear- just did it off myrtle ave in glendale queens and had to hear my aunt go OMG you cant do that someone will break the window for it cause we ran into a florist to put flowers on nanas grave- I told her too hey I live for me, if someone wants to break the window for the 10 minutes Im in the store picking out a wreath then so be it. Maybe I trust too much but I live a happy life that way too.

as for a 10 yr old, if I feel my daughter is mature enough to wait in the car for 5 minutes yes I would trust her--

5 minutes can happen anywhere, anytime Im not going to live in the what if -

I would certainly have a discussion with my daughter about safety and would have to hope and pray for the best, since no I wont be with her at every minute- she could be bicycle riding and get abducted, she could be at a friends house playing out front and get abducted, she could be in front or our house and get abducted. Can happen anywhere.

Posted 2/12/06 12:51 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by DebG

Posted by neeniebean86

BTW- i checked the law books... Couldn't find one against bringing a child into the Men's room. just laws about not leaving children unattended


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Posted 2/12/06 12:51 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

If it was her who needed to go to the bathroom then, I think it would be ok for her to run in, but DH woul be standing right outside the door...

If DH had to go, then you bet your @ss she'd go in w/ him, rather than leave her outside alone! I wouldnt even trust an attendant.... you cant trust anyone...BOTTOM LINE!

If I didnt want her to see anything, Id tell her to shut her eyes!!!!! No one is saying she has to go stand next to the urinals!

Posted 2/12/06 12:54 PM
 

MamaNDaddyof3
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Re: mens rooms

well girlygrl33 GOOD LUCK TO YOU

As for me I would never take a chance with my childs life just because I wanna live my life and not be in fear
sounds to me like you live your life in denial .....its a sick world we live in.....LIVE ACCORDINGLY

Posted 2/12/06 12:55 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

well girlygrl33 GOOD LUCK TO YOU

As for me I would never take a chance with my childs life just because I wanna live my life and not be in fear
sounds to me like you live your life in denial .....its a sick world we live in.....LIVE ACCORDINGLY



very well said

Posted 2/12/06 12:55 PM
 

MommyofG
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Re: mens rooms

Posted by mrswask

Posted by DebG

Posted by neeniebean86

BTW- i checked the law books... Couldn't find one against bringing a child into the Men's room. just laws about not leaving children unattended


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still doesnt change my mind. and as far as the ticket no one said anything about a ticket?Chat Icon
wow then I guess our law enforcers arent doing their job. thanks for the report!

Posted 2/12/06 12:56 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

well girlygrl33 GOOD LUCK TO YOU

As for me I would never take a chance with my childs life just because I wanna live my life and not be in fear
sounds to me like you live your life in denial .....its a sick world we live in.....LIVE ACCORDINGLY

Denial? Chat Icon live accordingly- I dont have to agree with YOU to live accordingly- Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

and thank you , I know I will be a wonderful mother and dont need your approval-

Posted 2/12/06 12:59 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by girlygrl33


yes I have left my pocket book right on the passenger seat all the time in fact- hey if someone wants it that bad- they can have it I dont live in fear- just did it off myrtle ave in glendale queens and had to hear my aunt go OMG you cant do that someone will break the window for it cause we ran into a florist to put flowers on nanas grave- I told her too hey I live for me, if someone wants to break the window for the 10 minutes Im in the store picking out a wreath then so be it. Maybe I trust too much but I live a happy life that way too.

as for a 10 yr old, if I feel my daughter is mature enough to wait in the car for 5 minutes yes I would trust her--

5 minutes can happen anywhere, anytime Im not going to live in the what if -

I would certainly have a discussion with my daughter about safety and would have to hope and pray for the best, since no I wont be with her at every minute- she could be bicycle riding and get abducted, she could be at a friends house playing out front and get abducted, she could be in front or our house and get abducted. Can happen anywhere.




All I can say is WOW...you must live in a wonderful world. I don't live in that world, I live in the real world. A world where I don't want my bag stolen because the loss of $$$ and the aggravation of replacing all my cards and driver's license are going to be a royal pain in the a**.
Obviously nothing bad has ever happened to you and I hope nothing bad ever does. I on the other hand have had JetSki's stolen out of my driveway, a bike stolen off my truck(it was locked), and my bag stolen from my drawer at work. I know what can happen and will do whatever I can to avoid negative things in my life. Even if that means my DH has to take our daughter into the men's room at the risk of "GASP" exposing her to men peeing.

Message edited 2/12/2006 1:01:23 PM.

Posted 2/12/06 12:59 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by girlygrl33
hey if someone wants it that bad- they can have it I dont live in fear-



i really dont mean this as a judgement at all, but i can say that I *honestly* believe that this mentality will completely change after you have a child!

and then maybe this Random guy won't seem like he did such a 'harmful' thing to his child by not wanting to leave her unattended.

Posted 2/12/06 1:00 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by girlygrl33

- I told her too hey I live for me,




Well, in my eyes when you become a parent, you live for them as well!

Yes anything can happen...but you bet that Im gonna do everything I can to protect anything from happening to him!!!!

