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Michi
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does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
my bf hates that i dye my hair..not cause he perfers blondes, to brunettes or anything.. b/c he hates anything with chemicals..and he hates that i dye it blonde, he thinks i should go natural...
i told him if he likes things 'natural' then i guess i wont be shaving/waxing ANYTHING again...
it totally irks me that he mentions this alllllll the time
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CaseyGirl
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
He tells me to stop being so paranoid about everything and I am really trying!
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| Posted 11/14/05 11:58 AM |
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randella
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
he tells me to stop complaining.. and to be honest-- I am not really complaining all the time- he just thinks anyting negative I say is a complaint. But that is the way I deal with things that make me unhappy, stressed or whatever-- I talk about it.. Anyway- it bothers me that he just thinks I am b*tching all the time..
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| Posted 11/14/05 12:03 PM |
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Christine
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
yup...that's why I stopped smoking.
I know I am better off, but he was that bad that I broke a physical and chemical addiction to get the nagging to stop.
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| Posted 11/14/05 12:10 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
he hates what he considers my negativity ... but I consider it "realism" and often think he's tooooo much of a dreamer (what he calls an "optimist"  ) We agree to disagree on that topic
Superficially... he wishes I'd wear my glasses more and cut my hair short.. NOPE to both!
Message edited 11/14/2005 12:13:18 PM.
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| Posted 11/14/05 12:12 PM |
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Christine
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
Posted by FeliciaDP
Superficially... he wishes I'd wear my glasses more and cut my hair short.. NOPE to both!
Mine too...about the short hair!! It's killing him that I am growing it out one last time so that it's long enough to make a donation to locks of love and still have enough for shoulder length hair 
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| Posted 11/14/05 12:15 PM |
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nov04libride
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
Posted by FeliciaDP
he hates what he considers my negativity ... but I consider it "realism" and often think he's tooooo much of a dreamer (what he calls an "optimist" ) We agree to disagree on that topic
Same with us!
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| Posted 11/14/05 12:16 PM |
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usuk2004
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
I'm a nibbler, he hates it, especially if he's making dinner because he says I'll ruin my appetite. I tell him that I'm an adult and quite capable of gauging my own hunger! Drives me crazy!
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| Posted 11/14/05 12:53 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
Posted by FeliciaDP
he hates what he considers my negativity ... but I consider it "realism" and often think he's tooooo much of a dreamer (what he calls an "optimist" ) We agree to disagree on that topic
That's exactly DH & I are!!!! He syas I'm negative...sorry babe just bringing you back to reality!
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| Posted 11/14/05 12:55 PM |
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Boobobunny
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
DH hates the way I eat. Before I met him he had a weight problem...so he is very cautious about what he eats...which I think is great. But he freaks out if I decide to drink a hot cocoa after dinner...because of the sugar. I have never really battled with my weight...I'm a good size now...so I see no reason that I can't enjoy my hot cocoa.
after many long drawn out conversations...I finally got him to realize that I don't need to eat the way he does...because I don't have a food obsession.
I do try to be sensative to his eating needs...so I always prepare healthy dinners...I don't keep junk food in my house. But hey...I am a woman and I do PMS and I do need chocalate.
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| Posted 11/14/05 1:25 PM |
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Bran-loves-Tom
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
Mine hates that I always look at the big picture. He also thinks I'm always bringing out the negative but I am one who looks at all aspects of things not just the here and now.
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| Posted 11/14/05 1:29 PM |
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Tanaholic
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
he would love if I ate meat and stopped smoking. But, this is how he met me!!
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| Posted 11/14/05 1:36 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
Lately I'm getting nagged that I'm "too nice".
We went to the airport & there was a woman who was complaining that her friend couldn't get a wheelchair and that she needed one. The friend was off to the side trying to lean up against her suitcase. The guy at the outside check in gate said "I called someone, we're a little backed up". After we checked in, we walked through the doors and see about 15 wheelchairs. I tell DH I'll be right back. Go wheel the chair out to her. I get back & he says "I wouldn't do that - why did you do that she was being such a b1tch to everyone." I said "Maybe her back hurts her & that's why she was being that way, and if not, maybe she'll be friendlier since someone helped her out."
This past weekend I had to hear it again after I volunteered to shoot some pictures at a park for LIF moms! Yet, he tells me that when we met he was impressed at home I was always willing to help out people (I had worked at an orphanage at one point.) What's that saying? ...Opposites attract and then annoy.
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| Posted 11/14/05 1:41 PM |
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LAMGAJ28
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
Posted by FeliciaDP
he hates what he considers my negativity ... but I consider it "realism" and often think he's tooooo much of a dreamer (what he calls an "optimist" ) We agree to disagree on that topic
We are actually on the same page but opposite from you both. I'm "Mrs. Positive" as he calls me. And he's the one that it's a bit of a pessimist....he says he's just being realistic.....
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| Posted 11/14/05 2:37 PM |
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SoinLove
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
Posted by randella
he tells me to stop complaining.. and to be honest-- I am not really complaining all the time- he just thinks anyting negative I say is a complaint. But that is the way I deal with things that make me unhappy, stressed or whatever-- I talk about it.. Anyway- it bothers me that he just thinks I am b*tching all the time..
Wow, I totally could've written this myself!
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| Posted 11/14/05 3:31 PM |
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CaidensMommy
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
Posted by randella
he tells me to stop complaining.. and to be honest-- I am not really complaining all the time- he just thinks anyting negative I say is a complaint. But that is the way I deal with things that make me unhappy, stressed or whatever-- I talk about it.. Anyway- it bothers me that he just thinks I am b*tching all the time..
My DH says the same thing to me. I'm really not bitching either! 
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| Posted 11/14/05 3:41 PM |
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Ambersmom
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
My husband is "Captain Micro-Manage" and flys around in his cape regularly on weekends to crawl up my a$$ about what I'm doing/not doing wrong. There are some days I just want to stab him. I had to put the figurative smack down on him this morning. It was just too early at 7:00 a.m. for his sheeatz.
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| Posted 11/14/05 3:46 PM |
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Sweets13
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
dh hates that I smoke...and he met when I did!!
BUT I recently quit (we are TTC) so now he nags at me to stop complainig that I feel fat!!!!!
He bought me a scale to prove that I havent gained weight just to shut me up...NOW I am obsessed with the scale...j/k
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| Posted 11/14/05 4:40 PM |
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Irishlass
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
He nags me about me nagging him all the time. I don't think trying to have a conversation about things that need to be done around the house is considered nagging. He drives me nuts with some of the things he does all the time like leaving his shoes at the front do so that when I come home I trip over them or asking him to stop slamming the sliding door so hard so that the spakle on the sheet rock wont crack any worse than it is now. awww the list goes on.
Yet he asks me not to do something once I try really hard never to do it again!
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| Posted 11/14/05 4:47 PM |
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HarleyGirlFLA
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
Superficially... he wishes I'd wear my glasses more
Same here.
And the way I eat things. He hates watching me "disect" my food. I eat the breading of an onion ring and not the actual onion. I pick the cheese out of stuffed shells and eat the cheese then eat the shell.
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| Posted 11/14/05 4:58 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
Posted by HarleyGirlFLA
And the way I eat things. He hates watching me "disect" my food. I eat the breading of an onion ring and not the actual onion. I pick the cheese out of stuffed shells and eat the cheese then eat the shell.
Oh my gosh I DO THAT TOO (and DH HATES IT!.. so do many of my friends, actually )
He says "can't you just cut a piece of something and eat it" and I'm like NO, you must remove the innerds from the outards sometimes to make it edible
Then again.. he will eat his side dish.. then his salad.. then his main course... NEVER a bite of this or a bite of that.. has to complete one item entirely before eating another..
so who is the weird one here, hmm?
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| Posted 11/14/05 5:16 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
Posted by FeliciaDP
Then again.. he will eat his side dish.. then his salad.. then his main course... NEVER a bite of this or a bite of that.. has to complete one item entirely before eating another..
so who is the weird one here, hmm?
i do that too 
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| Posted 11/14/05 5:18 PM |
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Janice
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
mine hates that I take time to put make up on and blow out my hair. He says he likes a natural look..
I don't get this at all. I don't think he realizes just how much makeup people on TV use.
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| Posted 11/14/05 5:19 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by FeliciaDP
Then again.. he will eat his side dish.. then his salad.. then his main course... NEVER a bite of this or a bite of that.. has to complete one item entirely before eating another..
so who is the weird one here, hmm?
i do that too
 I guess I never paid attention during the times we went out to dinner.. you freak you!! LMAO
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| Posted 11/14/05 5:25 PM |
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NewYawkah
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Re: does ur dh nag u about something..that you do..that you dont wanna change..
Posted by randella
he tells me to stop complaining.. and to be honest-- I am not really complaining all the time- he just thinks anyting negative I say is a complaint. But that is the way I deal with things that make me unhappy, stressed or whatever-- I talk about it.. Anyway- it bothers me that he just thinks I am b*tching all the time..
ME TOO!!!
Also, he wants me to be more confident.
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