Posted 2/12/06 1:00 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by Gertyrae

Posted by girlygrl33


yes I have left my pocket book right on the passenger seat all the time in fact- hey if someone wants it that bad- they can have it I dont live in fear- just did it off myrtle ave in glendale queens and had to hear my aunt go OMG you cant do that someone will break the window for it cause we ran into a florist to put flowers on nanas grave- I told her too hey I live for me, if someone wants to break the window for the 10 minutes Im in the store picking out a wreath then so be it. Maybe I trust too much but I live a happy life that way too.

as for a 10 yr old, if I feel my daughter is mature enough to wait in the car for 5 minutes yes I would trust her--

5 minutes can happen anywhere, anytime Im not going to live in the what if -

I would certainly have a discussion with my daughter about safety and would have to hope and pray for the best, since no I wont be with her at every minute- she could be bicycle riding and get abducted, she could be at a friends house playing out front and get abducted, she could be in front or our house and get abducted. Can happen anywhere.




All I can say is WOW...you must live in a wonderful world. I don't live in that world, I live in the real world. A world where I don't want my bag stolen because the loss of $$$ and the aggravation of replacing all my cards and driver's license are going to be a royal pain in the a**.
Obviously nothing bad has ever happened to you and I hope nothing bad ever does. I on the other hand have had JetSki's stolen out of my driveway, a bike stolen off my truck(it was locked), and my bag stolen from my drawer at work. I know what can happen and will do whatever I can to avoid negative things in my life. Even if that means my DH has to take our daughter into the men's room at the risk of "GASP" exposing her to men peeing.



oh no dont be mislead by me NOW not living in fear- I have had MANY bad things happen to me. I have one of those coach wristlets that have my $$ and cc , license in it and that comes with me in the store- my pocketbook allthough the value of itself is not cheap its no big loss to me, meaning it wont ruin my life. as far as the car- ahhh its a lease I have glass insurance too.

I do live in the real world just as you, just view things differently doesnt make either of us right or wrong or better than the other. We are just human with different points of views and how we care to live.

Posted 2/12/06 1:04 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by neeniebean86

Posted by girlygrl33
hey if someone wants it that bad- they can have it I dont live in fear-



i really dont mean this as a judgement at all, but i can say that I *honestly* believe that this mentality will completely change after you have a child!

and then maybe this Random guy won't seem like he did such a 'harmful' thing to his child by not wanting to leave her unattended.

youre right, I did say I dont have kids and if I felt my 10yr old was mature enough I think I would trust her for the 5 min run. as I would have to trust her when she goes out to play. but youre right I dont know for sure but I do know that as of right now I strongly disagree with a 10 yr girl going in a mens restroom. as far as the car, I dont know, I know now I am confident that again if she was mature enough I would but when the time comes I guess I will see for sure but I am open to it.

Posted 2/12/06 1:09 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

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Posted by girlygrl33

- I told her too hey I live for me,




Well, in my eyes when you become a parent, you live for them as well!

Yes anything can happen...but you bet that Im gonna do everything I can to protect anything from happening to him!!!!


ugh you guys , come on, I will answer all posts since I def made an impact- when I said I live for me- HELLO_ I was talking about an experience I- myself had, of course when I have children its all about them, and I would protect my lil girl as well. Him? whos himChat Icon

Posted 2/12/06 1:12 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by Princessmaris

Posted by girlygrl33

- I told her too hey I live for me,




Well, in my eyes when you become a parent, you live for them as well!

Yes anything can happen...but you bet that Im gonna do everything I can to protect anything from happening to him!!!!


ugh you guys , come on, I will answer all posts since I def made an impact- when I said I live for me- HELLO_ I was talking about an experience I- myself had, of course when I have children its all about them, and I would protect my lil girl as well. Him? whos himChat Icon



MY SON.... I was saying that I would do anything to protect him for something happening.... which means, he will be attended at all times... Better safe than sorry!

Posted 2/12/06 1:13 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

What are you not understanding...its not about trusting a 10yr old, its about the sick people out there you cant trust!

Posted 2/12/06 1:14 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

I didnt realize that my original post got so off topic but I still remain with the same answer that a 10 yr old girl does not belong in a mens room. The facts are that even if it were her father that had to use the mens room, the 12 yr old brother was still there and could have waited with her. Honestly, both 10 and 12 yr olds can go into bathrooms solo. If the father felt that she couldnt go solo then he should have waited outside the bathroom door for her to come out. I totally agree that "things can happen" but those same things can happen at schools, churches libraries. When do we make our children independent enough to use a bathroom alone? As someone said some places do have "family bathrooms" which is great in an airport or major attraction. In a movie theater like someone else said, its one way in one way out...the child will return when done. If at 10 you cant allow a child to use a bathroom alone, then its time for a full time nanny until they are 18. Its life...children need their independence at some point. Also, I dont think its "a scarring" event to go into a mens room. I think its "Inappropriate".

Posted 2/12/06 1:16 PM
 

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Re: mens rooms

I wanna tell you a story...

I was 15, I worked at fun4all.... My boss (a woman) offered to give me a ride home... I was very friendly with her (and my parents trusted me)

Well apparently she had a different agenda.... took me back to her house... where her BF was naked on the couch, and they proceeded to tell me, about the 3 some they had planned! Chat Icon

I got out, made a call.. and all was fine...

BUT I WANNA MAKE IT CLEAR...YOU CANT TRUST ANYONE>>NOT EVEN THE PEOPLE WORKING THERE (AN ATTENDANT) BECAUSE YOU JUST NEVER KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 2/12/06 1:16 PM
 
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